Is it possible that a girl goes on playing?

[foxsquirrel]

The girl seems to derive energy from getting me down by trying to show she is there (getting in my proximity and passing by me) because she knows that I like her but the last time around 8 months ago that I tried to get near her she went away and avoided me. Now the summer has passed and we started seeing each other and the work place. She must be playing with me she has a boyfriend, not engaged but she has a boyfriend. And the boyfriend is so much unlike me. tattoos on arm and chest a very disgusting individual in my opinion. So sure as hell I must not fit for her taste so she must be a super bitch and wicked knowing that she is stabbing me all the time. God damn luckily if all goes well I will not be working anymore their for a long time. 3 weeks and I will be transferred at best. So any comments folks. I would like to read what you genuinely think.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Well the way to fix that is to stop letting her get to you. Yes, some people get off on the idea of someone lusting after them and they do not grant that person's request. But in the end, you're putting yourself in this situation.

[foxsquirrel]

What the hell man. How am I putting myself in this situation? I'm not the one going next to her and passing by her and such wickedness, she is. So how the hell did you blame. Is there something that perhaps you misunderstood?

[yaddayaddayadda02]

You are the one getting emotionally upset over her coming by you. I understood correctly. She could walk by me, and get no satisfaction from the interaction because I do not react to her.

[foxsquirrel]

If you have feelings for a women you have no option really. You, would also feel down if you happen to meet someone like I did. You can't make yourself feel different. You can lie to yourself but deep down the feelings will be there. And it would be hell. The only think I can hope is not to see her go damn it. It's not fair. She is attacking me. Isn't this unacceptable even by spectators. I wish somebody could help me. Oh sure as hell I'm not gonna help anybody. Eye for an eye.

[UberTroll]

Are you sure she's purposely trying to cross paths with you? Does she stare at you or talk to you when she pops up like that? If not, she could just be doing her job. It's hard to say without seeing the behavior with my own eyes.

[foxsquirrel]

No she does not talk to me at all and neither do I. We used to however and I thought she fancied me and stuff and I was very taken by her a lot but perhaps I mistaken her shear extrovertism for romantic interest(This was last year). She kind of does look at me from a far But come to think of it many people give me these curious looks from afar. They must sense that I'm out of place as I do feel.