What would you do if your wife had cancer?

UpdateGloomyNights_

Xper 5 Age: 35

her hairs is lost, her body is deformed

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WonderBell99 Follow
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Not all types of cancer will result in body deformation or hair loss

My mum has cancer (Non Hodgkins Lymphoma) and her body is not deformed. However, she did experience some allergic reactions and the chemotherapy resulted in body hair loss. She also felt weak and had mood swings. My dad and I took care of her, showered her with love and provided her with emotional support. My dad wanted both of us to live life as "normal" as possible. . . I was scared though, and I could not handle it. I did not like seeing her in pain. She's doing better now. She goes in ever 3 months to the doc for her maintenance chemo

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- exitseven
  
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  @wonderbell99 It is tough to go through. I hope she has a good outcome.
  
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- WonderBell99
  
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  @exitseven Thank you
  
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jennifer_bloom Follow
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I don’t have wives but if I had a husband I would take care of him.

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Honesttguy Follow
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How did that happen? How did i get married and how did i not pay attention, vancer doesn't just appear in 1day. doesn't sound like me at all. Hair loss? Wtf that usually happens after chemo thetapy, we choce that already? Again doesn't sound like me. So many wrong moves leaves with little to no choice but say goodbye sounds like she's goner. Wich country have legal lethal injection switzerland okey then. Lets go baby let me take care of you.

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AviatorTom Follow
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If my wife or SO got cancer and her hair fell out and body deformed...
We'd live as normal a life as possible, and I would care for her as best I can, getting additional help as needed. If you think I would leave her, you are grossly mistaken.

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- UpdateGloomyNights_
  
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  I always see SO i don't know what is the mean
  
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- AviatorTom
  
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  @updategloomynights_ I'm in a relationship with my SO, not my wife... yet
  
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- UpdateGloomyNights_
  
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  I don't know what's the mean so
  
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- AviatorTom
  
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  SO = Significant Other
  
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- UpdateGloomyNights_
  
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  Oh okay thanks
  
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- UpdateGloomyNights_
  
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  Like girlfriend?
  
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- AviatorTom
  
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  @updategloomynights_ An SO is a very serious girlfriend. You're committed to a monogamous relationship and living together.
  
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- UpdateGloomyNights_
  
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  Oh okay
  
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MrNameless Follow
Guru Age: 38 , mho 48%

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Hair loss is not a big deal and temporary. Treatment will do that.

I will of course take care of her and help her live as comfortably and long as possible. I will fight with her until the end.

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DonkeyDan Follow
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Support her in every way I could, wouldn't change the way I felt about her.

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dorksided1 Follow
Xper 6 Age: 38 , mho 35%

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this hits close to home with family member who went through it, he stayed until the very end and she passed

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Red_Arrow Follow
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Love her, support her, take her to her treatments, do everything I can for her.

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- UpdateGloomyNights_
  
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  I'm so sorry. Rest in place
  
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- UpdateGloomyNights_
  
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  Her.
  
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- Red_Arrow
  
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  Thank you.
  
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- UpdateGloomyNights_
  
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  You're most welcome
  
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exitseven Follow
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This actually happened to me. I do not love her any less and feel thankful that modern medicine was able to treat her condition.

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- Red_Arrow
  
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  You and she are lucky. My wife had a cancer which killed her. Modern medicine still cannot cure many cancers.
  
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- exitseven
  
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  @Red_Arrow damn, I am really sorry to hear that.
  
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- Red_Arrow
  
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  Thank you.
  
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jimmy2 Follow
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I was married for 36 years. My wife got MS, she became trap in her body. What did I do. I took care of her to her last breathe and on the last breathe I was praying in her ear for God to take her home. Now what would you do

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- DARKCLOUD1945X
  
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  Like you I did what my life with my wife of 30 plus years deserved my total commitment to her in hopes that somehow, she would survive which was not to be. Hope springs eternal. No matter we all hope and pray for a good outcome. That said 3 year later my daughter had twin girls one normal one with brain cancer she had an operation, and it was remover only to come back a year later Another operation and it was removed in the year since she has been diagnosed with Gorlins syndrome had her ovaries removed and is now an epileptic. She is now celebrating her 16 Birthday today the whole family have been praying for her continued remission as does every family with these problems with major health problems all pray to their God or Deity for remission , help. As with the grand child we have won one but God only knows for how long. I guess we all do what we must to try to keep them with us.
  
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MTC29 Follow
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I dated a woman who had had a double mastectomy. It didn't bother me.

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DARKCLOUD1945X Follow
Xper 6 Age: 80

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Married to her for 34years stayed by her till she took her last breath and still miss her 19 years later.

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- jimmy2
  
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  God bless you man
  
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Drumlin2001 Follow
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I'd wonder when I got married? Didn't know I was...
Anyway, I'd support her best I could and help the kids as much as possible to cope with it

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worldscolide Follow
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Unlike most leftists... I take my vows seriously. I would take care of her no matter what.

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Andres77 Follow
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I'm in... all the way, everything.
She's too good to lose.

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TX651 Follow
Xper 5 Age: 75

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My wife had Breast Cancer about 20 years ago. She's OK now.

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lofii Follow
Yoda Age: 31

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Take care of her till she's ready to pass.

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- jimmy2
  
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  I had to take food and water away... still took 19 days
  
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Ringstretch Follow
Xper 5 Age: 63

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Support her and love her

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Anonymous
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Get good life insurance

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- Red_Arrow
  
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  Too late when she already has it.
  
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jasco Follow
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wait for her

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SignedAutographs Follow
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Not sure

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