Am I being right and fair?

[artsy_dragon]

My boyfriend works full time. I work part time and I am in university. He has been mainky paying our bills, food etc. I probably can't afford him a Christmas present this year so I was just going to not ask him for one for me.

He will probably buy something and get me to pay him back later which he has done before. I a, not the biggest fan of Christmas. Am I being right and fair?

[Paulalove98]

Have you talked to him about it? Sure he won't mind especially if times are tough right now. It's understandable. I'm gonna try to get my new boyfriend a little something for when he gets back home from his job but yeah don't worry too much about it🙂

[artsy_dragon]

It is his family as well

[QuietVerbena]

I agree with you. I think your idea is fair.

[artsy_dragon]

Okay cool I just don't wamt him to feel guilty

[QuietVerbena]

I don’t think he will. You’re fine.

[artsy_dragon]

Thanks

[QuietVerbena]

You’re welcome

[QuietVerbena]

Thanks for MHO 😊

[Summeroflove]

You need to talk to him about it as many others have said. You don’t HAVE to get anyone anything with your own money. But it’s a nice thing to do.

Again, you need to be speaking to him about issues like this.

[crossdressingrihno]

Or instead of buying him something you could just do something for him.

[crossdressingrihno]

How about a few cute photos and home made breakfast in bed?

[artsy_dragon]

I don't take photos and we don't what breakfast

[artsy_dragon]

Eat *

[crossdressingrihno]

Point stands. Sometimes the best gifts can’t be bought

[artsy_dragon]

True

[crossdressingrihno]

Just make him feel extra special for the day and you should be fine. It can be just about anything. The small things matter.

[BLP11520]

ok i guess