I never really did. I’m into fitness and running, so I’d like them to share that interest with me, but I’m not about guys who are shredded. I dated a guy once who would spend multiple hours in a gym a day. It was miserable because he was so obsessed with his own body and diet that he’d judge me if I touched anything with carbs, even if I was carb loading for a race.
Muscles are fine, but attractive to me is a guy who is self sufficient, cares about his health, and cares about our relationship.
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You should lift for you because it's healthy.
Yeah, a lot of women like muscle, especially when they are young and hot.
But as they get older they gravitate often more to men who can provide. But muscles are still almost never a negative except with some women who do not like really buff dudes.
It also depends on their cycle.
You should lift and invest in yourself, but also make sure you're making good money because I think many women would rather be with an average size guy that has money as opposed to a jacked jock who is just scraping by.
If you're hot enough, I still don't think you'd end up an incel or anything though.
But if you have both muscle and money you cannot go wrong when it comes to women.
Muscle and money automatically puts you at the top 10 percent of guys and you'll be able to bang a ton of women or get into an LTR if that is more your style.
Good Luck bro.
"all I see now is women dating scrawny men in Glasses"
1. You forgot the Money Factor,
2. What kind and quality of women? And
3. Remember the Latin terms "Ceteris Paribus" (other things being the same). Given a choice between two men of similar income, intelligence, etc., they will always pick the more hunky one.
Yes we do pay attention to that. As long as it’s not the WEIRD, fake looking ANYTHING CLOSE to muscles like this, guys having healthy lifestyles to go with their muscles is attractive.👍
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It depends on the type of woman you want. I'm a bit old fashion, my place is in the kitchen and supporting my husband, raising our children. I have a dominate personality and can't date weaker males or I dominate them. I'm attracted to alpha males who can make me submit, good fighters, providers, protectors. It's less about muscle mass though, many buff guys are weak, there's smaller guys who are strong warriors.
It's good to be strong and fit, it gives you confidence, boosts your mood and makes you more attractive. You should definitely hone your body, and mind as well. You don't need huge muscles though unless you enjoy pumping iron.The keyword is 'toned' and I've not had any complaints. Besides, if you're going to take on a fitness regime you have to do it for yourself first and foremost. Doing it for any other reason will likely cause you to fail.
Not really. Im not into men who look too muscular. Abs are fine, but some peoplw go overboard with it. Dont care if a dude is skinny or muscular as long as he has a cute face
I train for myself. Whether women care about muscles or not doesn't make any difference. I love how I feel during and after training. Feeling strong, fit, healthy and muscular is the least one can do to honor this gift of the human body. It's about gratitude. But in my experience women will always be attracted to health.
The majority do, but not when someone has such low fat percentage that they look weird. You can get big arms, shoulders, legs, etc., but don't go on those unhealthy diets that take away almost all of your bodyfat. That is unhealthy and can actually cause serious health problems if you get sick with something where you don't eat for days at a time.
all women love muscles, any say otherwise they are lying through their teeth.
muscles make a man look more like a protector,
women love protectors
muscles keep other me. at bay, i like peace,
muscles mean a lot dude, get the damn muscles!
people either love them, intimidated by them, or respect them, but none are digusted by a chiseled muscles on a man.
thats the most retarded thing I've ever heard. now muscles on a women, yuck.Omg yes! I love muscles so much! he doesn't need to be jacked, just fit with visible abs and definition. I'm a very athletic person and love running and weights, so i appreciate that too in a man
Lifting weights won't make a guy's dick any bigger so what's the point?
I like to be just healthy and fit.Sure, check out some workout gyms and take tours. Don’t join until u find a happy environment you feel good in. If u join to get in shape. Have a trainer for 5 times at least to learn proper techniques. Super Vital.
I care that he's happy and comfortable with his body. If you want muscles, go for it. It'll probably suit you better if that's the body you want most.
lol i dont want my man to look like a piece of chicken and more muscles means smaller size down there, so i guess thats why
I personally do not like muscles. A bit of definition is fine sure but I'm way more attracted to skinny guys. Listen. If you want to be muscular do it because YOU want it and it will make YOU feel good about your body, don't do it to impress chicks.
I like naturally really fit. I don’t mind toned or built, but healthy fit is my fav. Someone who takes care of themself, but not obsessed.. sexy.
I'm not sure where you see that, but yes
Also, don't buy dumbbells. It'll be really expensive to get all the equipment you need to train full body. Get a cheap gym membership. You'll have everything you need as you learn and grow.yeah i do like natural looking muscles, but not if it looks like your on steroids lol thats not attractive
I thinkif you have good muscle tone and can lift a spare tire and do a little manual labor you shoud beokay.
Scrawny like Timothy Chalamet. The new Dune Paul. My husband looks like him.
Different women want different things. Do what you want, and meet a woman who is happy with that.
If you are going to work out do it for you.. the only people that really care about having big muscles are other men
Yes they are very nice and make a guy look more attractive.
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