Im disgusted with my body?

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I hate my broad shoulders and upper arms. I look fat. I feel no man likes my type of body. What can I do to improve? I’m losing weight on my bottom half than anything else. I’m also 5”2 petite body. I job almost everyday 30-1 hour. Is my body an allle shape, triangle? Help me know what my body and what it needs to look decent

Screenwriter · Accepted Answer

You need to lift weights to tone your upper arms. Your shape is rectangular: hips, shoulders equally wide, sort of straight up and down.

Sure: work on losing about 15 pounds and see how that looks and feels. By Jan 25th, you might be able to do that with a modest Weight Watchers meal plan and adding five days a week of at least 20-30 mins of walking, biking. Tone will only come from weight lifting once or twice a week.

Remember to have modest goals and lose slowly. Always allow yourself treats. Manicure. makeup. Some cookies every third or fifth day. If you don't have treats, you can't keep to any eating plan. Eat lean as per meat. Lots of veggies, snack on fruits to get your sugar fix w/o cookies, ice cream. Avoid high fat snacks like chips. Use wraps instead of bread to make sandwiches. Eat salads with lunch and dinner to fill you up.

Just little tricks like that help and while changing eating habits, add walking before dinner or after dinner to get some air, some sun and to reduce stress. If you have to, walk inside at a nearby gym. Treadmills are TOO dull. Have variety. If it's only to change where you walk, or bike, do THAT!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Only thing you’re lacking is: confidence.

You have a feminine body. Maybe try to dress like it to feel like it. Try wearing lower cut bralettes or scoop neck bras. It may be under your clothing, but wearing pretty undergarments can really boost how sexy and confident you feel. I highly recommend it. Wear lacy bras, low cut, scoop cut, push up, lace underwear’s, matching sets, etc.

Wear clothing that accentuates your shape. I think shorter dresses (knee length) would really suit you. Also try out wearing crop tops with high waisted pants. You have a nice figure. You just need to figure out what type of clothing helps you feel most confident, sexy, and feminine.

Trust me girl, you’re body is perfect the way it is.

And if you’re still unhappy after a change in dress then try lifting weights to get the glute mass you may be wanting. It’s worked for me.

ohshee · Accepted Answer

First of all first thing you do go look in the mirror and smile stop being disgusted because there's no reason to me. To be honest with you if you don't want your body I'll take it I'll shake it up what I would do is that we go for a walk at a very fast paced everyday for 30 to 60 minutes per day for 30 days do not drink any sugar drinks drink water goodwater eat fruits and vegetables quit all fast foods if you walk 30 minutes to 60 minutes a day at a very fast pace I guarantee you every part of your body will tone up once you start working at metabolism it'll start burning even when you're sleeping the first you have to get it motivated you have to get it burning if you're negative everything in your body stops when you're happy everything flows be happy with yourself no matter what this is only a moment in time and after this moment there's a new moment. Be happy be patient and be wise. If you're angry if you're upset if you're stressed nothing anybody's going to work right. Be happy first I think that's the most important everything else comes after that it all falls into place if you work it the smile you got this

DonkeyDan · Accepted Answer

Seriously there is nothing wrong with your body and clearly from the comments nobody else can see what is wrong with it either. Which leads me to believe you may have BDD Body Dysmorphic Disorder. It is where you actually see your body differently to others, sometimes it is just a particular aspect of the body. It is often triggered by a particular event or negative interaction with someone. Counselling can help with this issue.
I understand that people telling you, you look find doesn't make any difference to you because your eyes are actually deceiving you, but I promise you, you are fine and look good and none if the things you have said about yourself are real.

TheorionMage · Answer

No, you DON'T appear 'fat'... and what you NEED is someone to nibble on those shoulder blades!
To take your mind off of your body dysmorphia.
First bring those shoulders back to improve your posture and raise your bust line. Consider trying a belly-dance course! Does incredible things for toning your 'core' abdomen muscles and unfreezes your hips! ENJOY wiggling! Learn to sashay... the good Lord MADE you to be slinky!

SCREW intermural high school volleyball for Phys Ed... high school & junior high girls would profit mightily in losing their 'baby fat' from some belly dance classes! <3 ;)

jaybee281 · Answer

You should wear sexier clothes first and foremost - as in much tighter (at least) - then you'll know if your body is trash - The way it looks to me because of your clothes is that you're skinny in the bottom half of your body and have a larger frame in your upper body which makes it look disproportionate - what you should do is lose weight (cardio and diet especially diet) all the while training normally (as in both upper and lower body) then eventually - But that is only if what you're wearing make the illusion that you have a bad looking body - I'd also hate how I looked if I wore baggy jeans and large long sleeve shirts..

NetSapien · Answer

I'm having a hard time seeing what there is to hate really. I honestly think you have a perfectly fine body and you should be proud. I would approach you and want to talk to you.

The only problem I see is you're missing the upper portion of your head.

humanearth · Answer

You complain like a woman. Think how many women would kill to have your body Would you rather look like this Include a caption for your image Stop your bitching and be happy what you got

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

Are you trolling? Forget those idiot e-thots on Instagram! Aim higher! The only reason men aren't trampling each other to claim you, is because you've cheated a few age markers. If you showed up at the station I work at, I'd have to card you to even sell lotto, because you might look only 16!

If not for that, I'd consider giving you a go.

The_Maphio · Answer

You're not ugly but that, alas, is body structure. If you don't like your shape I'm afraid that there's very little you can do about it. Learn to cope, as most guys are not as picky as you might believe. And again, your body shape is not ugly. If anything, fix your posture a bit. You're a bit hunched onward.

DizzyDesii · Answer

If you were disgusted would you really post it on here for everyone to see? I doubt coming to this judgmental ass website for validation is the answer. Just ask your boyfriend. Long as he likes it, that should be enough of an ego boost for you to get it together

Red_Arrow · Answer

Your butt looks fine, and so do your boobs. It is impossible to tell about your legs in those baggy pjs, but if they are sonsistent with the rest of your body, they are fine also. I would be happy with a gal that looked as good as you do. You are fine.

Pogi-Paddy-2 · Answer

You know that you look stunningly beautiful and my opinion is that you should focus on all your personal assets and strengths because, if you work on your mental acuity and keep positive vibes around you, then life's little issues will not affect you. Sending some positive vibes your way.🌹

Frenchbread2003 · Answer

there's no need to be sad with your body :)  I think that you look great :)  I love how cute and small your body is :) Please don't hate it :(

Lori11 · Answer

Girl, believe me, your body is beautiful. I would recommend you to go to a store and take your time to try different clothes of different styles. Also, I think you have the rectangle body shape.

ThebestIndian · Answer

If no one has ever said this to you, Let me tell you by taking this as opportunity. Your body is completely fine. That looks sexy though. You have to wait for the one who love the way that looks. Before that, I want you to love your own body. Cause, There is nothing wrong it babes. 😘

60minman · Answer

That's so sad... I really think you are being way too tough on yourself though. You look very cute... in my opinion. It's what you think that matters though. That's a lot of jogging. If you are really into exercise... you might try substituting some light weight resistance training for some of the jogging and see if that improves what you see!

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

You are your own worst critic, we all are. Just do what you can to be healthy and the rest will follow. If a certain guy doesn't like how you look, there are always others.

t-8900 · Answer

your body posture tells me you aren't confident, maybe suffering a bit of depression too? I dont think you look bad. Someone just needs to turn that frown upside down.

DaveJord · Answer

Guys don't dig women with insecurities so you should get over yourself, and you do better with the guys.

exitseven · Answer

You look very nice and I do not say that just to be polite. You are in good shape and are an appropriate body weight. Everyone can improve something but you should not be disgusted, just the opposite.

HighValue · Answer

Your shape seems perfectly fine to me. And small breasts are the best in my opinion.

AviatorTom · Answer

Nothing wrong with your body. Most men would like it.

jshm2 · Answer

Yeah it's right to hate what isn't there. Your problem is not your weight, but how you style and dress yourself.

hhhffg7889 · Answer

You have to focus on what you can like about yourself and highlight those things. You have beautiful tits and great skin. Nice flat stomach. You're hot. Enjoy it and just work on always improving.

secretiveguy321 · Answer

Is your body type not likeable? No Do I have a suggestion? Yes, work on your posture. That puts emphasis on your breasts.

ElizaPam · Answer

I was literally born in a male body. You have no reason to be disgusted with your body.

Leggoddess · Answer

There is nothing wrong with you. If you want you can start exercising and get more fit 💪

20yearsolder · Answer

There's nothing wrong with your body. You look great

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

You are being overly critical, you look really good. relax and feel good about yourself.

Mango-man · Answer

I don't think you have broad shoulders and they don't look masculine nor bulky at all.

Anonymous · Answer

Need to change how you view yourself. That's the issue, not your body. Some of these things you mention are your body and nothing you can change. It's how you are (ie broad shoulders).

ChiTown33 · Answer

You can tone your deltoids, biceps and triceps if it really bothers you but honestly I don't think you really need it.

RichSD · Answer

You're wrong, you're exactly the type a lot of guys like. Maybe even most.

Anonymous · Answer

Don't take this the wrong way but this is all in your head. Your body looks great. Your shoulders are not broad, your arms look totally normal and you are not fat. Any guy would be happy to enjoy your body.

Wiredone · Answer

You look perfectly fine. You have a nice figure. You just need to wear more fitting clothes to accentuate your figure.

Surely · Answer

I personally like women with broader shoulders and muscular arms. Stand up straight and don’t slouch. You are fine the way you are!

Ironic_Method · Answer

Exercising will help you get toned, but your body is fine.

AtharvaBhosale_20 · Answer

Try going to the gym.. get a routine.. eat proper stuff.. i m sure someone's gonna be into you somewhere ;)

Anonymous · Answer

You are just being self conscious. Nothing wrong with you.

Ineverquit · Answer

i dont see what you see. I see a nice looking figure. dont be so hard on yourself. your great.,

jasco · Answer

You look good, you are for sure wrong about guys not liking your body. it's a good shape.

Naydyonov · Answer

1. Straighten out your back 2. Reduce stomach size These 2 measures will do a lot to help

shanesc30 · Answer

You have a great body. Dont body shame your own self. God has made you this way be thankful for it.

dolemite89 · Answer

u look ok, pajama bottoms are a little dorky looking tho 😂

Deku2009 · Answer

I love your body , don’t think it’s fat and would want to get to know you more.

EaterPeter · Answer

You have a good bod. A particular kind of fitness trainer may be able to help.

najekim · Answer

Looks wonderful to me as is.

jimmy2 · Answer

Ohh baby you so fine love youself you are just fine

Uptowngirl888 · Answer

Just don’t get implants and a bad tan while wearing whorish clothing and you’ll be okay.

Erron_Black · Answer

You are so wrong, you have a wonderful beautiful body. You are never fat. I like your body so much

Anonymous · Answer

You look fine, only thing you could improve is just a slimmer waist to give you an hour glass figure

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah it’s shit. But if you work really hard in the gym and eat well, you could maybe look good. Round hips and slim waist, with a nice ass looks hot

CindyRuns · Answer

You look gorgeous, don't sweat it !!!

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

You're worrying for nothing, you look fine.

Rachelspiks · Answer

What's wrong with your body?

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

You look cute honey and no need to worry :)

siennasjo · Answer

You have a great body!

Wise4myage · Answer

Why? Your body looks nice.

RebeccaBI2000 · Answer

You are lovely. Why are you?

Iron_Man · Answer

There’s not a thing wrong with you

Jay3344 · Answer

You look good very feminine

malwins · Answer

did u try working out

kerbeary2003 · Answer

I think you look fine to me!

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