Why are guy avoiding me?

[Anonymous]

I've noticed this one guy getting close to me. Then this other guy whispered something to him and he's been avoiding me ever since. 3 or 4 guys avoid me now. What's going on?

[Honesttguy]

Sounds like you're at the bottom of pyramid, low value, so guy probably said "nah bro she's trash" and he cares for his value so he stopped.

[Asker]

I'm not low value. I look good and have the best personality and many women are jealous of me. I think people are spreading rumors of me. Cause they can't have me

[Honesttguy]

Well dont pay attention workplace is not place for relationships anyway, you go there to get money. Everything else is just to pass time.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Your reputation must be preceding you if that keeps happening.

[Asker]

But I never slept with anyone
It's this guy spreading rumors about me

[TommyMountainFigure]

I didn't say it was justified, just that you have a reputation by the sound of things.. You need to go up to him and ask him what his problem is with you.

[Asker]

What if I'm wrong and just thinking things like my parent said? I dont think I am tho

[TommyMountainFigure]

Your parents think you could be imagining it? I hadn't thought of that..

[Asker]

Yea but I'm not so

[TommyMountainFigure]

Is that the only time it's happened?

[Asker]

Nope

[Asker]

I went to an old gym and it happened then too

[TommyMountainFigure]

I would say once is a coincidence,. twice you are right to be suspicious, any more than that confirms it... Think.. Who have you upset over the years? It has to be someone you've really hurt to do this,.

[Asker]

I already know but I dont really care about him. I'm not his property and he's already in a relationship. So why does he still care?

[TommyMountainFigure]

See now that is a WHOLE different question.
It's only a thought, but as things stand.. You have someone spreading lies about you, and your parents thinking it's all in your head. This is placing you somewhat in a position of weakness. I would suggest you tell your parents everything and at least have them in your corner supporting you during this tough time. .

[Asker]

I did last night after our conversation. My man has my back and does my family. Thank you

[TommyMountainFigure]

Good.. the more people you have on your side knowing everything, the stronger you become.

[annoyingpidgon]

I might be wrong, but they might be spreading rumors about you?

[Asker]

I think so too its fucked up

[Anonymous]

What's your past like?

[Asker]

I don't know... I'm a normal girl.

[Asker]

I know this one insane idiot who was into me started harassing me and rejecting me. I had tons of friends at the last location then they all started not talking to me

[Asker]

I rejected him*

[WraithRogue04]

not enough information to know