What weight do you prefer for your man/woman? What can't you stand? Does it even matter to you?

[DedCriCri]

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A man/womans weight doesn't matter to me when I'm in a relationship.

I prefer obesity over all other options.

I prefer overweight men and women when in a relationship.

I prefer my S. O. to be average.

I want my S. O. to be thinner than average.

I prefer boney men/women.

Other (please add an opinion)

[TheUniqueOne96]

PREFERENCES:

Body type - slim thicc
Height - same as myself
Weight - same as myself

I've never been with anyone before, but I PREFER the 'slim thicc' body type and the same height as myself, so weight wise, we'd be close.

The above are my PREFERENCES however, but I'm okay with someone who doesn't fall under them, but here's some that put me off:

Body type - overly fat & maybe overly muscular
Height - a lot taller than me (may not matter if I meet the right person)
Weight - much, much heavier than me

[usaf2000]

When I'm in a relationship, it's not because of they're looks. It's because of their personality. My current girlfriend is overweight and has down sydrome but I still love her with all my heart. She's my world

[saeyamazaki]

Okay, weight doesn’t matter to me at all. But I know that where I’m from being fat or overweight is not an option and will put you in the 4% categories. Even my boyfriend weighs like 57 kgs and i only weigh 42.5 and no girl likes weight over 55 and guys over 65. So I also think it depends for social and beauty standards.

[Allie_Oops]

Yeah, but your Asian. Physically, that's not overweight for you but literally no other race is built to be that small. I'm black and if I was 42.5kg, I would be considered severely underweight and malnourished. A black male who is say 6ft tall and in shape would be between 180lbs-200lbs just because we have more muscle mass and a different body build and different bone densities. That's not social or beauty standards, that's just science.

[saeyamazaki]

@Allie_Oops I think that yeah it is science but also how people think of it social because if let's say you you see being healthy weight would be in the 60's for female and male so seeing a population go under that for beauty standards is actually quite bad.

[Allie_Oops]

Most Western societies associate health with beauty, though. Being 42.5 KG isn't considered beautiful here unless you're under 5 ft. tall because it's not healthy. Most likely, you'll be asked to get treatment like in the case of Eugenia Cooney. Asian societies from what I understand tend to separate the two.

[saeyamazaki]

@Allie_Oops Yeah nope not like her. She's like 30 kgs and she looks tall too...

[inmensus]

It can go from slightly overweight, to average, to slightly underweight. As long as they're healthy I don't mind. But I'd like to be with someone that cares about their weight.

[midnightmoon05]

Proportionate, physically fit. Healty most important of all.

[megaman242]

Truth be told I prefer between skinny and little to grab on to. But optimal is average. To have little bit of belly is ok, but the more fat someone is the less sex there will be in the relationship. I can love someone for their brains and personality and be so deep in love you have no idea, but I can't control how my body reacts to their body that's just how it is with me and I have no control over it. The closest thing I can get to answer is that I'm attracted to health, and the more unhealthy someone is the less attracted I get and it grosses me out in some lvl.

[OnitheWanderer]

First of all, if I'm in a relationship I wouldn't care about my partner's weight except if her weight starts to affect her way of life or health then I am concerned. With that being said I prefer my S. O. to have a bit of more meat in her body (like curvy, chubby, voluptuous etc) and maybe a bit overweight but most come with height. Not a sexist just being honest.

[BlueWalker]

To be completely honest, I like all those body types. I have MANY body shapes and sizes that I find attractive, and I would happily date (and marry) any woman with any one of those body types. Love is where you find it and true love is not a measurement. 😉

[Spawnface]

I generally don't find overweight girls attractive. I prefer thinner girls. In my experience, I have met more compatible thinner girls than bigger girls. In otherwords, I try to avoid crazy at all costs and the few I take interest in have always been a healthy weight.

[Jackofblades96]

It doesn't matter at all. Although i do find curves very appealing i honestly dont think there is a correlation between personality and bodytype and its all about the personality

[vannefftor]

Skinny girls are terribly unhealthy and self conscious and fat girls are typically clinically ones and thus somewhat mentally Ill. Watching your weight and lifestyle is key to attraction. Probably hard to keep weight off later in life but until you have a significant health issue that prevents proper exercise, obesity is obesity.

[vannefftor]

Clinically obese*

[kay1523]

Someone more on the fit side. Since i want them to be healthy and part of being healthy is excusing on a regular basis. So being fit would just naturally happen with excuse and a balanced diet.

[emmily2396]

I prefer men that are fit. I workout too so I won't settle for someone lazier than me. Weight doesn't mean anything. You can be overweight by BMI dtandards and have less body fat than someone in the healthy range.

[BulletproofNY]

At last someone that understand that BMI is completely useless!! Yes, I always look at body fat not BMI

[MarkTheory]

So what if someone worked out a decent amount but is still lazy

[The_FallenOne]

At least someone here is telling the truth and not being fake saying "weight doesn't matter to me." When we all know thats a damn lie.

[alex_4rex]

Average or perhaps even higher than it depending on the body type. I don't find anorexia ruins hot and i don't find fat people hot, healthy is making people hot in my opinion

[freakyzeaky]

I don't really dig skinny or fat/obese. One of the reasons why I am focusing on fitness myself. So for me, it would be fit, average, voluptuous, or curvaceous.

[vita00]

Skinny boys>>muscular boys
The reason is because most of muscular boys (in my experience) were selfish, cheaters, liars, the list goes on.

[Benedek38]

I prefer normal to fit women. I won't use average, because the average woman (and the average man) is overweight in many first world countries.

[ShadowofRegret]

I like a woman who is fit and in good shape and at a healthy weight, not overweight, but not underweight either.😊

[Phanta]

I would be happy with a woman who only weighed 120 lbs. and happy with a woman who weighed over 600 lbs. if they were nice people.

[Anonymous]

Thin is the only attractive characteristic.

[Jackofblades96]

Personally i'd rather shag the one on the right. left looks like a bitch

[Opinion Owner]

Haha suuuuure.

[sageevalentine]

@Jackofblades96 I hope I'm not rude, but why is it you think pretty girls are automatically bitchy? You don't even know her. If you met in real life, you'd find her intimidating, which is why you see her as bitch. Because you know that she wouldn't be attracted to you.

[Jackofblades96]

Yeah that, and the prettiest people are always vain assholes thats why they're so pretty, they care enough to be obsessed
Obviously i didn't mean every single pretty girl is a bitch but most of them are narcisistic

[1828avaava1828]

average im good with. its more how they move for me. i like when then are athletic as far as agility, smooothness, coordination!
but personality is most important!

[ForteExe]

Look up a BMI calculator. I'd want my girlfriend/wife to be within the BMI range. A little over or under is fine, but just a little. It also depends on how weight is distributed on her.

[lforman007]

They have to be healthy. Not very skinny but not fat. I would like their lifestyle to reflect mine.

[Sevenpointfive]

i'd rather see a girls ribcage than a girl eating ribs

[Jemini_Crocket]

Average but ideally well build. Skinny isn't attractive to me.