Do you care how much you partner weighs?

[Anonymous]

[AaronKrieger]

As long as it isn't drastically impacting her health I do not care at all about what the number says on the scale.

[The-Stud]

Yes I don't wish that to be extremely obese or skinny

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I don’t have a partner but when I did, we both cared about each other’s health.

He’d often tell me he wanted us to set a great example for our future kids, eating healthy, sleeping healthy and overall being healthy.

[jennifer_bloom]

I factor in weight but it’s not the only thing I care about and if a guy has a good personality then being too big is something I will overlook and maybe not even notice.

[Apple1996]

Nope I don't care at all

[Anonymous]

That question isn't very specific. Do I care? Yes, I think EVERYBODY does. Do I care that much? Well now we're getting into opinion on what is acceptable. The last woman I was attracted to weighed 225lbs. And she told me she was obese by BMI standards.

The thing is people come in different shapes and sizes you can't use an arbitrary weight to judge everyone. I should know! I'm 6'5" 250lbs. If I didn't tell you my height you might conclude I'm heavyset as the avg. guy weighs like 180lbs. A guy who's a foot shorter than me is going to weigh a whole lot less than me. And I'll fully admit I am overweight. But I'm quite gangly and am frequently guessed to be about 50lbs. Lighter than I am. Which always makes me laugh. Because as I said I'm overweight. But it just goes to show you how we judge people as a society. Less on facts and more on appearance. In short, no i don't care how much my partner weighs if I'm attracted to her. But there is a limit. When is the last time you saw someone gorgeous that weighed over 300lbs? Unless you're over 7 foot tall no one should weigh over 300 lbs.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Not in the sense of "what does the scale say" because that alone is a lousy measurement of fitness. The woman weighing 150lbs who rocks it out at her dojo and spars with the men is different than the one who rolls it over on the sofa and only has "picking up the next cookie" for physical activity. I DO care if she's in shape or not, because I lead an active life and I expect her to be able to participate in it. I've known plenty of people with a low number on the scale who were super out of shape. At least they looked better on my arm for the night than somebody who looks like Lizzo, but ultimately it's not going anywhere serious either way.

[Drumlin2001]

OH has always been big, put on weight with two pregnancies. To an extent it dosent matter, but I would like her to lose some of the weight for health reasons. Its not healthy to carry such weight, we both need to lose weight to be a good example for kids

[Anonymous]

To a point. Gaining/losing weight will come and go, but if it's to a point where a doctor is saying you're getting Diabetes, your cholesterol is far too high, you are morbidly obese, then I care A LOT because I care about the person and want to see them live longer and at that pace, they won't. I've had family members die like that. It's not pleasant to just ignore it and pretend it doesn't matter.

[pethouse]

I ain’t got a partner but I got two cats and a dog. I do care much about there weight tho. I myself tho don’t mind if she’s “heavier” as long as she looks good. I’m 175-180 and I don’t even look that heavy. All my friends who are way taller then me are like “dude how much do you weigh how are you so heavy” because I’m a lot heavier then I look.

[deus_ex_sisyphus]

The activities I enjoy doing, a fat person cannot do well. For a partner, I always look for someone who can push me to the next level, at a minimum keep up with me. If you cannot do that then I'd consider us incompatible as lovers; I'd probably friend zone you.

[NZGirl07]

Not too much. My partner and I have both gained weight since we started dating. But we are both keen to gym and get fitter. Weight doesn't both either of us unless it gets very excessive (either way) and interferes with life.

[DannyUk2017]

Haha.. love the conffidence that the female counterpart says No, behind a screen, but in Reality is a total different picture... Been there, done that! So in my experience.. it counts! And it counts a lot! 😉🤫

[IslaTheWitch]

I don't look on the scale. Health is the best measure.

[sage2021]

Of course it all depends. If they stay around the same weight as when I met them, then that's what I like.

But if they gain hundreds of pounds, then I don't think I could handle that.

[Tim2nice]

No. As long as she loves me and treats me right then her weight doesn’t bother me at all. It’s her heart and mind I’m interested.

[Saiesh30]

It doesn't matter as in how much does she weigh but I do ask her to keep working out to be fit and healthy.

[HaleyCatgirl]

As long as he works out with me I'm fine with it it's really boring working out alone lol

[Lisia]

I don't care. Weight gain is a sign of a healthy relationship tbh! And as a foodie I'd also want a foodie

[Joshydavid25]

Yeah, to a certain extent.. Wouldn't want her weighing 300lbs.. Or weighing 100lbs.. But as long as they don't look obese or anorexic, I don't really take weight into account.

[Jazzy54]

Let me just put it this way. I don’t want a lazy slob nor do I want a gym rat who’s obsessed with staying in shape.

[bededazzle]

yes, i like my imaginary girlfriend to remain at zero pounds

[Billlewis]

I much prefer that she weigh at least two hundred pounds, or close to it.

[sage2021]

@Billiewis
Oh, so you like the BBW huh?

[Billlewis]

@sage2021 Yes, ma'am.

[strateguy632]

that sounds like thin shaming. if we can't be mean to fat we also can't be mean to thin.

[12karen]

Yes, my partner need to be healthy, not too thin not too fat. His health is more important than his figure.

[TallGuy8383]

To a point yes. Keep it within healthy range. Everyone likes to splurge on food and go overboard at times but. We try to keep our goal weight within reach, like within 10 pounds ish

[strateguy632]

exactly bmi allows about 10 in each direction from ideal bmi.

[sheikalana]

No, as long as he looks good I don’t care about his weight.

[syncheart]

I want them to have healthy weight. So the answer is yes.

[MysticDevice]

Yup. There is a point where would turn someone down.

[haana]

not really as long as he’s not morbidly obese/too skinny, affecting his health and life

[MissBoogus]

If he’s too skinny I start to worry about his health, but otherwise nope! Tbh bigger the better 🥵

[DextroShade]

Yes, being fat is completely unacceptable and she knows that.

[Iron_Man]

No, of course not but I don’t want her to light

[Anonymous]

No and their weight has no bearing on whether I am attracted to them or not

[Charliefretz329]

Totally! Healthy is important! And laziness doesn’t turn me on or attract my attention

[KonkeyDong]

Only if its worrisome. For example, my Ex was underweight. I wanted to make sure she ate well, etc.

[Shiva1312]

If you are fat then you also know how useless you look, so get fit

[Amur8711]

Yes! They need to be healthy and not their body activity killing itself

[Nikki1989]

Nope, I never think about it.

[Fuentes]

I ain't dating no whales lol

[PendJes]

I do, I am fit and I like fit men

[AnnieSW]

To a certain point yes

[Yannae]

I do. She has to stay healthy.

[Imaguyandagirl]

No, I don't care personality is what matters

[MaxUsefull]

Yes, of course

[Anonymous]

yes I did... because I am 100 kgg

[TheSpaceGnome]

Yup.

[Anonymous]

No, especially if she has the curves

[love_conquers_lust]

Yes.

[jahaims]

Yeah

[Joker_]

yes.

[dudeinohio]

Not really

[msc545]

I care a lot.