How do y'all feel after you lose a close one or family through suicide?

[Anonymous]

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How does one feel?

[AaronKrieger]

No one should kill themselves if they have people who love them. It's a very selfish thing to do, since you leave the people who love you with guilt, anger, sadness, and a void. Especially if it's it yours parents.

[Asker]

But what if no one shows any signs of care

[Pony_Rain012]

I know how it feels and it's so tough but I guess we have to take care of ourselves till we get a partner who loves us

[AaronKrieger]

Do it for yourself. Life is so easy to seen through a negative lens, but it often just takes changes in your life to fix that and you'll be content. Being suicidal is pretty much like when you're tired as shit and want to sleep. Your judgement and overall mindset is not correct, which cause you prioritize how you feel in the moment over thinking long-term.

[Anonymous]

I would feel sad and guilty for not saving them... I realized lately that nothing's worth dying for... Even if no one loves me or my life is as hard as hell, we only live once so I would regret not finding a partner or not having kids or even trying to enjoy my life or becoming successful, if I killed myself and worst of all I would never be able to come back again

[Agape93]

A bit sad; because I won't see them again. But more angry with why she chose to do that.

Every tide that comes in, goes out. Every action has a reaction. Things come back in time, and things get handled when it does.

[Asker]

So in place of the suicide, what would you have suggested the person does?

[Agape93]

Honestly, nothing. What happened with her ruined her, and her sense of safety. But if I had to ask her to do one thing, give me time to rectify the situation, so she'd have her peace again. Or at least an approximation of it.

[Asker]

Alright

[DrKrieger]

A mix of emotions, look up the 5 stages of grief

[Asker]

Alright

[Anonymous]

Sad, cause I couldn't kill them

[Asker]

Are you for real?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes... psychopaths do exist!

[Asker]

Oh wow