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Would you break up with your partner if they gained weight? (Page 2)
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We gain weight as we get older and life happens so it does play a factor into it. It wouldn't bother me if my partner gained weight as long as they were healthy and it wasn't life threatening to their health.
I wonder what the answer would be if the weigt gain was 23 kg (50 lbs).
no that's stupid and whoever voted "yes" is stupid too.
No, I would just make sure they have decent life insurance.
No, that's kind of a dumb reason to break up with someone not to mention rude.
Of course not. I fall in love with a person, not their body
This is situational and the question doesn't specify how much weight. 10 lbs? No of course not. 200 lbs? Get your unhealthy ass away from my child and I. I won't be surrounded by bad habits
No, cos gaining weight would be attractive. I'm sure some of you already know why... ;)
yes especially if you are a women
your job is to be hot and look good you women don't do much for society as it is
at least look good
in a women's eyes
are job is to have resources
so that's the trade my resources
your body
prostitution at its finest
women are whores lol
Shut the fuck up u sexist piece of shit i feel sorry for any women you have been with people get smacked talkin like that your disgusting
You are so gonna end up alone in life. You may get girls until they find out who you really are. I am curious tho. How were you raised that gave you such a f'cked up view of women? I'm guessing you have mommy issues.
@howarth2469. Thanks for coming to our defense. You are a real man.
@PinkMichae no problem people like this make me so mad lol they dont know there place in the world women id say are more of a part of this society than men tbh
@PinkMichae
I WANT TO BE ALONE
lol
you women made your choice
leave me alone
unless you are giving sick
the rest of the lies from your mouth do not matter
Shut up
Nope never, if it comes to that then that means there was never no love... now I can understand if you're not attractive to them anymore then yeah
noway... I would support him to become healthy and content
Lol all the women say no because they know they will b the ones gaining weight haha... if u can't take care of urself thats a big problem
It's superficial to leave someone just because of that.
What if your boyfriend gains weight until he weighs over 400 lbs?
I'll be losing weight with him.
@PatriciaRodriguez you're still assuming best case scenario. What if he doesn't want to put in the effort to lose weight and refuses to try?
Then I'll try an alternative approach to convince him but whatever it is won't go down to leaving someone as a solution
Somehow I doubt you. Let me make the scenario clearer for you then. You're dating a 400lbs man who REFUSES to lose weight NO MATTER WHAT and finds the idea of losing weight and not being attractive at his weight to be offensive to him. You can't even bring it up without him telling you you aren't allowed to ask such things from him. He wants to be fat and ignores evidence saying fat is unhealthy, just in general refuses to even listen to a conversation about his weight. This would be fine? There is never going to be a point where weight will be too big of an issue for you?
Okay I won't talk him out of it, but I'll be around just to make sure he still eat healthy sometimes. No it won't seriously.
If you honestly mean that then I think I respect you more. I think I also pity you more, but that's because I can't stand people using me or taking me for granted anymore. Im not devoting my life to taking care of someone else, my partner needs to contribute something.
It's also a measure how that person loves you, how much he can do for you, clearly I will stand by him no matter what. Physical is never an issue for me, I'm gonna let him realize things on his own so it won't take a toll in our relationship. we can't leave a person who clearly needs us the most we just have to look after each other sometimes.
@PatriciaRodriguez what is also a measure how that person loves you?
You ignore the possibility of a partner trying to take advantage of you. How long would you be willing to support a partner who was so obese they couldn't leave the house and refused to change? The things you are saying are rather beautiful, but they feel far too naive, you need to understand that you can't always be there to look after someone else, you have needs too. Why should I or anyone else sacrifice their own needs in order to help/look after someone else who at the time is refusing to change or see things clearly?
I can understand what you mean to some extent, I went through depression for a long time and can't stand seeing others being alone/neglected when they're depressed. I certainly wouldn't let a friend go through that with no help. That said, gaining weight and choosing to not lose it is different from being depressed.
I'm not trying to demonize gaining weight, I just see a limit to supporting someone who refuses to make a change. If I was with a suicidal partner who refused to open up to me, talk to anyone, see a therapist, or even do anything about it then I think there would come a point where I would just have to leave. Like for example, if my partner went through 10 suicide attempts in 5 years of being together and refused to do anything to help herself despite continued attempts and continued depression. It would just weigh on me, but I would be able to do nothing. Eventually I would need to get away from the person, because feeling like the woman I love is on the verge of death with nothing I can do to fix it for an extended period of time would damage me, my self worth would plummit.
I've never really experienced something beyond that but I know myself I won't give up on someone that easily, I know it's too idealistic that's what people tell me, but I'd rather do things with them than force them to do things for me or worse leaving them when they can't do it, u see this type of people might be going something difficult and abandoning them isn't the best solution. I know we can't look after each other for so long but there's no love lost in trying.
There can be love lost, it can hurt a persons trust to be taken advantage of.
I know what you mean, I don't like being selfish either, but there comes a point where you need to be selfish for your own sake, self sacrifice somes with a cost too, even if you can ignore it for a while. You don't have to be abandoning them, but perhaps your behaviour is enabling them and thus causing their behaviour. Refusing to support such excessive behaviour is healthy for both parties.
When someone we love is going to the extent of destroying themselves leaving them is just refusing to watch them kill themselves slowly which is not really a solution. Let us let them get there or realise things on their own, kill them with kindness instead.
To clarify, I said you don't have to abandon them, you can get them help elsewhere, like from a professional and then leave them for a while to let them figure it out. Take a break or whatever, just so the person can't be enabled.
Well I guess that's the difference between us, I'm too naive for this world I know I heard that many times... But I'm just not the person who give up on someone. I know it might help them I may do it in the future who knows... But for now I don't see it v
And sometimes there isn't anything more you can do than watch them kill themselves slowly. If they refuse to change and make a difference and you keep supporting them, nothing will change and their unhealthy habits will persist.
@patrodriguez I guess so. I used to be really naive, but my naivete was shatted by people repeatedly lying to me and taking advantage of me. I am willing to help, but the partner needs to want the help and want to get better, they need to want to contribute back to me, if they just take, I will inevitably feel like they don't care about me or love me, they love the help I offer and the things I have, not me. I need love too, and that simply isn't what I would define as love.
Free will it's just not a challenge for me but for him as well.
If we expect people to give back the exact amount of love we give we'll end up disappointed, that's the truth. love is unconditional it doesn't nt take records of wrongs.
I disagree. Love is conditional. I can't love someone who cheats on me and refuses to take my feelings into consideration. And I wouldn't call that love on their part. I'm not expecting the same amount, I just expect something, because I refuse to be taken advantage of for the rest of my life.
The very nature of love is unconditional, it's humans who defined it the other way. I'm sorry uve ever felt that way but love in its pure nature is beyond what humans can offer. nowadays people consider it as a historical figure or overrated, but it never changed, people does. It's not love that get it all messed up its the person who defined it.
Love can't be unconditional. Could you love a cheater or someone who murdered your family? Could you love an abusive partner? If there is any factor that can stop you from loving someone then it's conditional.
Lol you went overboard, from weight gain to murder 😊
Love is a broad sense, yeah I wouldn't but every step still involves love say if I despise the person then unconditional love exists now for my family. For cheating then love is unconditional for having to give his freedom because in the first place he choose to be with someone else.
I wasn't comparing the two, I was trying to say love is conditional. If there are conditions you place on your partner that would make you leave them like not murdering your parents or not murdering people for fun then it is conditional. Whether or not weight is a condition is something that can be argued, but to argue that it's unconditional you have to say that you would continue loving your partner no matter what horrendous crime they comitted. Otherwise you'd be a hypocrite who sets conditions on love while getting upset with others for setting conditions that are different from yours.
When my ex gained weight, I was honestly less attracted to him. But we had other bigger problems than that.
I want to say yes but I don’t think I’d be able to leave if I loved them
Yes - when the case is extreme, and not caused by a medical condition. My partner knows my point; so I consider it legitimate.
No, gaining weight as you age is normal. There are also medical reasons for weight gain that only a callous or superficial person would use to end a relationship over.
It's honestly stupid if you break up with your bf/ girlfriend for gaining weight if you think of it it's just your loss as in you just blew your chance and good luck finding another gf/bf lol
I will never start a relationship with someone who is not at all fit.
A little weight gain is ok normally or due to any other reason but she must try to stay fit, exercise regularly.
How much?
Ultimately I've got to be with someone who cares about both me, and themselves and their health. It'd depend how long we've been together, and how much they end up weighing.
A person should love their partner no matter what the changes are
What if she got a sex change?
If she did i dont think she would want to be with me right lol
Why she would still like dudes.
He would just be gay now
Lets think about what you said for a moment... Why would she want to be a gay dude there would be no point in getting the change if she's going to be gay she could stay the same i know this guy that had sex changes so that he can be with guys it would make sense for him to chop it off just to stay with a girl
You clearly dont understand transgendered people sir. She was born a women but identifies has a Male. That doesn't effect her sexuality of liking males. She was just born the wrong thing.
No i understand like i said i have a couple of friend that have gone through the change and some that are in the process i talk to them to understand more and not one said they know someone who changes sexes to still be with the same sex i can go on but dont post something stupid to try and sound funny and then make yourself sound like you know what you're talking about you dont even know me to and people i know for you to fucking say i dont understand
i make it pretty clear to any girl i date that i will not date someone fat
If this was normal, you’d see a lot more single mothers
As long as the weight gain isn't too much... I'd stay )
Depends. I'm sterile so if she gains pregnancy weight, yeah, she's gone.
Depends... if I felt like it was starting to affect them and I do try to help them and they refuse and it’s just goes in a cycle then probably Yh...
If she gets so fat that I wouldn't want her, she'll die soon anyway.
I like fat women but once she gets a double chin.. come on lady, have some self control!
No like why someone breakup with there partner on gaining weight like they must be jerks
Probably not but if it becomes a health risk I'd help them lose the weight.
Nah
I would make sure they are okay, gain weight or not, doesn't matter
It depends on how much, and whether or not they we're willing to make changes.
tbh it depends how much - if it was like heaps and its a motivational issue then i would think about it but typically no
No but sooner or later she's got to do something about it because I'm in the gym busting my ass and she's over 200 pounds I don't think so
Would rather set up a training program with them in front of breaking up solely for that.
That'd be one of the most pathetic things to do... that being said, I'm EXTREMELY skeptical of that 94%
It depends on what I like best about her. I've had girlfriends in the past who have fantastic personalities and I've had girlfriends who have been incredibly beautiful. If I was with a girl for her looks and she gained weight, I'd dump her...
Depends... if they start eating like obesity... definitely. i don't want to see someone blowing up like a balloon
No. My boyfriend already has gained weight since I first met him
No!! 🙅🙅
I love him because its him
I dont care about weight, height and other things♡
You fuck it outta em Nothing like rough stuff to keep you in shape
I would sit down, cross my arms, turn away from them 45 degrees and not talk to them
depends on how much and why and how they look. nobody should say no just to seem all PC because we shouldn't be forced to be with someone we aren't attracted to
thats not saying that there aren't attractive fat girls because there definitely are, but there's a limit
Not if she hasn’t given up on getting healthy again.
Depends on how much weight. And my man will never get that bad. He takes care of himself.
The question is asking an assumption, if this happened, in this case if your partner gained a lot of weight, would you leave them or stay? To fairly answer the question you have to assume he let himself get that bad, that he became obese after you got together.
Depends how much. Its usually a sign of either being very lazy or not taking care of yourself. Niether are attractive traits and the result does affect the relationship.
Most cases no.
Serious weight gain with no attempt to be healthier, yes.
Certainly no.
To be honest, I would help and. encourage my significant other to workout and improve herself for her own benefit in the future.
No, physical appearance is unimportant to men. Unfortunately, we usually don't get the same courtesy in return
Weight doesn't matter in true relation. Weight is temporary. It can be gained and reduced just by doing exercises and workout.
What a rude question lol. Depends on if I'm with her only for the looks, of that's not the case then I wouldn't
I have a problem with this pole. What is the weight gain. Are we talking like walrus, or hey your chubby now... Your stomach is perfect for naps. WIN
Assume we're talking about "Crushing Your Pelvis if she rides you" kind of weight
Id talk to them about it
Only if her new weight is going to crush my face in when she sits on it
My preference is a healthy looking body, so I would and I'm not a shamed to say it.
I went yes but I really want a depends option if its like 10 20 lbs I don't care care but once your gaining 100s then we have aproblem
Fuck no, if you want to be with someone and love her/him u do it for who they are not for what they look like
Nah, it's more about who they are with love. However if it was medically dangerous I'd encourage a healthier lifestyle
If they don't work to get it off. I mean, it's one thing to put it on, but, it's another to just let it sit there.. and not work it off
I won't , infact she would look cute if she gained a little weight.
Depends if say something cause I want them to be healthy 10-50 no but 100 lbs or more possibly yes.
That is such an immature thing to do. -_-