How do men feel about dating an older mature woman?

Question

Do you prefer a younger woman with not much experience or an older woman who is not scared to be uninhibited?

JDtheman19 · Accepted Answer

When I was younger I thought that one of my friends mom's was hot I mean I feel like at least a lot of guys have that mom crush on someone's friend obviously but never really got into that feeling when I was a teen (14-17) after that I wouldn't really mind having someone older then me not too old like anyone past 60, feelings came when I notice that people who are younger or same age as me feel like they want to be babied (not saying all of them) it's also hard to have a serious conversation when they just want to talk about latest trends online, makes me feel like I'm some kid gossiping about things and I don't really want to hang on to kid stuff like that I wanna talk about the person and laugh about something embarrassing that they did something mature and flirty not really like oh man I tried that popular trend on TikTok blah blah I mean it doesn't bother me a lot but it just makes me feel childish

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

When I was 23, I dated a woman who was 46. It was a good experience until she freaked out thinking that the only reason I was dating her was for sex.

When I was 24, I dated a woman who was 36. It was a good experience until she allowed her drug dependence to consume her life.

When I was 27, I dated a woman who was 37. We both wanted nothing more than casual sex and it was mutually satisfying.

When I was 51, dated a woman who was 60. I eventually realized that she has BPD and we went our separate ways.

All of those relationships were sexual. Age was an issue in only one of the relationships, and that was from her perspective. I have also dated other older women but they did not develop into relationships.

Now, I am 67 (68 next month) and my grlfriend is 59. Obviously I don't care too much about age but I do care about the factors that would make us compatible in the long term.

Faith18letsgo · Accepted Answer

I prefer younger women because we’re closer in age and also I’m intimidated by people much more sexually experienced then me.

TrippyStarry · Accepted Answer

Is it really a good idea to present your sexuality as the main thing about you at your age?

Massageman · Answer

Actually, it might be a decent match since women mature sooner mentally than males, while the males mature earlier sexually. Biologically speaking, his drive might be more in line with what she knows she wants.

Blackmoonsns · Answer

Really depends how well is she taking care of herself to her goals align with my own does she plan on being a emotionally bonded and emotionally essentially intimate with me if it's just casual did she play on just seeing me a couple times a week that she plan on having a future with me there's a lot of questions I have to ask up front but if I generally like the woman's personality and I can see a future with her and yes

socair · Answer

When i was an older teenager I had a long term mutually exclusive live in relationship with someone over twice my age.. it lasted a few years and I learned a lot.

Id say do it, don't expect it to last forever and ignore family and friends that knock it to the point of rejecting them for a while

Anonymous · Answer

What I like about Older Women is they have had time to know what they like and don't like so most of them are more clear and upfront about what they like in and out of the bedroom. Many of them also happen to be kinder, and respectful as well as have more manners which I really admire and love about them. I'm also more flexible about what I can do when having sex with an Attractive Mature Woman. I meet with women who have permission from their husbands on Dating Apps. I meet with the ones who are Seeking Well-Endowed Men. Many do like Creampies because they no longer have to worry about having kids and since I'm a Heavy Cummer I really enjoy seeing the satisfaction on their faces and feel of not using a condom is much better so it's a Win-Win for us both. Theirs many Very Attractive Women in their 50s. I do like Younger Women too, but with Older Women, I can be more flexible.

tzdc21 · Answer

It depends on the guy and what stage they're at in their life. Me for instance, I get wanting someone younger than you and maybe later in my life I will want that, assuming I'm not with someone else by that point, but right now I'm more open to someone a little older than me... just not too much. I've been surrounded by younger women most of my life, so I'm curious what it would be like to be around a woman older than me for a change.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I did and it was great! However, I very quickly got her to loosen up a bit but, I think that part of her was always there, she just needed someone like me to bring it back out.

Summeroflove · Answer

If she’s over child bearing years. I want kids so. If she’s a little older even a decade older yeah I might date her and see where it goes

AnUglyBarnacle · Answer

I would date a woman in her 40s+ but wouldn't marry her. The reason: I want to make children with my wife.

Red_Arrow · Answer

I would not like the idea because at my age, older women would be dead! However, when I was younger I did date some older women and loved it!

Berethor · Answer

I didn't care that much about it in the past, but at that age it means giving up on children.

Guy13 · Answer

relative. i would know after the first 10 minutes,

Alex8736 · Answer

absolutely especially if her kids are fully grown which is also a bonus but not a need. age is only a number and sometimes we all like to bring our inner child out 😇

Philyouup · Answer

i had a few older women in my day. they would do what young girls are willing to do today. back in the day, girls were much more prudish.

Anonymous · Answer

Probably not, women my age don't wanna date me as I don't make money and still studying for higher degrees. They tell me that guys like me are only good after thirty. I wouldn't date older after starting earning. They will only be interested in settling down after having fun.

Anonymous · Answer

Older is better because they have more experience and they are more appreciative of quality attention. Plus they tend to pee a little when they cum, and I really like sloppy messy sex.

Anonymous · Answer

I prefer younger. It can be a double edged sword. Younger women are generally more fun and less cynical. But then you have to deal with the immaturity.  But yeah, generally younger.

Kelly6 · Answer

Men mostly look for experienced older women

Rizwan_khan · Answer

I love to dating older women. Because they have so much experience. I love to date older women.

Guardian45 · Answer

I dated a woman who was 5 years older than me. There was no issues between us. We were very happy.

MaSult · Answer

Never had the pleasure but of course I'm interested 😅

CubaPirate · Answer

When you get to my age Id prefer younger but I won't rule out older

strraku · Answer

preferably I want to date older women only but I can't/dont because I am not supposed to

davgar · Answer

That's the dream. Being with a mature woman would be amazing. I've wanted that since 14

1cuteblackk · Answer

I feel good about it but not had the chance to but I’ll definitely love to give it a try.

Anonymous · Answer

Excited, I had a 51 years girlfriend and I felt like in heaven with her, her beauty was so complex and intense

misogynistic_pig · Answer

I do not like.

TheFlak38 · Answer

I dated two older women and one of them was fucking my brains out. Good company but older women are mental nutcases.

Sparkie460 · Answer

I don't have a problem with it

Pudsmucker · Answer

I would date you. i love experienced women.

DrillBeats · Answer

I have and will again. Great experiences!

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Well I've always been into older women

Farmerboy2 · Answer

Old women are so sexy

Brando10222 · Answer

Older are more insecure

In_Trance · Answer

Some like it, some don't

Anonymous · Answer

Younger, I want kids.

jimmy2 · Answer

You are young to me

EaterPeter · Answer

I love love love it.

htmndg183 · Answer

Great.

Chthou95 · Answer

I'll pass

Anonymous · Answer

Nice idea

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