Why are some doctors rude, condescending & dismissive?

[Anonymous]

I would say most. Why and how to deal with them to have a good relationship without looking for another one?

[Anonymous]

It's unfortunate that you have encountered doctors who have been rude, condescending, or dismissive. There is no one definitive answer as to why some doctors may exhibit these behaviors, it's important to remember that doctors are human beings and may have a variety of personal and professional factors that can impact their behavior.

If you're looking to improve your relationship with a doctor who has been rude, condescending, or dismissive, here are some tips:

1. Be clear and assertive: When communicating with your doctor, be clear and assertive about your concerns and needs. Use "I" statements to express your feelings and avoid blaming or accusatory language.

2. Ask questions: Ask questions about your condition and treatment options to show that you are invested in your own care. This can also help you better understand your condition and make informed decisions about your treatment.

3. Bring a friend or advocate: Consider bringing a friend or family member with you to appointments to provide emotional support and help you communicate with your doctor.

4. Consider switching doctors: If you feel that your doctor is not meeting your needs or treating you with respect, it may be worth considering finding a new doctor who is a better fit for you.

Remember, your doctor is there to provide you with care and support, and it's important to feel comfortable and respected in your interactions with them. If you're having difficulty communicating with your doctor, consider seeking the support of a patient advocate or healthcare professional who can help you navigate the healthcare system and advocate for your needs.

[Anonymous]

The majority of the health system is demonic and designed to bring you further into ill health. There are exceptions of course. But as long as people continue to ignore this, they will continue on the path of suffering and ill health. Ask yourself this simple question 'What has any of your Doctors truly cured?' the treatment of symptoms is not to be confused with curing anything...

[sage2021]

That's why they call it practice!

[sage2021]

I'm curious. Where are these doctors from. Since everyone is so down on California are they from California?
No way they could be practicing in Florida and be rude to their patients there. People from Florida are perfect angels and if you aren't fortunate enough to live in Florida, then You've missed out. I am being sarcastic. I am so tired of people making California sound like You've died and gone to hell if you live there.

[Asker]

I'm in Canada. Not talking about US

[Quackthulu2]

If you spent all day being over worked, under paid, had hundreds of thousands of dollars in student loans to pay off, and then had to work with people so stupid they are in the ER because they shoved something up their butt, or just blatantly refuse medical care because they think magic oil cures cancer and that vaccinations contain a government racking chip you might hate the world too.

[NotTacocaT6969]

They’re sick of everyone’s shit.


People waste their time every single day and it makes many of them become bitter and dismissive.


I call them out and leave if they behave that way ever since a doctor dismissed my broken ankle as a sprain and sent me home to let it heal wrong.

[Anonymous]

Could be you're a pain. Or it could be you're just overly sensitive. Doctor's usually have about 20 minutes to meet and treat you. Unfortunately it's a business same as anything else.

[In_Trance]

they're people just like all others