I want to know what women think before I go all in on buying dumbells, excercise equipment and WHEYY Protein because all I see now is women dating scrawny men in Glasses
I never really did. I’m into fitness and running, so I’d like them to share that interest with me, but I’m not about guys who are shredded. I dated a guy once who would spend multiple hours in a gym a day. It was miserable because he was so obsessed with his own body and diet that he’d judge me if I touched anything with carbs, even if I was carb loading for a race.
Muscles are fine, but attractive to me is a guy who is self sufficient, cares about his health, and cares about our relationship.
Thanks for the advice! On a separate note since you are an experienced runner, is runners high real? Do you really get this hightened sense of excitment when you hit your stride?
This varies per runner. For me, the first high is the stress relief it gives me. When I have my headphones in rocking out to some alt-rock, I’m in my zone and don’t care about any of the stresses of life.
What runners high refers to though is recovery. When you’ve completed a run and pushed yourself, when you stop and begin your cooldown your body will feel the high for sure. It’s the best feeling. For me, I’ll usually get this on 8-10 mile runs, up to 15 if I’m in shape, but anything above that I feel nausea instead of a high.
Nah. The hardest part is the motivation to start. The second hardest part is running that full first mile. Once you do that, you can go from 1 to 10 miles in a handful of months if you stick with it.
Marathon running is not without its scars though. I have to maintain a strong core to protect my spine and have a worn out ass muscle lol
Yeah, a lot of women like muscle, especially when they are young and hot.
But as they get older they gravitate often more to men who can provide. But muscles are still almost never a negative except with some women who do not like really buff dudes.
It also depends on their cycle.
You should lift and invest in yourself, but also make sure you're making good money because I think many women would rather be with an average size guy that has money as opposed to a jacked jock who is just scraping by.
If you're hot enough, I still don't think you'd end up an incel or anything though.
But if you have both muscle and money you cannot go wrong when it comes to women.
Muscle and money automatically puts you at the top 10 percent of guys and you'll be able to bang a ton of women or get into an LTR if that is more your style.
"all I see now is women dating scrawny men in Glasses"
1. You forgot the Money Factor, 2. What kind and quality of women? And 3. Remember the Latin terms "Ceteris Paribus" (other things being the same). Given a choice between two men of similar income, intelligence, etc., they will always pick the more hunky one.
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Yes we do pay attention to that. As long as it’s not the WEIRD, fake looking ANYTHING CLOSE to muscles like this, guys having healthy lifestyles to go with their muscles is attractive.👍
It depends on the type of woman you want. I'm a bit old fashion, my place is in the kitchen and supporting my husband, raising our children. I have a dominate personality and can't date weaker males or I dominate them. I'm attracted to alpha males who can make me submit, good fighters, providers, protectors. It's less about muscle mass though, many buff guys are weak, there's smaller guys who are strong warriors.
It's good to be strong and fit, it gives you confidence, boosts your mood and makes you more attractive. You should definitely hone your body, and mind as well. You don't need huge muscles though unless you enjoy pumping iron.
The keyword is 'toned' and I've not had any complaints. Besides, if you're going to take on a fitness regime you have to do it for yourself first and foremost. Doing it for any other reason will likely cause you to fail.
It'll be doing it for approval and to impress. So ultimately, yes. I started lifting weights when I was 12. I was weak. I had trouble lifting myself out of the swimming pool and that was my motivation.
Not really. Im not into men who look too muscular. Abs are fine, but some peoplw go overboard with it. Dont care if a dude is skinny or muscular as long as he has a cute face
lmao, i like toned guys though. A toned body is more attractive. Most girls prefer a toned body. Do whatever makws you feel more confident, dont do it to get girls lol
I train for myself. Whether women care about muscles or not doesn't make any difference. I love how I feel during and after training. Feeling strong, fit, healthy and muscular is the least one can do to honor this gift of the human body. It's about gratitude. But in my experience women will always be attracted to health.
The majority do, but not when someone has such low fat percentage that they look weird. You can get big arms, shoulders, legs, etc., but don't go on those unhealthy diets that take away almost all of your bodyfat. That is unhealthy and can actually cause serious health problems if you get sick with something where you don't eat for days at a time.
all women love muscles, any say otherwise they are lying through their teeth.
muscles make a man look more like a protector, women love protectors muscles keep other me. at bay, i like peace,
muscles mean a lot dude, get the damn muscles!
people either love them, intimidated by them, or respect them, but none are digusted by a chiseled muscles on a man. thats the most retarded thing I've ever heard. now muscles on a women, yuck.
Omg yes! I love muscles so much! he doesn't need to be jacked, just fit with visible abs and definition. I'm a very athletic person and love running and weights, so i appreciate that too in a man
Are you okay? I feel like you've been growing in a hypersexual world, you know Women aren't monsters who harass your pp size (well at least the good ones)
I'm a very sexual person and I know that bedroom performance is more important than being a bodybuilder to someone like me. Some women may like big muscles for protection, and some guys may like to be buff and intimidating to other males, but I couldn't care less about that. I'm not looking to be her bodyguard, I wanna be her lover. The only training I do is for stamina.
Sure, check out some workout gyms and take tours. Don’t join until u find a happy environment you feel good in. If u join to get in shape. Have a trainer for 5 times at least to learn proper techniques. Super Vital.
Also, don't buy dumbbells. It'll be really expensive to get all the equipment you need to train full body. Get a cheap gym membership. You'll have everything you need as you learn and grow.
I personally do not like muscles. A bit of definition is fine sure but I'm way more attracted to skinny guys. Listen. If you want to be muscular do it because YOU want it and it will make YOU feel good about your body, don't do it to impress chicks.
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