How do you cope when not one person checks on you to see if you're alright?

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I went through major cancer surgery back on October 13th followed by chemo. From then on I been dealing with massive complications as bleeding urine lots of blood followed by lots of intense nausea and severe pains at times. What's sad is not one person has checked in on me to see how I'm doing not one. Not one person from tiktok Instagram or in my personal real life. The so called "friends" aka fake friends i follow not one has checked on me to see how I'm doing. No one in my personal life has either

Nuclear_Warhead · Answer

Be a warrior. Unlike some other sex hormones, androgens are unique in how they not only are sexual but also make you into a warrior. It helps with physical muscle and the brain to take risks.

It's probably beyond hormones. Have you seen the ant, or bee, or wasp queens? How they differ from worker ants or bees or wasps? They all have the exact same genetics. But they look almost like a completely different species because of epigenetics, the environment calls a hidden part to bloom.

Sinilarly we can enter different "modes". I think we become completely different people when we flip between maximizing our own survival, our species survival, and our direct offspring survival. Have you thought of why we feel attracted to people who are opposite than us even though we don't get along? Might be a way to ensure that the offspring gets the whole variety of personalities to learn from, such likely maximized the survival of out ancestors. When you shift your mindset to be more purposely selfish and less "objectively good" oriented then your feelings tell you to hang out more with people who are similar to you.

Then i believe, humans have been working similar to hierarchical worker insects for long enough to have it in the dna to enter a sacrificial mode where you don't even care to be called heroic, you just are. If you are family and love oriented then you will keep wanting to have people care for you. But warmth is no longer a requirement if you choose not to have a family, almost like an insect who dedicates to only being a worker. By now i am no longer even sure if hormones are relevant to it. But it's true that testicals have two functions. There's family and warmth stuff, then there is muscle and war. And most warriors know they won't return. And they don't ask for empathy. Is it toxic? Sort of? It's imbalanced but it's still a functional adaptation we are wired to be able to enter.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

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Nikki1989 · Answer

It's okay to admit it hurts. Wanting emotional support, reassurance, and genuine connection is a normal human need.

Bianca_Italy · Answer

I don't need to cope. I don't expect people to care about me. I hope you'll heal fast.

queenofcardio · Answer

So sorry, hope you're healing well 🙏🏻

Iron_Man · Answer

That would be hard-core tough

Anonymous · Answer

Why would I cope with that?

Agape93 · Answer

You move on.

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