Why do I find women distracting when I want to focus on my goals?

[LadiesFavoriteToy]

Everytime when I want to achieve my goal's I literally have to stop talking to them and set out to get what I want to get done but if I try to keep talking with them and all my mind get's distracted. It's like silence is my remedy so I can accomplish my projects but at the same time I feel like I'm doing harm.

[Oliverlogan263]

It's totally normal for guys our age to find women distracting sometimes, man. Our brains are wired to notice them and it can be hard to focus on other stuff. But it's important we develop discipline too.

A few things that might help:

- Be upfront about needing focus time. Girls will respect a guy going after his goals.

- Set clear boundaries. Like only chatting at certain times so you can work undisturbed other times.

- Suggest fun activities together so it's not like you're ditching them totally. Win-win.

- If convos get flirty, gently steer back to safer topics so you don't get sidetracked.

- Reward yourself after focusing well with some relaxation. Keeps it balanced.

- Maybe study with a friend so you motivate each other's focus.

It takes practice but you'll get better at compartmentalizing over time. Just communicate what you need and don't feel guilty - having ambition is attractive too. You got this man!

[Sonorous]

Because when you're talking to women, the body sees it as having accomplished a large part of the goal. So it doesn't push out as many motivating chemicals like if would if you didn't.

[sage2021]

Because you're horny all the time.

[NathanDavis]

therapy might help