Would you allow your girlfriend/wife to wear such dress when she's out in party?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

Depends on who she's hanging out with

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5 mo

People, English is not my first language. I shouldn't have used the word "allowed".

I am sorry for that.

Of course a man should never have a "control" over what you wear and how a girl choses to express herself.

This question was more about whether men on gag are okay with their girlfriend/wife wearing that dress in pic. I asked this because there are many people, men and women both, who will shame other for showing off skin in public.

[slatyb]

My wife often asks me what I would like her to wear, but I would never presume to tell her that she wasn't allowed to wear something.

[Miristheiss]

What a simp answer.
A wife who'd give and "eff off" to her husband and wear something like this is so disrespectful and disloyal that divorce should be on the table. A total wuss walks around letting his wife do any disloyal, respectful thing she feels like with no consequences. I'm surprised she'd even respect a man so weak. A cuck would probably be ok with this. Hundreds of men seeing his wife naked and staring at her body all night and buying her drinks and hitting on her probably turns him on.

A woman who is taken and committed should ACT committed and be respectful. Any man who is fine with this is a weak cuck.

[NathanDavis]

that's a lot of words.. to just say "never had a woman before"

but yeah, you made it very clear, lol

[Miristheiss]

@NathanDavis
My wife of our 2 kids will be thrilled for ya.
My wife would probably refer to women like this as sluts. I'd tend to agree.

[NathanDavis]

@Miristheiss "probably"

so you speak for her?

not surprised... lol

[Miristheiss]

@NathanDavis
What a wonderful retort.
Thanks for your contribution.

[NathanDavis]

@Miristheiss it all makes sense now, yes...

and like I said, you don't know true women

[NathanDavis]

no disrespect to the wife though...

[bingbongbangbung]

@Miristheiss that's not what cuck means, and shaming people is an effeminate trait

[bingbongbangbung]

@Miristheiss so besides using ad hominem, you have nothing of value to provide

[Tomisworthless]

@Miristheiss Nathans girl is for everyone to use

[NathanDavis]

@Tomisworthless even if true... you wouldn't stand a chance

[Tomisworthless]

@NathanDavis oh no im ugly and gay i stand zero chance but there are many many men who do and if you can't lead your free spirited anything goes girl she will just be lead into another mans bed

[NathanDavis]

@Tomisworthless well, if you have some weird fetish from humiliation or whatever... it won't be me, lol

[Tomisworthless]

@NathanDavis what? No im just saying you're right but that doesn't mean you're weak in your role as a man in the relationship

[NathanDavis]

@Tomisworthless first of all.. you know nothing about me or my relationships

but more importantly, you know nothing about what being a man actually means

[Tomisworthless]

@NathanDavis well it surely doesn't mean letting your girl go to a house party in a see through dress with her presumably single slut friends with alcohol

[NathanDavis]

@Tomisworthless don't even pretend to know or have a clue about any of this... lol

I can only take certain amount of cringe

[Tomisworthless]

@NathanDavis Its called sense something you seem to lack despite all of your experiences of being a real boy.

[NathanDavis]

@Tomisworthless yet another thing you have no idea about lol... common sense

[KrakenAttackin]

@Miristheiss Yes. Married women who dress like this have zero respect for their marriage and their husbands.

[Miristheiss]

@KrakenAttackin
It is sad to see all the guys responses acting like it some enlightened position to be with women like this.
What high quality partner would desire to do this?
How sleazy and damaged would you have to be to ever desire to do this?
I would never have married my wife to begin with if she wanted to pull stuff like this. In private, sure. My wife has never wanted to act like a prostitute in public.
It is sad to see how poor a taste in women so many guys have.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Miristheiss I agree 💯. What has happened to women? Well, I know what has happened to them, it was a rhetorical question.

[JacobJordan]

Wife response: I would only wear that at home. That is not suitable attire for being outside.

[aceleon]

you are a lucky one.

[JacobJordan]

@aceleon my wife just has too much self respect to go out in public dressed like that. We all know what words come to mind when we see someone dressed like that publicly.

[KrakenAttackin]

And yet simps will defend these 304's. Something has to change.

[Wraith_Cemetery]

Would never be with someone that wears such things to begin with. No crop tops, no booty shorts, no see through dresses, etc.

[Nifrayu]

Why so boring?

[aceleon]

@Nifrayu it's not boring it is not being a cuck.

[Nifrayu]

@aceleon You shouldn't use words you don't understand.

[aceleon]

@Nifrayu i do understand what i say and i don't remember asking permission from you or anyone else to use words?

[Nifrayu]

@aceleon Obviously you don't because what you said wasn't even relevant.

[Miristheiss]

@Nifrayu
She is supposed to be boring.
Sexually to the rest of the world and to other men she should be boring if she is loyal and committed to her man. The wild and fun and sexy woman is to come out with her man when they are alone.
This is not what loyal, respectful, committed partners wear for other men to see her in. Only a fool would make a girl who did this a girlfriend or wife to begin with.

"Boring".
So your girl showing off her naked body and sexually enticing other men is what is fun to you?
Ok.
Your girl dressing modestly and respectfully in public bores you.
Sounds like you have a kink. You get off on your girl showing it off for other men's pleasure and men getting an eye candy treat on your girl.
Maybe you should date a stripper or an Onlyfans prostitute.

[Nifrayu]

@Miristheiss Nudity isn't sexual.

[bingbongbangbung]

@aceleon so besides ad hominem, you have nothing of value to contribute

[bingbongbangbung]

@aceleon i don't recall asking permission from you either; pot. kettle. black.

[bingbongbangbung]

@Miristheiss Abrahamic beliefs which aren't rooted in objective reality are quite boring

[Nifrayu]

@bingbongbangbung why do you keep mentioning permission?

[KrakenAttackin]

@Wraith_Cemetery. Absolutely correct. No hoes.

[Miristheiss]

No. I'd break up if she tried to go out like that. Of course I would have never made her my girlfriend in the first place. The only way this situation could ever come up is if she pulled a bait and switch, she goes through some life crisis where she becomes a different person then the one I committed to. Since that is super, super rare I would have already known her character, lifestyle while dating.

I would see the party girl, drinking, wild, promiscuous friends she hangs with, I'd see that she like to go out to clubs and party and that she dressed like a prostitute. I would have just moved in at the very beginning and I wouldn't have pursued such a woman. If she portrayed herself as a different person but then started wanting to hang out with suspect friends and started to want to go out partying then I would have nipped it in the bud or just broke up as soon as she did this.

The women in the picture, those are the type you run into when you are single and you may try to hook up with her and then move on. That is never the type any wise man would ever make a girlfriend or wife. Such a man is a fool. Party girls can NEVER be girlfriends or wives. EVER.

[abc3643]

I don't get to allow or forbid anything like that.

My wife is my partner, not my slave or employee.

I may not like something she does and may protest, but there's no "I rule over you". That's not marriage.

[Sour-rose]

Low key shocked how folks here would say "they wouldn't allow"... buuut if I had a girlfriend (married), I ain't gonna control what she wears. I ain't her big sister. She'll wear what she wants as a resp-... oh whatever, she'll be her own adult.

[SotiCoto]

"Allow"? It isn't my position to allow nor disallow anything to anyone. I don't own anyone but myself. I have opinions and I will express them, but it isn't my place to set rules for others, and neither is it their place to set rules for me.

[syncheart]

If I had a girlfriend or wife, I would leave it up to her on what she chooses to wear. She is a person with a freewill, and therefor I do not control what she does. If she takes my opinion on something that is by her own freewill, not because I tell her what to do.

[Tomisworthless]

you're weak for letting your women advertise her ass and breasts in such a way for all to see freely.

[slatyb]

@Tomisworthless You're weak for fearing that if someone else pays attention to her, she may leave you.

[BarryLiverstone]

Allow? My gfs have worn what they chose to. Why would they have to check with me?

[aceleon]

umm well maybe but just maybe that you are their god damn boyfriend and maybe but just maybe that you wouldn't appreciate your girl looking like a slut and getting eye fucked by who knows how many guys?

[BarryLiverstone]

I’ll disagree with you sir. When I’ve been out with my girlfriend and she gets attention for her physical health and beauty, that filled me with pride for her. If you term that as eye fucking those are your words. The fact that others desire her isn’t a negative as she is confident.

[aceleon]

boy, you are a cuck.

[BarryLiverstone]

Would you mind defining that word?

[aceleon]

a guy who is okay with his girl being sexualized or having sex with other guys.

[BarryLiverstone]

You saw how I feel about guys desiring her. I wouldn’t date someone unattractive. Just like I wouldn’t date someone who cheats on me by having sex with others; that’s weird

[abc3643]

@aceleon Maybe, just maybe @BarryLiverstone has a better grasp of the nature of a healthy relationship that you because he understands that she is her own person and the boyfriend or husband doesn't rule over her.

[aceleon]

@abc3643 nope, it is against the very law of nature also if healthy relationship means my girl dressing like a whore and other guys looking at her with nasty eyes i rather not have a healthy relationship cuz that's not healthy, that isjust toxic positivity you are hanging on.

[BarryLiverstone]

What is the law of nature?

[abc3643]

@aceleon you are a boy and have a lot of growing up to do before you will be in a successful long-term relationship. Good luck with that.

[aceleon]

@abc3643 then you are a baby who doesn't even know what you are talking about and playing the high ground with me while you are letting your girl getting eye fuckedby other guys, fuck healthy long term relationships i orefer being a man and just having my fun withwoman and not take any burden with me like you cuck hubbies oh but you ever search for a bull just call me your poor girl can seriously use a real man. farewell.

[abc3643]

@aceleon LOL
You are the epitome of the old adage "Children should be seen, not heard."
I have no respect for you and your words hurt me as if I were a kindergarten teacher being called a "poopyhead" by a 5-year-old because I said "It's nap time.".

[slatyb]

@abc3643 Let me guess -- you are sixty and never married.

[Miristheiss]

Nice simp answer.
So, if she wore that... why would she still be your girlfriend? Are your standards really that low? You require zero respect or loyalty from anyone you give you commitment to?
If you stayed with a woman who went out naked then you truly are weak.
Where did MEN go?
You expect zero respectful behavior from a girl you give a commitment to? She just does whatever disrespectful, whorish crap she wants and you just cower and say "yes sweetheart" whatever you want. I have zero say in this relationship, I get to have no standards, go get butt naked in front of all the other men you want. My job is just worship you and put you on a pedestal no matter how shady, whorish, disrespectful you act.

You are one of those who think they should get all the perks but no responsibilities or duties. You buy her dinners, take her on dates, shower her with love and affection, protect her, provide for her, love you... and then she just to go whore around and dishonor you and act sexually available to other guys and give them a sex show?
What weak men.

[BarryLiverstone]

Wears what?

[bingbongbangbung]

@aceleon nope just against your deluded Abrahamic beliefs with no basis in reality

[bingbongbangbung]

@Miristheiss that's not what simp means; changing the definition of words is an effeminate trait

[abc3643]

@slatyb I am married for over 22 years.

[slatyb]

@abc3643 And you've been telling your wife what she is and is not allowed to do for all that time?

[abc3643]

@slatyb No. The OPPOSITE of that.

[slatyb]

@abc3643 Oh, she tells you what you are allowed to do?

[Miristheiss]

@slatyb
Don't change the subject with your red herring reply.
That outfit in the picture is a very specific situation... practically naked in public. Any woman who'd wear that in public as a girlfriend or wife probably doesn't give a shit about her mate anyway and should probably just be dumped. I would imagine most on here have never been in this situation as I have not. My wife wouldn't ever wear that (I would never have married her to begin with if she had that in her wardrobe and wore it in public) hence I've never needed to intervene. If my wife had a mental breakdown and bought a prostitute outfit like that and bought it, not to wear for me IN PRIVATE but bought it to wear out in public then I'd definitely intervene. I'd imagine most logical, common sense men wouldn't even date a girl anymore if she wore such a revealing "outfit".
So your lame attempt to lie and shift the narrative to make it seem women will have her man picking out all of her outfits daily for everything is just intellectually dishonest.

[slatyb]

@Miristheiss Red herring? I wouldn't mind if my wife owned that and wore it. It would be pretty hot.

"I'd imagine most logical common sense men" -- so now we know you have a very limited imagination and assume that your feelings and values are universal when actually they are quite parochial. Maybe an outfit like that would bring disapproval where you live. Here it would draw compliments (and envy from women who wouldn't look good in it, and from men who's partners wouldn't).

[rigmarole]

They're not married... No guy that sees them in those dresses will ever consider marrying them either. Guys already know what they are and will act accordingly...

[DeeDeeDeVour]

I wore some things very similar but I was single, unattached then.

I think my husband would allow me to wear such a wardrobe, even today.

[elizamichale1]

My partner doesn't really mind... he actually asks me to dress slutty and transparent...

[Forceinhand]

1. I would not.
2. No woman who's passed the girlfriend treshold with me will ever be that type.

[RedInnocent68]

Weird that they’re matchy, but not sure it’s my place to ‘allow’ anything. I may also have encouraged someone to wear something similar… 🤔😉😂

[Drumlin2001]

Not up to me to allow her to do anything. She's a grown woman, she can make her own choices.
But my OH wouldn't wear that.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

I personally would never wear something like that. Way too showy.

[ChicoFromThe305]

It's nothing personal I don't want a party girl, the whole idea of it is not my cup of tea, I wouldn't if I'm ever in the situation tho

[curious_gul]

Nope that's Haram, covering our bodies protect us from rape, being objectified, naughty strangers thoughts... Our bodies are sacred.
It's not like I can't wear it for my husband though 😉

[renodnol32]

Where are you from @curious_gul?

[lilBigPotato]

Right one looks bad but the rest are not too bad. Mesh is trendy nowadays nothing special

[shiran_]

The fact that you think that you can allow or disallow is disturbing to me.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Renee Russo's dress in the Thomas Crown Affair, sure, this is a bit over the top.

[jahaims]

She's not an attention whore so she wouldn't want to