I kind of just need someone to relate to me I’m not a girl ask guy person I just need someone to talk to, or to at least relate to me. I’ve always had a belly and Been bigger than my friends. This is a pic with me and my two coworkers at the beach and as you can see There is a clearly a difference in waist diameter 😔. They are both constantly trying to get me to go to the gym with them but it’s really not my thing. I definitely eat a hamburger and have a few beers when they have their vodka soda and salad when we go out. I've just always been the chubbier girl out of all my friends and I’ve just gotten used to it. But for some reason it’s starting to drain on me and I’m wishing I had a small waist and a fit body like the rest of them. Is anyone else going through this?