Guys, do think its unattractive if a girl has curves, or a bigger butt?

[Anonymous]

so I'm 5'2,

17 years.Caucasian

& I get the you have a "ghetto booty/j'lo" a lot,it bothers me because it makes me feel insecure.

As for my upper half I'm really small,& my torso is a lot longer

Bra 34b

I've always tried ways to diet all that but when I do lose I still have the butt, im not over weight I'm actually underweight for my age and height. should I try to loose it more or what?

if you do/dont find it attractive let me know why?

Updates

+1 y

my body is very hourglass

[peace-love-couture]

It's normal to feel insecure about curves, especially if the girls around you aren't as curvy. It's also awkward when you're already insecure about your body and dudes *compliment* it(whatever it is causing insecurity).

For SOME guys, yes, a pear body shape is a turn off. For some guys, a big ass is a turnoff. But for every dude turned off by a pear shape body or a big butt there's a guy who is turned on.

It's not a good or bad thing to be insecure. There are billions of girls on this world, flat chested, small boobs, medium boobs, humongous boobs, small ass, flat ass, medium ass and huge ass-- regardless of whether a body part is flat, small, medium or huge, there's some dude put there who'll like it.

Keep in mind, there are chicks out there who get butt implants, so a big butt isn't undesirable.

Just eat healthy and exercise. 

Healthy girls are attractive.

Perfect butt tip: squats and lunges can be your best friend my dear

[peace-love-couture]

Well still, curves are curves. Most guys have nothing against them as long as they're in the right place

[LOvethaT_E]

Honey :) ... awwww I dont't think you feel insecure about your body ... I bet you that butt of yours is going to look great in a dress except for it looking like your back is connected to your legs. By ghetto booty do you mean it look sloppy or lifted, round and Juicy, because jlo to me and a whole lot of damn other people think she have a pretty nice tush :). As a lady you should honestly embrace your curves and be happy you have them curves in the right places. I'm assuming you have a flat tummy and you say you have a long torso and your short so just wear things that make you look taller. I came up in a community that love curves but not flabby tummies. Please just embrace yourself for how you was born and be happy that you have an ass that looks great in jeans. And I doubt it's really all that big.

[Asker]

Thank you ! <33 and no my butt is not sloppy!lol I guess Like the Kardashians is you know of the,.Yes my stomache is flat.

[LOvethaT_E]

You welcome I used to feel insecure too and I still have my days but honestly I never met any guy of any race yet that don't like a a tad of meat but then again I'm only sixteen going on seventeen but anyway just ignore them people that say negative things

[G-Daz]

Keep it! :P big butts are cute as hell! you really shouldn't be worrying about your weight, be healthy! you arn't going to change the way you're body is naturally supposed to look... curves are sexy and so are thick thighs, don't stress about it. All guys are different and have different tastes, you will NEVER be attractive to EVERY guy because opninions of what is and isn't attractive varies from person to person. Just be as you are rather then be something you arn't

[Anonymous]

Sounds like the perfect body for me. I'm 6'3'' 220 lb and black. I like small girls with a nice big ass. Easier to handle

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't call it "unattractive" but I don't find it sexy...however a lot of my friends do..isn't it marvelous that we don't all like the same things?

[westman74]

I prefer curves... They are sexy

[Anonymous]

No please not this question!

[Asker]

stfu

[Asker]

yup thanks (:

[Anonymous]

Black guys will want to f*** your brains out heh

[Anonymous]

Hope you like them tall, dark and well hung! ;)

[Asker]

what?

lol

[Opinion Owner]

Usually taller athletic guys like a woman with wider hips and a big butt.