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Because they want male attention. These are also know as gym THOTS.
Heavens. I wouldn't go that far Tex.
@Screenwriter I go to the gym 3-4 times a week ( not bad for a 45 year old!!) and I see these young THOTS all over!! 3 lbs of makeup and wearing ass-tight booty shorts in a gym full of horny college aged guys. Of course she wants attention - it is her currency.
If a women wants attention she can get it - and it is not necessarily a bad thing. At the end of the day it is - for the most part - no harm done.
@Texaskid1 Well said! You know what's funny? Is that often when a guy there pretends they aren't there (So basically not paying them any attention), they try to get his attention by hoovering around him, walk infront of him unnecessarily, doing their workouts near or even in front of him. Just to provoke catching him looking at them.
I've seen it and experienced it many times myself throughout the years I've been hitting the gym. I was recently with my girlfriend and there was this chick constantly hoovering me. You can tell she is the type who gets more than enough validation from the world. But I didn't. I only gave my girlfriend attention. My girlfriend later told me she was getting dirty looks from this girl and that she was regularly looking my way rather than doing her own workouts.
@TruthBringer TB, I'm shocked that these women are vacuuming around you while you're trying to work out! SHOCKED>.. couldn't pass up teasing you about that typo.. HOOVERING is the old word for vacuuming. The machines were made the the company Hoover eons ago in the 30s I think.. The women were hovering around you, for sure.
I went to grad school in my 50s and went to the gym there several days a week and though I noticed made up females at that gym and later at Tulane University's gym before the damned pandemic (it still hasn't reopened to the public. I see a trainer now...), I was never involved in such sashaying. So, I didn't focus on these females. Being that you're guys, I guess this would've been your focus. But I didn't notice much about the guys either. I was there for a short amount of time, had time pressures to get in and out so I could get back to schoolwork, or my grad assistant job, or other jobs I've had since then.
Maybe these thots don't
have jobs or many classes or are independently wealthy and have time on their hands. Young girls of a certain ilk and poor home training need a lot of validation. Though I've always enjoyed attention from a man I like, attention from ANY man, especially ones I don't know, has never floated my boat.
These poor women also have poor tastes. A little flirtation at the gym, however, can be fun. If you see the same people over and over and someone can give you some information about how they work out or your form. But there has to be some basis for talking to someone/flirting. You've seen them a lot. They recognize you... You're in their group class... Just wagging your tail around. Ugh. Not cool.
@Screenwriter Unfortunately, we're living in a time when younger generations, including my own, are taught by society and social media that their self-worth depends on how much attention and validation they can get from others. Even if they may be strangers. Hence why a gym has sadly become a place for many people to try and hook up or at the very least boost their egos by having many eyes turned their way. It's like social media, but instead of "likes", the amount of gazes one can get counts. No wonder the overall mental health of scoiety is in a decline.
It is not hard to spot the ones who are actually serious about their workouts, and it's a good thing they are still around. Sadly, others just care more about what's going on around them than focusing on their own workouts.
These thots are so shameless that they still try to grab the attention of someone who is clearly in a relationship with his partner right there with him. The funny thing is, the people whom I see regularly at the gym don't actually do this.
@TruthBringer I think this is mostly a matter of being very young. People usually get over this attention getting behavior because they ultimately know who they are and what they need. And at the gym, what you need is to concentrate on your workout so you can do it efficiently and well and get the hell out of there... Doing anything else is a waste of your time! Like you say, the regulars don't do this.
Makes us feel good and excited. Nothing to do with the male gaze AT ALLLLL.
@itsalyssaagain It's more about receving attention from men.
I literally just said it isn’t.
@itsalyssaagain Lol, I realize you said that but I speak womanize and realize that woman aren't going to admit to anything publicly that gives credit to men. If what you were saying was remotely true, you wouldn't have mentioned the male gaze part at all.
Its not about that vegas its about she's a hoe so of course its about attention
@RandomGuy1030 That I can't speak to, but I think most men understand how important attention is to women. The strange part is how hard women fight to keep this narrative.
@Vegasrunner not strange my friend. All hos envy the 1 or 2 % of women who aren't like that they tell themselves that narrative
@RandomGuy1030 Makes sense. in my opinion they have to try so hard to live this narrative that they sometimes fool themselves into thinking we believe them.
@Vegasrunner yes. Keep your eyes open you'll see the vast majority of females are like Amber Heard and Jada Pinkett. Half of them are rampant feminist the other half like to pretend theyre like a real princess
@RandomGuy1030 I didn't really follow the trial so I can't say but honestly I've been w/ more women than probably 99% of men in the world and the reality is how they speak in private is way different than what they say publicly. The trick is you have to get them in their feelings about you privately and keep an abundance mindset. To many guys settle for the first girl that shows them the slightest bit of attention.
@RandomGuy1030 Can you shutup and not call me or any other woman a fucking hoe.
This is an educational forum. Its not shaming, its about awareness. If 97% are hoes then thats how they should be treated.
You’re butt hurt because these “hoes” won’t give you pussy
1. I have had sex 2 different girls and Im 18.
2. im talking about getting too invested in a hoe. And thats what hos do. They lie about who they are for self esteem. To attract a guys investment ultimately destroying his life and his family, in many cases.
In case they meet Mr. Right (or at least Mr. Right Now) at the gym!
Because they are at the gymnasium trawling for men.
Lots of girls do it because they don't want to walk out of the house without makeup. they feel like they're being judged
Because going to the gym for girls is like going to a brothel to whore themselves. It's the same thing.
Bc they end up not actually really working out
They just there for show
Ahh to be so young and nieve
@Subarugirl No he is right so don't be mad Land whale.
@SimpHunter007 so what you want her to just wash everything off and shower before working out hahaha grow up
@Subarugirl they're not working out anyway, they only put minimal effort in it because they just can't live without the attention from men.
@SimpHunter007 oh so you you’re saying that woman can’t work out after work with out taking a shower first… you’re pathetic grow up
@Subarugirl I didn't mean that at all but ok lol.
Woman moment
@SimpHunter007 it was implied wise guy… does being an ass make you feel more like a man?
@Subarugirl I'm actually a really nice guy.
@SimpHunter007 the funny thing is that she prob doesn’t have tik tok or any social media. If she did she would’ve seen all the videos of girls at the gym Doing stupid dances instead of working out. They must be rich enough to have a membership and not use it
I've been to the gym a million times and I've never seen that happen... actually the majority of the gyms I have been to have a no camera policy... Then again I've never bothered to have 24 hour Fitness membership.
Good point but she won't listen anyway because Subarugirl is a feminist.
@Subarugirl well that’s one gym or u would’ve said “gymS”
So yeah a gym in alabama might have this issue
lol calm down son, you can't even get a membership with out a guardian signature so have a seat and leave it to the grown ups.
@SimpHunter007 you say that like somehow that is an insult. If you believe in the state of equal ease of access to resources and opportunities regardless of gender, you are too.
@Subarugirl I don't believe in nonsense like that and yes, being a feminist is pretty embarrassing.
And also Feminism was never about equality anyway but no woman will ever admit that.
@SimpHunter007 actually that’s what it has always been… and that’s is quite literally the definition. Do you support equal opportunity and rights or not?
@Subarugirl Nope.
@SimpHunter007 and if men ended up with less rights than women you’d be totally okay with that. Not being able to get certain medical procedures, or open a bank account with out your wife’s permission. Not being able to vote, or have certain jobs? No? Oh you just meant that you’re fine with women not having equal rights… yeah that’s called sexist.
@Subarugirl It's already like that because men can't do anything without their wifes approval because then they will start complaining and also women have way more rights and priveleges than men but keep lying to yourself.
@SimpHunter007 oh what what rights do women have that men do not? You’re comparing having a controlling wife to laws that literally discriminate based off of gender?
@SimpHunter007
Seriously name a law that gives a woman the ability to do something that a man legally cannot?
@Subarugirl How about destroying an innocent mans life without any evidence at all? Or taking his kids and half his shit away?
@SimpHunter007 Neither of those things are legal. assets divided after a divorce are based on state law and in the majority of cases personal assists stay personal. Men make up the majority of the judicial system…. Men are also less likely to get a lawyer when getting a divorce.
@Subarugirl Yeah because men don't have daddy government behind their back like you females do. All women have to do is to pull the victim card and that's enough for soyciety to side with women.
@SimpHunter007 you mean talking about how they have actually been victimized…wow it must be nice being so privileged.
@SimpHunter007 when you have lived your whole life privileged, equality feels like oppression.
@Subarugirl Woman moment
@SimpHunter007 ignorance is bliss I guess
@Subarugirl Stick and stones will break my bones but there will always be something that offends a feminist.
@SimpHunter007 and a sexist will do some insane mental gymnastics to justify their own bigoted world view
@Subarugirl I'm not a sexist, you just can't handle the truth. How are equal rights supposed to work if men and women aren't equal in the first place? Lol
@Subarugirl lmao a parent doesn’t sign on this site
@Subarugirl Ik one thing. All MEN are required to be listed as potential military reserves at 18, while women don’t have to, only if they want. Now if u stand for equality, u should be pushing for the law to change to include women, no?
Good point John, especially Ukraine where men are forced to stay so they can fight and die for their country while women are allowed to flee. Pretty sexist if you ask me.
Apparently you’ve missed how vocal I’ve been about including both men and woman in elective service registration… you should also know that the Conservative party blocked that bill from being passed to law.
ya martial law
I don't get it either. If I go to the gym , it's to work out not look good.
Well tbh exercising makes you look good soooo🤣🤣🤣tables have turned lol jk
@ALastStand yeah of course.
…. You don’t work out to look good?
@Subarugirl at this point in time I don't work out. But when I did, it was to look good.
because they want to use to use the "bench press" for other things... and to give other parts a work out ;)
Simple because I want to look good and feel good when I workout.
Feeling good about how you looks has everything to do with being perceived as good looking. So in the end, you're doing it for others. Not necessarily because make up on your face is actually comfortable.
Being pretty they dont care about u lol. isn't always sexual.
Because they don't really go there to workout, they go there to hunt for men.
To impress guys I guess. Because I see no reason why you should wear makeup if you still gonna end up sweating and working so hard
Why do they make up their bes every morning? Who else sees it?
Probably to look hot and make themselves feel attractive. The attention from guys, usually.
I never did, didn't make sense if I was just going to sweat it off. I'm there to work out, not be cute🤷🏾
I'm not sure. I always thought it was to impress guys if they wore makeup
Doesn't make sense to me if you are working out and sweating
There's waterproof makeup, guys...
Girls look fabulous always, but with makeup and hair looking beautiful, they know they look absolutely gorgeous and men love watching them sweat 😃
This is interesting reply. Men love watching them sweat! Hmm. Sexual overtones of that.. Never thought of it...
Cause I like looking pretty at all times! I wear makeup, even when inside
Yeah, its pointless. You're going to reek of sweat anyway.
I love it when girls look and dress hot for the gym!
For the thottery opportunities presented in braindead steroid abusing cokehead chads
Aww to be so young and nieve
Seen it happen my cleaner was in that boat, she's now a widow with 2 kindergarten age kids because his heart blew out
This is terrible!!! I hope you're kidding. Terribly black humor... whew...
Not a bit of it, he was 31
It's shouldn't be offensive but it's very annoying, seems like they're trying to prove something
For the same reason some males go just to check out girls.
Most women are out to get man. And I think by putting makeup on will attract that man.
to take pics for the insta of gram!
Because they're not there to work out, they just want to invade male space to get attention.
yeah not so necessary like they would flirt with a guy there
May be they do it to mask facial blemishes?
They want to look cute
I don't get it either.
To impress guys (and sometimes other girls)
Is it wrong to want to look good all the time?
Because they want to look good. Duh!
Maybe she already wore her make up all day
I dont but i know people that do its so pathetic
Dress to kill, every time they go out.
They're tryna get piped down in the shower room
To look real sexy for people
If you shave or make sure you look nice before leaving the house than you don’t have any room to judge
@Subarugirl I’m not Judging
Looking good is half the battle.
This is partially from GI Joe cartoons...
i dont get it either and im a woman
We call them "talent" great for motivation.
They aren't going there to work out.
They just want to look good in any situation
They aren’t as committed as we are
Attention Attention Attention.
to look good in public
Because women are strange creatures.
for attention duh lol
They want guys to check them out
I don't know but the pics looks good
Because gyms are meat markets.
Attention.
I don’t know one woman who wants some random sweaty got to approach her at the gym while she’s trying to get her set in…. You may want to entertain the thought that not everything a woman wears is for you
@Subarugirl oh, I understand this, you have to be the right man for one & I also understand women compete with each other & not to just attract men.
Women also wear what they want because they like it
@Subarugirl they also thrive off male attention.
You say that like you dont…. Come on grow up and stop trying to shift the blame.
@Subarugirl I don't. I could care less if males or females give me attention because I validate myself. Men lead & people can follow or gtfo.
Actually it takes skill to be a leader, you have to actually have a capability. I don’t follow anyone based off when they have between their legs
No idea.
because they are shallow and superficial
I only wear lipstick
Ask them
Attract attention
and why not
To stay pretty lol