Would you be with a partner who would set a weight limit for you?

[Anonymous]

Imagine the weight limit is any weight that would make you obese & that they say they'd break up with you if you exceed the weight limit. Also, imagine they say that you can set one for them & leave them if they exceed it. Would you want to be with them?

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Yes

No

Depends (please explain if you want to)

[NamerOfStars]

Here's the thing: every single day, 150 tons of debris (mostly dust) falls from space onto the Earth. Since the only time earth loses matter is when we shoot stuff into space and it doesn't come back down, the planet's becoming denser, and the gravity field stronger- which means that without gaining an ounce, we're all getting heavier. So actually we ARE gaining ounces, just not kilograms. Stupid metric system. I'd be kinda leery of sticking with someone who puts so much faith on things that're out of my control- even though that's only partially.

Good to see you back, though.

[Asker]

ummm... thanks?

[ChiTown33]

Depends what that weight limit is. I'm 6'5" 250lbs. I'm taller than your avg. Joe. I weighed 210 when I graduated high school. So I'm probably never fit into a avg. 180lbs. Guy mold.

This is why I hate people who make blanket generalizations about weight. You can't expect a woman who's 5'3" to be the same weight as someone who's 5'10" and you can't can't expect me to weigh as much as a guy who's 5'10".

I'll admit I should lose 30 or 40 lbs. Because I think I'm healthier at 210. And if she said that I'd agree. But I don't think it would be healthy for me to be under 200lbs.

[Asker]

I wrote "Imagine the weight limit is any weight that would make you obese."

[ChiTown33]

Well according to my doc I'm straddling that line. Guess this is what I get when I don't take the time to read the description, my bad!
Then my answer is yes I would. Because I don't think that's an unreasonable request at all.

[Asker]

🤣 dw it's cool. I think I agree with you.

[Red-Blaze]

Dealbreaker, if someone wants me for my body alone, then I am not intrrsted in them, same the outger way around
I yet to have ever had a weight problem, so that is not at all where I got the issue, its just the idea of that being something high enugth in there needs
I dont want someone that can't see me outside of my body alone

[siseñor]

Sure but the phrasing is weird. If they just said they wouldn't stay with me if I was being unhealthy and self-destructive, that would be better. I would never date someone who would put it they way you have.

[Asker]

I guess I worded it like that because I feel like if I had a spouse, I'd like very blunt wording so long as it's how they feel.

[siseñor]

To each their own

[Asker]

Different strokes for different folks 🧙‍♂️ I suppose

[Adaeva]

I can't even imagine that issue coming up. At this point in my life, weight is no a problem and is not likely to be for the next few years. I can't guarantee that, when I'm 30, weight will not be a problem

[Sour-rose]

No, go fuk ya self. I know that seems unhealthy but i'm not someone to get fat anytime soon. But to also say you can get "this" light, means this mofo thinks I'm his dog or somethin'.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Yes.. If you're dead set on being a big fat fuck, then obviously not ideal for you.

[TheUniqueOne96]

It depends on the weight limit and whether or not it's reasonable or not.

[NathanDavis]

no... I'd rather be with someone that knows how to enjoy life

[Juxtapose]

No, that's fucked up and shallow. She should aggressively work out with me if it's that big of a concern.

[Cubus]

Depends how restrictive would it be. It's completely normal that your loving one doesn;t want you to be obese.

[Lyndsielee666]

Ma’am I’m as skinny as I can get without being hospitalized again. Unless he’s trying to hospitalize me 🤔

[Asker]

Ummm did u read the description 👄

[Lyndsielee666]

I was extremely high when I commented this Lmfao

[Asker]

🤣 yet you still sounded saner than some of these sober comments

[Pete671]

I'm underweight so their limit would be a minimum weight, up to them to cook for me hahahaha

[Apple1996]

Definitely not

[Guy13]

Yes and or muscle /fat ratio.

[AsaKyo]

Yeah, because then I'd never be fat

[DaveToo]

I was, she did, we're no longer together.

[Anonymous]

yea cause it would keep me skinny lol

[Anonymous]

That would be an instant dealbreaker.

[Joker_]

yes.

[Joker_]

you only want the fattest hoes don't you

[Asker]

how dare you assume such a vile thing

[Joker_]

@degenerate's shit is vile

[Degenerate]

Shitting rn

[nawtee_me]

hell no

[Anonymous]

Nooe