Guys, can I overcome lifelong insecurity about my ordinary looks?

[Anonymous]

I want help and advice from guys, because our looks matter a lot to you

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i have been struggling for years

[exitseven]

I dated girls who would be considered ordinary looking. They were able to become awesome in other ways. As you would expect it took more effort and some patience to do it but the interesting thing about it was the more interesting they were to me the better looking tht they appeared.

[Alex-Snow]

Do not overthink it. Most guys are "ordinary" also! Do not put yourself down. Guys care about the person inside the body, their character, personality and their honesty. Have your boyfriends ever said anything?

[Asker]

it hurts in a way i can't explain

[Alex-Snow]

Ty for the mho

[NathanDavis]

will you commit to it and try therapy?

[Asker]

i tried , and nothing changed

[NathanDavis]

the point is to keep trying... till it starts to work

[jahaims]

Go to therapy

[Asker]

i did , but nothing changed, i just can't accept the way i look , especially when seeing men being attracted to hot women... and just realizing i'm not one of them, it hurts... a lot