Why is shaming men for their height & penis size okay but shaming women for their weight wrong?

[Chthou95]

Two of those things you can't change. The other one can be changed with proper diet and exercising yet weight is put on a pedestal

[AaronKrieger]

It's not and it's fine for either to do it if shamed, since it is an "eye for an eye." However, it makes sense why weight is treated as more serious.

Plenty of women have had their insecurity over their weight lead to unhealthy habits and eating disorders, which can be dangerous. Height and dick size doesn't do that no where on the same scale, but again, if she shames you, then fair is fair 😂.

[Chthou95]

And? So what if women are more insecure about it. That doesn't mean you shame men more for something because women are more insecure about their bodies. Height and size can be changed. Weight for the most part is under your control. Eat less work out more.

[Chthou95]

Can't*

[AaronKrieger]

I was just stating the reasoning behind why weight is treated more seriously than the other two. It makes sense why it is.

Nonetheless, it doesn't mean it's okay for women to shame men for their height/dick size.

[NicholasRedone]

I'm not sure because men do the same with women's features tits, buttocks, appearance, stature, weight.

So I feel like both genders do it.

And I for one am content with my 5 foot 11 height and 6 inches under carriage. 👀😂

[Chthou95]

Sure both genderd do it. But which one does society put on. a pedestal more? Men can't openly say stuff about weight or hell even mention anything about women's bodies on the mainstream. This doesn't have the same effect for men

[Chthou95]

Genders*

[BarryLiverstone]

Because mostly the height and private stuff is venting and not meant to be taken seriously. However calling someone fat can hurt them and discourage them from feeling confident.

[Chthou95]

You can change that though. The other two are out of your control

[BarryLiverstone]

Exactly the point. Guys can’t change how they are constructed so it doesn’t affect them. But it negatively affects girls if you call them fat.

[Chthou95]

It definitely affects some of the men though. And lying to women isn't helping them either.

[John_Cobretti]

Fat shaming should always be fine. Better than "sugar" coating them and pretending that they are making it past 45 without severe health issues.