I’m a Live In House Maid for a young woman. She is having a Christmas Dinner party. Why does she insist that I wear a Maid outfit to serve her guests?

[Anonymous]

This looks stupid for a Christmas Dinner Party

Should I refuse to wear it for her Christmas Dinner Party?

Updates

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https://imgur.com/a/y5FNPbM

[XXblack88]

Well if you are working for her I don't know if you have much of a choice. Maybe sit her down and see if the two of you can come up with something you both are ok with the worst is she'll say is no.

[Asker]

That is helpful thank you 🙏

[Asker]

@XXblack88 Her parents came over and bought their House Maid to help me. She is a white girl too and wearing the same Dress, so I am going to wear the dress even if I look ridiculous.

[XXblack88]

@Jennz6 At less you're not the only one wearing this silly outfit

[Asker]

XXblack88 she said I don’t have to wear it anymore because she is getting me a regular Maid Dress, not sure what that will look like

[XXblack88]

hmm 🤔 well hopefully it would be better then what she was going to have you wear

[Asker]

@xxblack88 you were right, it wasn’t too bad

[XXblack88]

@jennz6 that's grate! 🙂

[Hafia_xo]

Ask her tbh

[Asker]

I think she wants to embarrass me

[Asker]

Or maybe she wants to show her friends how important she is having her own House Maid?

[Hafia_xo]

Stop working for her. You deserve so much better bbygirl💕

[Asker]

@Hafia_xo I sent you a message

[CrazyGirl2]

How can that possibly be true if her mother is making HER maid wear the same outfit? I really think you are way over thinking this.

[Hafia_xo]

@CrazyGirl2 what r u talking about? U don’t make sense bye

[CrazyGirl2]

She wrote above, when writing to @jennz6 and XXblack88 that “ XXblack88 Her parents came over and bought their House Maid to help me. She is a white girl too and wearing the same Dress, so I am going to wear the dress even if I look ridiculous.”
THAT is what I was writing about. There is no need to be rude when someone is trying to help you and give you context you didn’t know.

[Hafia_xo]

@CrazyGirl2 Jen is my friend. She already explained her situation to me. You didn’t have to interfere so mind ur business thank you sweetie

[SnowedIn]

@OlderAndWiser hit the nail on the head with this one. His item number 2 is the most important, unfortunately. This is what your employer wants and unless there's something sexual about it, then I think you roll with it, grit your teeth and do it. Then, after the holiday, you have the opportunity to find work where you don't have to wear the uniform.

[OlderAndWiser]

I appreciate your kind words.

[OlderAndWiser]

1. She is wanting to be pretentious and put on airs in front of her guests. Stupid? Yes.

2. She is your employer and she sets the terms and conditions of employment. Yes, you are her servant and you feelings about this matter are irrelevant.

3. As stupid as it is. . . this, too, shall pass.

[Staximus]

Tell her it's not Halloween or the 1800's anymore and that's humiliating. Tell her how about you just wear some nice looking normal clothes like all the other maids these days, and if she doesn't like that then she can go fuck herself with a cactus.

[Asker]

I did, and she said that it is just Holiday spirit

[menina]

Since you're working for her, you don't have many options. You'll have to wear it even if you don't like it.

[Asker]

@menina thank you for your advice

[menina]

You're welcome. :)

[Asker]

@menina you were right, I didn’t have any other options.

[Flower7]

It’s just for one day. It shouldn’t be that bad.

[Asker]

@Flower7 I know, you’re right. I just need to be positive.

[Asker]

@flower7 as it was for one day, it wasn’t too bad really. Thank you for your support.

[Flower7]

You’re welcome, I’m glad you got through it!

[Asker]

@flower7 xx kisses

[20yearsolder]

Wear it and take pics while wearing it so we can see

[Asker]

I’m not gonna wear it

[20yearsolder]

Boooóo

[Asker]

@20yearsolder If I have to wear it, I don’t want any pictures, it will just be so humiliating and embarrassing for me to be Her Maid

[20yearsolder]

Understandable. You could just put it on long enough to take a pic LOL

[Asker]

No pictures but I’m probably gonna have to wear it

[Brando10222]

She probably thinks you are beautiful. So if you wear a maid outfit people will stay away from you and not be sexually attracted easily.

[Asker]

I suppose you are right?

[Brando10222]

I think that's the reason why

[Brando10222]

Dm me

[Brando10222]

It looks like 19th century dress 😅

[jshm2]

Take out your contract and read it. If cosplay or "dress code" is not on there, then tell her

[CrazyGirl2]

You shouldn’t have to wear anything that you don’t want to. If you feel it is inappropriate then file a complaint with the EEOC, or a state or city employment agency.

[strraku]

Maybe she doesn't want hwr guests to see you as part of her family

but she is your boss,, how would you refuse it if you wanted to

[Asker]

I’m not sure? I guess I can’t refuse without being fired

[strraku]

I agree with you in tht

[Asker]

Thank you

[Wise4myage]

Well, she is your boss right? So just wear it.

[Asker]

I want to enjoy it too but not her Maid, I feel like her Servant

[Wise4myage]

Does she know how you feel?

[Asker]

Yes, she very demanding 😥

[Wise4myage]

Perhaps its time to look for a new job?

[Asker]

The only other job that I ever did was being a Topless Dancer and striper and I was trying to get away from that but I never graduated high school and don’t have any experience so I took this job because it is easy just cook cleaning and laundry

[Wise4myage]

You should get your G. E. D.

[Wise4myage]

I like the update.😉

[Asker]

I don’t see the update I thought I did it wrong?

[Wise4myage]

I saw it, lol.

[Asker]

@wise4myage so I did wear it

[Anonymous]

Well I can't see the pic but if it's sexy then it should be then I guess you should say no to it no matter what.

[CubaPirate]

You'll look hot for the benefit of her guests

[Anonymous]

Either she thought it was Halloween

or you're just a fake troll

[Anonymous]

I'm sorry... but... i like it

(please don't hate me)

[Debbie14217]

no idea.. ask

[Asker]

I did ask her if I had to?

[Guy___]

Christmas is a cult. Gets disgusting easily. But I see her doing it for the theme. If you don't feel ok doing it, try modifying it into something that works.

[Asker]

@Guy___ thanks

[Anonymous]

I would dress as a sexy french maid if I could

[Asker]

Turned out being a lot of fun

[Anonymous]

She wants you to dress the part.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Cause you look sexy asf in it

[Bklynbadboy12]

She might even put you to work