Are strong women a turn off?

Question

A physically strong woman who workout can lift a lot of weight. Not ripped or muscular but just insanely strong. you trust her strength and abilities enough to put your life in her hands if anything violent happens to you. Broad shouldered and well built and toned female. does this turn you off.

burlen · Accepted Answer

A person's strength or physical abilities do not solely define their attractiveness.

Physical strength and attractiveness are subjective and can vary from person to person. Some people may find insanely strong women attractive, while others may not.

There is no one-size-fits-all definition of what makes a person attractive. Attractiveness can be influenced by a variety of factors, including physical appearance, personality, confidence, sense of humor, and other personal qualities.

Reasons why some people may find women with exceptional physical strength for the following reasons:

Confidence: Insanely strong women may exude confidence and self-assurance, which can be attractive to some people. This confidence can come from the knowledge that they have worked hard to achieve their strength, and it may be appealing to those who appreciate dedication and hard work.

Physical appeal: Strong women may have a physique that is visually appealing to some individuals. Muscular definition and toned bodies can be seen as attractive physical traits, and people may be drawn to these physical characteristics.

Competence: Insanely strong women may be seen as capable and competent in other areas of their life as well, such as their careers or personal relationships. This competence may be attractive to those who value intelligence and success.

Individuality: Women who have achieved incredible strength may be seen as unique or unconventional, which can be appealing to some individuals. People may appreciate the courage it takes to pursue an atypical path and the confidence to be different.

Just as there are people who find insanely strong women attractive, there may also be individuals who find them to be a turnoff for the following reasons.

Traditional Gender Roles: Some people may have traditional beliefs about gender roles and view women who are incredibly strong as being unfeminine or less attractive because they are not conforming to traditional gender norms.

Intimidation: Some people may find the physical strength of insanely strong women to be intimidating, which can be a turnoff for them. They may feel intimidated by a woman's physical prowess and view her as unapproachable or difficult to relate to.

Personal Preferences: Just like any other personal preference, some people may simply not be attracted to women who are incredibly strong. Personal preferences are highly individual and can be influenced by a variety of factors, including cultural background, upbringing, and past experiences.

Stoner710 · Accepted Answer

It does not, I think Ronda Rousey hot and she could kick my ass for sure. gal Gadot is hot as hell and she was a combat instructor for the Israeli military where she spent 4 years after winning the miss Israel beauty pageant. Also women like Liv morgen “the goddess” Alexa Bliss Bianca Belair Charlotte Flair and Becky Lynch are hot as well.

now there is over muscular like the women who look like a female version of Arnold Schwarzenegger that’s not attractive. Also ballerinas have amaxing core strength there skinny as well hot and fit most are really hot

Rosexøxø · Accepted Answer

Mmm..

I think any woman who can carry her own; be self-sustaining, and some who can help others, are not turn offs-

I mean, they SHOULDN'T be.

I know a lot of military women who can carry loads and partners, but aren’t ripped up, and all that. They obviously don’t parade it around either…

Those women impress me.😏😎🤩

Any man who wants a woman helpless in ANY way is corrupt, unfair, inhumane, and all kinds of messed up, and just wrong.

Mankind shouldn’t suppress women in any way.. they should just be their best where they are, and that comes from first:

self-acceptance.

Not basing worth, by comparing oneself to others.

If a woman is strong and a man is strong, and a woman can use a helping hand- and he can? Then he should!

He shouldn’t push her down so she’s always needing help.

It’s vicious behavior and unhealthy.

Yes, yes- save the damsels in distress for romance and role plays. Be confident in self and stop degrading women or trying to manipulate their emotions

TO GET THEM IN BED WITH YOU.

Women and men should be PARTNERS. In every way, if not most ways.

Women and Men should be able to HELP each other.

No one should be pushed back or disregarded, for their capabilities or contributions to society.

If women aren’t being dead weight. Good for them!

That’s how teams work- everyone plays a crucial part.

Unless men don’t want women on the team? 🤷‍♀️

Let’s find out what happens.

I’m FOREVER straight by the way, but I say:

Strong women (in any and every way), are NOT a turn off.

Any women who resembles those gym rat men, who just brag and become snobbish, or self absorbent- those are all the turn offs.

For me personally, anyone who is SO muscular, that they’re drowning in their own muscles like Mr. Incredible, who was sinking in the black goo/tar- like stuff… yeah, those people can’t even function, and don’t resemble a typical healthy human. That stuff not only turns me off, but scares me.. lmao. It’s uncalled for in my opinion. It’s just not practical, but if they truly love it?

Then go for it. 🤷‍♀️

susie22 · Accepted Answer

I'm physically very fit and strong, but I take great pride in maintaining my femininity, I look toned and tight, but not muscular. For me it's all about staying fit, trim and healthy. I get a lot of compliments on my figure, from both guys and girls.

MrOracle · Answer

Physically strong isn't a problem, but most guys don't find women with a lot of muscle definition to be attractive - it's too masculine. Plus, unless you live on a farm or something and have to do a lot of heavy work every day, a woman being physically strong isn't something that men value, because we already have that. Men value women for the things that men don't already have, which is why we like women who are feminine and nurturing and who aren't career-oriented.

Being physically strong isn't itself a deal-breaker, but if that makes you overly muscular, then that is a deal-breaker for most men (a few exceptions exist, of course, but it's not a very big pool of men). If being attractive to men, especially for a relationship, is important to you, then you will want to focus on enhancing your femininity, because that's what most men want and require in order to make a commitment.

Berethor · Answer

No guy wants an amazon trope, how she insanely strong without being muscular? it sounds like something from a movie, anyway it's pretty cool but if she more masculine than me than I am not going to like it, but maybe I would be able to fix it with a lot of working-out.

Paul09 · Answer

Yes I do. I get so impressed. My kickboxing teacher is so petite and has so much strength. She definitely can take on a big guy. Find her natural and very attractive. But like you said, I don't want her to have huge muscles and he way bigger than me lol

Anonymous · Answer

Every man is different. If she’s strong I’m good w that. I just want a girl who has a nice, smooth, soft body. I don’t want a girl who is muscular w a 6 pack, not feminine for me. Others find that attractive, I don’t.

Kiran_Yagami · Answer

What women call "strong" and what men call "strong" aren't the same. I have never met a woman physically strong enough to be capable of any of the things you've said. I doubt I ever will.

exitseven · Answer

No , just the opposite. I alway liked physically fit girls. I used to date somebody who was a competitive swimmer in college. She was big and beautiful and she could beat up a lot of guys.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't need to worry about her safety.

You combine that with a good attitude, and you are one of the top percentages of girls out there. When the attitude is right, even the beauty factor becomes secondary.

Babygirl_S · Answer

Can a person really lift heavy weights without gaining muscle? I don't think it's possible. Besides that physical strength is a predominantly masculine trait.

Deserter · Answer

It's unrealistic, I don't mind her getting in shape. But being vascular like a man is unattractive to me, would require steroids, she'd still be weaker thn me

Pyrofox · Answer

Strong women are only a turn off if their physical image is their best part of their personality.

Anonymous · Answer

no most men are turned on by them I have done polls on it. most men love them

ShiftingMonke · Answer

Me personally, no. Smaller men, maybe. It may very well become fetishized though.

Anonymous · Answer

Individual people will have their likes and dislikes. Most guys who are interested in women, in my experience, don't find her being fit and strong, and probably will find this attractive.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Nope. I don't think that's a turn off at all.

Shiningtempest · Answer

@haha456 A physically strong woman who workout would be a turn off because I see it as a sign of having no shared interest & incompatible lifestyle.

smølf · Answer

I prefer feminine women, physically as well as spiritually.

AdithyaR · Answer

Oh yes definitely hot. All hail real life Amazonians 🙌🙌

Anonymous · Answer

Some. Some are hot in a weird way that makes you uncomfortable.

Damian69 · Answer

It doesn't bother me. I'm comfortable with my own physical strength

Pete671 · Answer

Quite the opposite, actually a massive turn-on for me,,,

Pohjolan · Answer

Nah I'd try to get her to participate in wall climbing, Jujutsu, hiking and canoeing with me.

Anonymous · Answer

In my opinion, yes. I prefer physically delicate women. But there are certainly plenty of guys who also like women like that.

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

I wouldn't say they're a turn off.

Agape93 · Answer

Not for me, I don't mind it

Anonymous · Answer

I prefer femininity, not masculinity.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Nothing wrong with that.

NostalgiaSenpi · Answer

Not at all. I find it attractive.

Crankor · Answer

Why would it be? *confused face*

rupam_das · Answer

My biggest turn on. Completely opposite.

Keishio · Answer

Wouldn't bother me

Asad1ONE1 · Answer

No. And neither are weak men.

karl96 · Answer

No that is not turn off. Kind of opposite. XD

Anonymous · Answer

No, it israther a turn on

htmndg183 · Answer

Big turn on for me.

Alex8736 · Answer

More like a turn on

Julia1244 · Answer

Depends

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

Big turn off

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