No of course not, peoples weight goes up and down through out their lives, of course if they start getting unhealthy overweight, then I will intervene and give them all the love and support they need to get back into better shape!
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Well of course no. But now that she's my ex for two months and gaining weight CRAZILY... then i am very cheerful rn coz bitch i was the better man for you. I would accept her the way she was but she didn't want that. She literally had no ass, flat. I rejected the most popular girl in our school just for her... not just popular... FLAWLESS BODY, BIG ROUND VERY JUICY BOOTY PERFECT SIZED BOOBS BLONDE GREEN EYES VERY BEAUTIFULLY THICK AND SHE IS TALL TOO OMG WHAT A LOSS... and i did that for what? To be dumped for my friend? Who was like my brother? She left me for him?😂😂 I'm so stupid letting many chances of many many other girls go just for One dumb lame bitch
How much weight are we talking? I think people are thinking just a few tens of pounds maybe.. Which for most women, wouldn't be so terrible. But what about hundred (s) of pounds? How much is too much? Can you critically think about this person you love, and envision their lives a couple hundred, even 100 pounds heavier? Sex? Helping around the house/yard? Sleeping together? Managing children physically? It's not just about how they look, it's also practical.
What can of a girlfriend I'd be if I breakup with my boyfriend over this? We are humans not plastic or robots! It's normal for us to lose and gain weight.. I might be fat next year who knows!😐😐 people who breakup of silly things like that aren't worth the time thinking about them.😤
Haha.. If you break up with your partner for such a trivial matter. Then you are a fool, shallow, close minded person and best believe they will find someone better than you.
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No. More likely, I’d notice if their diet changed or something and figure out the cause of it subtly... if there wasn’t an obvious one, I might mention that I was worried about them and ask them if they had thought about getting tested for a thyroid issue or another medical issue that could lead to random weight fluctuation.
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Depends. If they gained weight to the point where they're obese and refused to get my help or work out then maybe but even then i dont think I'd be able to leave them. But if their weight affects other things like them becoming lazy and unproductive then yeah maybe that would start becoming an issue.
Only a bully would break up with someone over their weight. If anyone is one of those bullies, do everyone a favor and delete yourself from the Internet. Note: I am not talking to the question asker here.
It depends... On how much weight, I mean, overall no, but if we are talking wreckless weight gain, no concern for control, that might be a factor. But that's a very rare and exteme case of weight gain, let me show you hold on. But 99% of the time no.
I feel like a douche now... After looking at the MHG but the point I'm trying to make is that sometimes girls or women give up trying to be at a healthy weight one of my friends goes to McDonald's every day and she does not care. It's one thing if a girl is trying another thing if she's not.
But this is such an extreme case and almost unrelatable... It is appearance is always always always always second to the person, the only reason I bring up that factor is because it says something about the persons attitude. Not because she's overweight
Alright, before I get anymore down votes. and hope this can be skimmed towards the bottom... I think that you should never stop loving someone ever. Even if and when you break up. Another point is weight gain can be caused by body type, depression, anxiety, etc.. I am not going to leave girl that is going through that. To try and defend this I would really need a back and forth but even then, this is heated debate in terms of body pride. Beautiful body in any shape. I suppose the best that I can come up with that will make sense. Is that the greater a girl is in the shape, the more attractive she is. Now attraction is not love and therefore does not come close to break up status. But this can have many layers that would need more time then can be discussed here.
Never. My guy has gained like 20 lbs and so have I. We don't like it and work together to change things so we can get healthier again. But we love each other no matter what and still find each other sexy.
First off depends on how much, if it’s an unhealthy amount maybe, I don’t want my significant others health problems on my back or barring me from the physical activities I enjoy, let alone if they have a heart attack or something. But I’d be understanding and try to help them nonetheless, and if it’s just a little I don’t see a problem
Started out as having a crush on a very thin guy over 10 years ago; he's now around 4 times the size he was and I've come to realise I'm in love with him. He's bigger and I have fallen in love with him instead of lusted after him.
My SO and i have had issues due to both weight gain and weight loss actually but what ultimately matters is there health and if there giving up on themselves at that point a seperation may be the only way to help them
No. As aging happens and as life happens, weight gain will happen. It doesn't have to be like that necessarily, but its something that people can always work on. Not a deal breaker, especially as it gets more serious.
If they gained a few pounds, no I would not. If they gained so much and it affected their everyday life and their health, they were unwilling to change but complained about it all the time. Yes. Yes I would.
From the beginning of our relationship, my wife has gained and lost substantial amounts of weight numerous times. But I lived through them all and we're still together.
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No of course not, peoples weight goes up and down through out their lives, of course if they start getting unhealthy overweight, then I will intervene and give them all the love and support they need to get back into better shape!
Well of course no. But now that she's my ex for two months and gaining weight CRAZILY... then i am very cheerful rn coz bitch i was the better man for you. I would accept her the way she was but she didn't want that. She literally had no ass, flat. I rejected the most popular girl in our school just for her... not just popular... FLAWLESS BODY, BIG ROUND VERY JUICY BOOTY PERFECT SIZED BOOBS BLONDE GREEN EYES VERY BEAUTIFULLY THICK AND SHE IS TALL TOO OMG WHAT A LOSS... and i did that for what? To be dumped for my friend? Who was like my brother? She left me for him?😂😂 I'm so stupid letting many chances of many many other girls go just for One dumb lame bitch
How much weight are we talking? I think people are thinking just a few tens of pounds maybe.. Which for most women, wouldn't be so terrible. But what about hundred (s) of pounds? How much is too much? Can you critically think about this person you love, and envision their lives a couple hundred, even 100 pounds heavier? Sex? Helping around the house/yard? Sleeping together? Managing children physically? It's not just about how they look, it's also practical.
What can of a girlfriend I'd be if I breakup with my boyfriend over this? We are humans not plastic or robots! It's normal for us to lose and gain weight.. I might be fat next year who knows!😐😐 people who breakup of silly things like that aren't worth the time thinking about them.😤
Haha.. If you break up with your partner for such a trivial matter. Then you are a fool, shallow, close minded person and best believe they will find someone better than you.
No. More likely, I’d notice if their diet changed or something and figure out the cause of it subtly... if there wasn’t an obvious one, I might mention that I was worried about them and ask them if they had thought about getting tested for a thyroid issue or another medical issue that could lead to random weight fluctuation.
Depends. If they gained weight to the point where they're obese and refused to get my help or work out then maybe but even then i dont think I'd be able to leave them. But if their weight affects other things like them becoming lazy and unproductive then yeah maybe that would start becoming an issue.
Only a bully would break up with someone over their weight. If anyone is one of those bullies, do everyone a favor and delete yourself from the Internet. Note: I am not talking to the question asker here.
It depends... On how much weight, I mean, overall no, but if we are talking wreckless weight gain, no concern for control, that might be a factor. But that's a very rare and exteme case of weight gain, let me show you hold on. But 99% of the time no.
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A person is a person even if they have extra weight but if a girl gives up trying to be healthy that is concerning for me
I feel like a douche now... After looking at the MHG but the point I'm trying to make is that sometimes girls or women give up trying to be at a healthy weight one of my friends goes to McDonald's every day and she does not care. It's one thing if a girl is trying another thing if she's not.
But this is such an extreme case and almost unrelatable... It is appearance is always always always always second to the person, the only reason I bring up that factor is because it says something about the persons attitude. Not because she's overweight
I've probably dug my own grave anyway... And I just keep digging the more I try to explain
Alright, before I get anymore down votes. and hope this can be skimmed towards the bottom... I think that you should never stop loving someone ever. Even if and when you break up. Another point is weight gain can be caused by body type, depression, anxiety, etc.. I am not going to leave girl that is going through that. To try and defend this I would really need a back and forth but even then, this is heated debate in terms of body pride. Beautiful body in any shape. I suppose the best that I can come up with that will make sense. Is that the greater a girl is in the shape, the more attractive she is. Now attraction is not love and therefore does not come close to break up status. But this can have many layers that would need more time then can be discussed here.
Never. My guy has gained like 20 lbs and so have I. We don't like it and work together to change things so we can get healthier again. But we love each other no matter what and still find each other sexy.
First off depends on how much, if it’s an unhealthy amount maybe, I don’t want my significant others health problems on my back or barring me from the physical activities I enjoy, let alone if they have a heart attack or something. But I’d be understanding and try to help them nonetheless, and if it’s just a little I don’t see a problem
Started out as having a crush on a very thin guy over 10 years ago; he's now around 4 times the size he was and I've come to realise I'm in love with him. He's bigger and I have fallen in love with him instead of lusted after him.
My SO and i have had issues due to both weight gain and weight loss actually but what ultimately matters is there health and if there giving up on themselves at that point a seperation may be the only way to help them
I would first urge them to do something about their weight gain.
If they show no effort to change, then I would break up with them.
That being said, it would, of course, depend on the amount of weight gain and the reasons why it happened.
Only if they refused to eat healthy and try to lose the weight. I would ask them to work out with me and we'd eat together and be healthy together.
No. As aging happens and as life happens, weight gain will happen. It doesn't have to be like that necessarily, but its something that people can always work on. Not a deal breaker, especially as it gets more serious.
If they gained a few pounds, no I would not. If they gained so much and it affected their everyday life and their health, they were unwilling to change but complained about it all the time. Yes. Yes I would.
No, never. I never had a girlfriend based on just their body.
From the beginning of our relationship, my wife has gained and lost substantial amounts of weight numerous times. But I lived through them all and we're still together.
If a person broke up with their partner simply for gaining weight then that is shallow!
How funny! I received a down vote from a shallow bloke lol 😂😂