Is it bad that most women can't connect/relate to me due to the hobbies that I have?

[Anonymous]

My hobbies :
Reading
F1
Darts
Film
Tech
Tennis
Football
Tai chi
Psychology
Modern languages
Animals
Travel
Tattoo art
Gaming
Slapstick, Satire, silly, sarcastic humor.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

There are plenty of people, women included, who are interested in those things. If you yourself can’t find a girl, it’s not because of your choices in how you spend your time

[mandyfire98]

I'd have zero issues connecting with reading, film, psychology, animals, travel, tattoos and sarcastic humor.

[Asker]

Then why do people reject others that are similar to them or have signs of chemistry. Because they don't look appealing in body/face or they didn't say the right words?

[Anonymous]

Maybe that is your problem.
You are expecting them to relate to you.
Relationships are two people.
You have to put effort in to like what they like too

[Asker]

The other way around people avoid me for that if i don't like drugs or horse riding as examples they don't try to.

[BonzoInBitburg]

Your hobbies are fine.

[Asker]

Fine between guy to guy ik

[BonzoInBitburg]

Men and women are different. You don't have to like all the same things. You shouldn't stop liking things because of a girl. Those kinds of relationships always end in disaster and you'll never be happy

[Asker]

Most people have turned me down on the basis that we didn't have anything in common. So apparently in this day of age you have to be clone of that person to kw them from what I'm seeing.