What do guys think of skinny girls?

[stardust101]

I noticed these days, most people aren’t skinny/thin whatever you want to call it. So, I’m wondering, what do you think of a skinny/thin girl when you see one? Does she look anorexic? Is she attractive? I’m asking because I’m thin. I’m 5’7” and weigh 120 lbs. now, I do eat... just not enough. The thing is I hate eating. I love food but I hate interrupting my day with eating and I only eat when I have to. So, I’m trying to break this bad habit because I can lose weight and not even know it until my belt loop is a notch smaller. I’m pretty active and have a ton of energy. I’m a hard worker which is why my arms are buff and I have a toned body, but I don’t work out. I gain muscle extremely easily and have had to really focus on lowering my metabolism for the past year which has helped me not lose so much weight as quickly. I’m just tired of people commenting on my weight. I have a lot of friends but they are all thick. Plus, if you could give me any ideas on how to gain weight I would appreciate it. I don’t want to mix and drink protein shakes everyday. In fact, I feel like the extra protein will just make me gain more muscle.

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I’m also feeling a little self conscious these days due to the fact my ex boyfriend skinny shamed me. I didn’t have a problem with my weight until I got with him and he said my body was too hard and that men like soft bodies on women. I can’t help my genetics. And yes, I’m blaming my genetics.

[mrsingle]

@stardust101 I have the same issue as you but for guys that are too thin we are teased and called weak, and many girls find us unattractive. My legs are toned but not so much my arms, how do you slow your metabolism? I try to eat lots of peanut butter and milk and those protein bars, and frequent small meals. But you need a balanced diet too not just fats and proteins.

For your question, thin girls are attractive but only if it’s a healthy thin, ex not anorexic. If like you for example a girl eats but doesn’t put on much weight that’s ok because it’s out of her control. Same for plus size girls that try to be healthy but for some no matter what can’t lose the weight.

Your body dimensions sound like you’d look average and not overly thin. If you wear belted jeans that’s a sexy look, I just assumed you do from what you typed and you probably have to yank your jeans up being thin, so a belt is kind of a necessity :D I don’t know if you live in the US but American Eagle has great clothing for tall and thin body frames I shop there often.
I hope my advice helps and your topic has helped me too!

[stardust101]

Well, how skinny are you? I’m not anorexic, however, if I gained 20 lbs I would look really good. When I gain weight, I don’t just gain it in one area, the weight is evenly distributed throughout my body, so, It’s hard to tell I put on 3-5 lbs. I would have to gain at least double that for it to be noticeable.

And I slowed my metabolism down by eating junk food. Of course, I still eat fruits and vegetables, but I’ve been eating junk food like granola bars and candy, ice cream, instant oatmeal packets that have a ton of sugar, waffles, pancakes, whatever the hell I want. But, my cholesterol is normal and I’m underweight. And lately I’ve been eating more of a balanced diet. The foods I do stay away from because I just don’t like it are foods that are high in preservatives like boxed Mac n cheese, pasta Roni, and foods like that. I ate frozen TV dinners everyday for 18 months but then my stove broke so I bought a instant pot and now I’m gonna start making my meals in there. I love Greek yogurt, cheese, and pistachios. If I eat peanut butter then i’ll Eat it on ritz crackers or graham crackers with a glass of milk. my ex boyfriend would make me these really thick and disgusting peanut butter protein shakes that were like 800 calories and then he got really mad that I stopped drinking them 🤮lol

[stardust101]

My oven broke I mean. I don’t use the microwave for often

[mrsingle]

I’m 6’3” 125 pounds. I eat what you do too but don’t gain weight. I’m hungry every two hours even if I eat a big meal, I had al tests done and doctors found nothing wrong.
You sound like your close to an ideal weight so I wouldn’t worry much. For me finding clothes that fit are the hardest either pants are too short or too big in the waist so I need a belt, thin people problems lol

[stardust101]

Wow you are super tall! And skinny. But, it’s ok. It’s not like you can change that about yourself now should you feel like you have to. I just want to be healthy. And I’m not right now. Thin people problems are really annoying actually, I feel your pain

[mrsingle]

Thanks for MHO 😊

[cavmanier]

I am personally only attracted to thin girls and I would not date an overweight girl. I would rather be single for life. I'm assuming you live in the West where most of us are fat or overweight? What I think happens is those people tend to want you to look like them for whatever reason.

I've had this said to me before many times. Fat people sometimes you want me to look like them lol. I personally do not consider there opinion about me important.

It's a shame that you had a boyfriend that didn't like thin women. Whenever I'm with a girlfriend obviously I'm attracted to them and I well let them know what I find attractive about them so their ego will increase. Unfortunately the opposite happened to you.

[Harmseygrace]

My ex boyfriend skinny shamed me too. He obviously didn't deserve you and you'll find much, much better. My now boyfriend loves that I'm skinny. It just depends on the guy.

[Lyndsielee666]

I weigh 86 pounds and people love me 🤷‍♀️😂

[Lyndsielee666]

Also as for your ex boyfriend. He didn’t deserve you. Be thankful he’s gone

[stardust101]

Amen sister 😊

[_SOARER_]

Skinny women can look attractive. You sound especially thin, but what your ex did was not ok
You acknowledge you are naturally skinny, but you have some bad dietary habits.
I think you should adjust your diet a little bit and keep living your lifestyle, you sound fine and healthy.

[coolbreeze]

Skinny girls are cute and nothing wrong with being the way you are. You have great genetics.

[stardust101]

Thanks ❤️

[coolbreeze]

Your very welcome.❤️

[sweet_casanova]

"I’m pretty active and have a ton of energy. I’m a hard worker which is why my arms are buff and I have a toned body, but I don’t work out."
I haven't seen you but after reading this I already like you.

[Kurαȷ]

I'm personally only attracted to skinny.
I wouldn't even call your weight ideal, just good.
To think that where you live people get skinny shamed for having your weight, it's laughable.

[MannMitAntworten]

I pretty much date nothing but slender women. Your height and weight would pretty much fall in there. Ignore exes. That is why 'ex' is placed before them anyway.

[BunnyHare]

We guys like skinny girls, except those guys who have a fat fetish.

[stardust101]

My ex had a fat fetish and didn’t tell me until a year later 🙄

[stardust101]

Oh and then he said “chubby girls cuddle better” and “chubby girls are better in bed.”

[cavmanier]

Was your ex a pudgy guy himself?

[stardust101]

@cavmanier yes

[cavmanier]

Well that's why then. People are inclined to be more attracted to what they resemble themselves whether it's because they get used to that body how that body type is reality for them or they are insecure about the other body type being more attractive. I know I'm so used to having a slim, fit body that if I were to touch a fat woman it would feel like a completely different experience than what I'm used to with thin women. And it wouldn't be a good experience lol.

[stardust101]

@cavmanier thin people are nice to look at but a lot of guys are going for the big chicks because they’re more fun in bed. Men are embarrassed to admit it. And also, I prefer a teddy bear type guy as a partner. I don't know why though I just do.

[cavmanier]

"thin people are nice to look at but a lot of guys are going for the big chicks because they’re more fun in bed"
Rofl okay. I am personally not attracted to big women so I wouldn't know if they are fun in bed. I know that I wouldn't want to touch one so sex would not be desirable with them at all for me. I personally believe that most men do not want big women. Go look at the top watched porn stars on porn hub. There are zero to few chubby women anywhere near the top of the most watched list. I believe guys usually like big chicks because that's what they believe they can get. Thin women are in much more demand.

"And also, I prefer a teddy bear type guy as a partner. I don't know why though I just do."
That's cool. You are in the minority too.

[red_knight]

You're ex is a fuck tart bitch. Skinny girls are the sexiest turn on for me. I love everything about them.. I'm sure you'll get someone you deserve

No offence to my plumpier people out there..

[Thatsamazing]

You mean what do guys think of girls who are actually objectively attractive? Uhhhh gee let me think; that's a toughie.

[okeydoke]

I like thin women and I’m thin as well. As long as you’re healthy, screw what anyone else has to say.

[mk200195]

Well i guess i find them extremely attractive they may not end up as the most desiring body type but they often have a great face sculpture.

[pizzalovershouse]

It's ok as long as you keep in shape an care about your self some of us let our selfs go cuz we hate who we are me I've done that an learnt to be happy an hot mu self in shape

[Fromdusktilldawn]

I think that they have a too "boyish" body. If she got a cute face its ok

[Surely]

To me, your height and weight are good for each other.
You say you are healthy and have energy to do your work. Forget what other people say and enjoy life.

[CentralSD]

I really like thin/skinny women as long as they do not have an eating disorder! Petite is really attractive too!

[RobertToast1828]

"Have you ever seen a tall, handsome man walk hand-in-hand with a short, fat, ugly girl? I never saw that. Did you ever see that? I never saw that!"

[AynonOMouse]

I like skinny petite girls the most.

[valentine74]

My woman is skinny and I love her

[Princeofaljazra]

skinny girls are most loved
top notch

[Rundown]

Some guys like it, some don't

[stardust101]

Umm ok. What do YOU like?

[Rundown]

Doesn't matter, I'm not your boyfriend

[stardust101]

Perhaps I should have created a poll. Look, I’m trying to find the ratio here of guys liking skinny girls vs guys liking bigger women

[Rundown]

That's just it, we're just random people

Our opinions here don't matter

We're not yuour boyfriend!

[Iron_Man]

They are hot