Why a refined man like me always failed at masturation and how to win?

[Anonymous]

It doesn't come out and never! This stresses me out. Any ideas?

[Lionman95]

You mean an orgasm or what?
Have you considered visiting a doctor because it could be the case that you're not able to cut because of medical problems.
That's something you can't solve yourself.

[Asker]

The, erm, fluid doesn't come out.

[zeitgeist057]

You're trying too hard.

[zeitgeist057]

The way our central nervous system works with our sexual function is that you have to get excited to get an erection, and you have to relax to get an orgasm. So try to be more relaxed. Go slow, use lots of lube. Fantasize and relax, take your time. If you are pressuring yourself for the finish, it won't ever happen.