Do guys like fat chicks?

[Anonymous]

Okay, I'm not the fattest girl in the world but I could make the hottest guy in the world cringe if he had to have sex with me! I just have a sorta big belly. ( I wear size 16 pants) I have heard some guys, even attractive guys like big girls but I'm having trouble believing it. I have a couple close guy friends that flirt with me a lot but they never ask me out- I think it's because of my weight. I dunno. I don't know what to do, lose weight or just be myself and hope someone like me for me?!

[Anonymous]

bby boo listen, guys have different tastes some guys to like skinny girls others like fat girls, take me for example, ok I'm not what you can consider fat, I weigh 115, but I do have a belly and at times people think I'm like 2 months pregnant, and my boyfriend loves me and my weight, he for example doesn't like skinny girls, but he doesn't like fat ones either, he likes girls that are chubby, he doesn't like it when I lose weight and doesn't want me to gain weight either, get me?

point is, if you want to lose weight do it for yourself not so that guys will look at you because then they look at ur body not for who you are and that only leads to trouble, lose weight but lose it for yourself not for a possible boyfriend or relationship. be yourself, be who you r, be the person uve always been and someone will come along who will love you for u, and not care about ur weight not care about how you look and find you the most beautiful girl there is in the world, trust me there will be a guy out there that won't care about ur weight, but if you wanna lose weight go ahead but for you and only u

furthermore just so you no, sex is kinda better when ur a bit chubby because guys have more to grab, this does NOT mean go have sex, just telling you there are some ups to being chubby so don't change yourself, be who are u, looks and all, and there will be a guy out there for u, promise :) hope I helped

[Virtuales]

Hmmm

[Autumnbaby352]

3 years ago, I was in the same boat. I actually wore a size 16 too! I wasn't the fattest girl either but I didn't think any guy would ever want me. I had no self confidence, unflattering clothes, and a terrible diet. I was always obese and one day I got so sick of wanting to be desirable to this guy and that guy that something finally clicked and I wanted to be desirable to myself. I lost 50 pounds in 10 months by dieting super hard. Once I finally realized that I needed to lose the weight for myself and no one else, I was finally able to actually do it and stick with it for a long while. Truth is, weight does have an effect on the way most guys view a girl, but that doesn't mean you need to go diet crazy and lose a ton of weight to find the guy of your dreams. Some guys DO like heavier set girls, and there's nothing wrong with that. And then there are the guys who think even the ugliest, fattest chick in school (to everyone else) is the most beautiful girl he's ever seen. If a guy won't date you because of your weight, then move on! You'll find someone worth your time regardless of what you look like or how much you weigh. If you are uncomfortable with your weight or it is becoming a health issue, then lose some, but I urge you to do it for yourself because you come first! Like I said, I've been there so I know exactly how it feels and I'm here if you ever need anything. Hope this helps.

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[Agsded]

you can create your own looks. Having a positive/light/funny personality will make your face glow if you are sincere. Those faces drive me wild. I could care less about the weight at that point. I'd rather meet someone with a genuine beautiful personality than someone with looks.

If ya want to work on weight, I lost a lot of weight lately. light sugar (no soda [one soda = 10 cookies]) and most importantly...above all is a regular eating schedule. Eat at the same time everyday and NEVER 4-5 hours before bedtime. So many people fall into random eating...makes you hungry all the time and your body ends up storing the excess as fat. Some of it is genetics, but practicing this helps alot. btw that should be at least 3 meals a day...just enough to satisfy you.

[Avalace]

I don't like "fat chicks" as you say. I like them rather slim. My friend likes them heavier. It all depends on the person.

Don't try to lose weight because it's "healthier and much more attractive." Do it because you want to or that it will make you happy.

[girl3377]

lots of guys do like heavier girls trust me some guys are turned off by skinny average girls..if you are comfortable in your own skin embrace it wear makeup ..buy clothes be confident that there are guys there for every type of girl!...if you are not comfortable loose a bit of weight too be healthy ..and active try to NOT get on a diet it is hard just start out small with portion control DIETS DONT WORK so just make smarter choices like walking for 10 min then more until 1 hour a day you will better :) and feel good and start today don't wait until oh monday start today and you will feel better ..don't get discourage and for your guy friends maybe they like you and don't want to say anything or maybe you should tell him you like him if you really do!

[Anonymous]

yeah it's because of your weight. not saying that all fat chicks are unattractive, but everyone looks better at a healthy weight. you don't have to be stick skinny (that prepubescent look isn't that hot to real men, maybe insecure boys though). but if you're a size 16 and got down to like a size 10 even or below you will notice a drastic change in how guys relate to you.

usually fat chicks who pull guys either have an amazing personality - but still guys are visual creatures so even if your personality is great the body and overall looks makes more of a difference.

-or they dress really well and carry themselves nicely. that means girls that dress for their body type and don't try to fit into clothes just because they are trendy

-or some big girls have given other big girls a bad name by playing into that desperate/easy/low self esteem fat girl stereotype. so you really have to watch a guy to make sure he doesn't think your easier to get because your fat.

[stevo]

Don't not believe it-----BELIEVE it. Looks aren't everything to everybody, because they don't define who you are. A lot of guys do go for looks, but some DO tend to go for personality over looks.

[FrozenDonkeyWheel]

You should try to lose weight. Don't even just do it so you'll be attractive to other people, do it because being overweight is unhealthy, and could lead you to an early death.

[Virtuales]

i think it's better if you try to lose weight

it's healthier and much more attractive

i don't think guys usually like "fat chicks"

i personally don't