Does anyone have a hard time being a mom?

[Anonymous]

I dont want to get into specifics but it's so hard being a mom. I have good days and bad days. But i think I have more bad days. I dont have no motivation... hardly any. What can I do?

[Summeroflove]

It’s hard for everyone you just may not see it just like people look at you I assume and wonder how you make it look so easy. Number one is mental health support it’s okay to reach out and get that.

Number two is just getting through the days. Think about what you’re needing to do what task you need to complete even if it sucks just push through it.

Also important to get breaks finding someone whose able to be with the kids if you’re with the man you had kids with. Making sure there is a break for you and for him if you’re not with him your parents or whoever. To find things you enjoy doing to get some peace and quiet.

[jahaims]

If your kids don't motivate you, you are a bad parent.

[Asker]

My kid does motivate me. But such an awful thing to say to someone by someone with no kids and have no idea what it's like. Fuck you

[chocolatetwopointo]

this is why im never becoming a mom

[Asker]

Is so hard. The hardest job I've ever had to do. It's like you're tired but so tired and still have to take care of someone who can't take care of themselves. I dont regret my son but I'm not having ANY more kids

[chocolatetwopointo]

mothers r such strong women, hope all goes well for you

[Asker]

Thanks love