My boyfriend accidently wet the bed, now things have been tense between us. Help?

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My boyfriend accidently wet my bed, I was sleeping next to him and he woke up in a panic and rushed to the bathroom. I fell back asleep just thinking he had to pee really badly, but then he later woke me up. First thing he said was " I have to tell you something, please don't judge me or think differently of me" then proceeded telling me he wet the bed, he was having a dream he was peeing. He says this has never happened to him and doesn't know why it would happen now. I tried to be very calm and understanding, I didn't scorn him or make him feel bad for it. I just washed the sheets while he was showering. He kind of teared up a bit saying how embarrassed he was, out of all places for this to happen, it happened in my bed. I just reassured him I wasn't upset or think of him in any other way. We haven't had sex since this incident, and we've been kind of bickering. Whenever it is silent between the both of us he automatically thinks I'm mad or something is wrong with me. Then I have the feeling I'm doing something wrong when I'm not. I don't understand why he's acting this way, especially when I've tried to be sensitive on the incident now it feels a bit tense and awkward between us. Sometimes the tension last for a couple of hours, we'll be watching a show and just sitting next to each other without cuddling. We are a very affectionate couple, just feels like theirs a huge wall between us.
My boyfriend accidently wet the bed, now things have been tense between us. Help?
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