Girls do you find a guy that's fit more appealing?

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Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

Of course! Just like most men find fit women more attractive than one that's out of shape. However, that's the case with everyone. As a matter of fact, the majority of my exes and guys I've been interested in were out of shape or obese. But that's because they had a great personality, intelligence, and they were sweet to me so that caught my attention more than their looks.

But as someone that is fit and likes to exercise, of course I would prefer a fit guy that can exercise with me and help me stay in shape.

estelle_ · Accepted Answer

This one, for me anyway, is a bit tricky.. yes and no?
For an initial glance and superficial answer, yes. Especially when I'm at the fertile point of my cycle,, I'll see a guy go by on the street and all I can see is if he's fit or not and go oof he's hot. But for anything substantial? Not really, no. Fitness plays no role in whether I find someone more appealing in terms of having a relationship. That depends on character and values for me.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

Growing up, I was always fit & athletic. I usually attracted fit & athletic guys. They were  more noticeable because they had more confidence enough to court me  even though I wasn't picky. I got used to being surrounded with  these types  because they  were the only ones making efforts . It became a norm and so I narrowed my criteria.

VVVVS · Answer

I choose brains over brawns. I would date a guy who is a great conversationalist, doesn’t take himself too seriously, and have the ambition to pursue his dreams. Most of the time, people who fit into that profile have decent bodies too, cos they are likely to have high standards for themselves and are disciplined when it comes to lifestyle choices.

1Sophisticatedme · Answer

hell ya!!! Anything that says i look after myself. I been with man who say I am fit, but I meet them and they are sooo over weight and sit and whine and complain about life... and eat and then a walk to the bathroom is their exercise for the day... so i go for man who looks after themselves and actually does it.

Prettygirlblonde · Answer

I would say yes, but that's because I know that they take care of themselves. the healthier we're being, the better we look. when people used to do actual labor, they didn't need to worry about working out. but now that's neglected and people are just bleh sometimes.
you don't often realize it until you are healthier.

thegirlfromthething · Answer

Yes, as long as he’s not so fit that he gets extremely bulky or chiseled. That guy in the photo is an example of someone who is too toned for my liking.

I_make_me_anxious · Answer

Yeah, but I like when they’re fit but also able to be gentle cause I like to wrestle with guys and I like it when they can wrestle but still be gentle

Smoke-n-Growls · Answer

Yes. He's at the least capable of looking after himself, and generally fit people are able to transfer that same capacity for discipline and success to other parts of their lives.

jeemm · Answer

Anything more than the guy in the pic would start to look unattractive. I prefer guys who look like they live a healthy lifestyle. Not skinny and not fat. Works out occasionally but not excessively.

Sbgirl · Answer

I guess aesthetically it looks healthier and more conventionally attractive. However, six packs etc. don't really do anything for me.

Anonymous · Answer

No, not at all. Though I do find this guy attractive instead.  He is very attractive, don’t you think?

Suzzz334 · Answer

I prefer the “Dad” bod myself. Not fat but not skinny

CriticalDiscourse · Answer

I think most people would agree yes, but some people prefer other body types.

SexyAshh · Answer

Idc if they are neccesarily fit, but i want them to be in decent shape and eat healthy. I usually look more so at the face, hair and teeth

Lottielane · Answer

Im attracted to guys all shapes and sizes, i don't find it that important

leahzrc · Answer

i wouldn't take that into consideration if i was choosing between people

girlzruleboyzdrool · Answer

Yes, for the fact they take care of themselves. So not just a body thing but the reason behind it

Saturnxox · Answer

Not my preference. I would refuse them because of their body but I like a softer look on a guy.

brightsun_ · Answer

it has very little to do with whether I find a guy attractive as long as the guy is not too unfit, meaning morbidly obese.

PaganWarrior · Answer

Well, yeah... I wouldn't want to go out with someone who is morbidly obese.

Agem123 · Answer

Of course. That's why I'm dating a football player, lol

Lilac1104 · Answer

Definitely not, I personally like the dad bod. The fit bod is nice to look at but it doesn’t provide the cuddling comfort that a dad bod does.

inasjdj · Answer

A guy with a dad bod, tattoos and a beard makes my heart pound. But they dont like me cause I'm bigger. Bigger men dont like bigger girls.

grool98 · Answer

Sure but it would be a turn off if his personality was not as attractive

Anonymous · Answer

It shows that they care about their body, which is also a sign they can take care of themselves well. It is appealing, 1st to look at, 2nd to also have the push to keeping fit too.

SwanHale · Answer

No, I do not. What so ever.

bigmisssunshine · Answer

It’s definitely more aesthetically attractive.

queenbball · Answer

No I prefer thin, feminine guys.

wildekatie101 · Answer

Yeah sometimes but personality is a bigger thing

mixedforever29 · Answer

yes..

Account · Answer

No, I like lanky.

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