Help! My boyfriend wets the bed!

[Anonymous]

OK my man is 22 years old and in awesome shape, not sick ever, and wets the bed. In out almost 3 years of sleeping over at each others house he has wet MY bed 6 times! I'm not sure if he does in his or not though. Its sporadic and it seems not to have reasons. He has tried not drinking certain things, not drinking after a certain time and making sure to go pee before bed and nothing seems to work. I keep telling him to go to the doctor but he wont. Any advice would be appreciated!

[Anonymous]

Refuse to let him sleep in your bed until he's seen a doctor, that might add a little motivation.

There could be something seriously wrong and he needs to find out.

Even if it's not serious, though, it's not fair on you.. Who wants to sleep in someone elses pee?

Point this out to him as well.

Then look up ways of getting children out of the habit and try these - you can get sheets where an alarm starts going off if they get wet, to wake you up so you go to the loo.

Or adult diapers to sleep in at night. Not attractive but it'd save the sheets, and if you bought him them it might make him do something about it.

[ladyofshalott]

If he's going to continue wetting YOUR bed, I would insist he sees a doctor or stop him from staying over til he stops being stubborn and seeks help for the problem. The fact that a man of his age continues to wet the bed, despite the changes you said he's tried, indicates that something might really be wrong. However, again, this can only be diagnosed by a doctor. Not going to lie, I don't think it's cool of him to refuse a doctor when his problem is stepping in on your life.

[Asker]

I have tried SO many times that I have given up. What's worse is he doesn't seem embarrassed at all.

[Zuyole]

He really does need to to go the doctor to sort it out. It's nothing to be embarrassed about because it IS a common problem.

Here is a video on YouTube you might want to watch: /watch?v=CcPPPWxjvaM

[neohiobiker]

This is strange in a man that old but it happens if he woudn't go to a doctor maybe you should tell them his problem is your problem and see what they suggest. Also stop his intake of fluids after dinner and make diner early, make sure he go's before bed and after sex. Ask him if this goes on at his place, he might be a very heavy sleeper. Does he do this at the same time of night? maybe you should wake him in the middle of the night to go. Make him wear depends nothing like a cold wet spot

[Asker]

He is a very heavy sleeper and he go's pee a lot. It seems like its random times.

[Anonymous]

I used to have this problem when I was younger. As weird as this sounds here's what would happen.

I would think that my dream was real and in my dream would stop to go use the bathroom and pee in what I thought was a toilet.

It didn't stop until my early 20s and lifestyle changes that I made led to not sleeping so heavily at night.

[Anonymous]

Set a timer so he has to get up and pee every 2-3 hrs or so.

[jack555]

tell him to go to piss before sleeping :P

[Asker]

He does

[jack555]

so do you masturbate him at night ... so he has wet dreams and things>?

[Asker]

No I don't