My ex is a evil guy. He cheated on me repeatedly and emotionally abused me for over a year.
I had to reach out to his mother twice to get him to leave me alone.
On my second attempt he finally stopped and I thought I was actually free.
Now he did contact my friend but she blocked him but once he left me alone I was happy.
Until this evening on Christmas Eve he decides to email me “hey don’t get mad at me or text anyone I just wanted to wish you a merry Christmas and hope your doing good”.
I could not believe it. I was shaking and getting upset but then I thought of all the other times he’s done this and I was like no he’s not upsetting me anymore.
So I emailed back “still won’t do the right thing. Have a great Christmas”.
Which he then emails back “ I was only trying to be nice”.
And I responded with “Niceness died along time with you. Now leave me alone for good. Stop with the special occasion emails as its meaningless and petty on your behalf. We’ve both moved on in our lives so keep it that way!”.
I’m hoping he leaves it at that. But I’m sick to death of this man trying to ruin me and my mental health.
Anyone know why this man is still tormenting me after a year and a half?
Like why does he have to go out of his way to email me this crap like what’s he want me to be like oh yeah thanks so much your so kind after all the crap he’s done to me?
Please tell me I’m not insane here?
I had to reach out to his mother twice to get him to leave me alone.
On my second attempt he finally stopped and I thought I was actually free.
Now he did contact my friend but she blocked him but once he left me alone I was happy.
Until this evening on Christmas Eve he decides to email me “hey don’t get mad at me or text anyone I just wanted to wish you a merry Christmas and hope your doing good”.
I could not believe it. I was shaking and getting upset but then I thought of all the other times he’s done this and I was like no he’s not upsetting me anymore.
So I emailed back “still won’t do the right thing. Have a great Christmas”.
Which he then emails back “ I was only trying to be nice”.
And I responded with “Niceness died along time with you. Now leave me alone for good. Stop with the special occasion emails as its meaningless and petty on your behalf. We’ve both moved on in our lives so keep it that way!”.
I’m hoping he leaves it at that. But I’m sick to death of this man trying to ruin me and my mental health.
Anyone know why this man is still tormenting me after a year and a half?
Like why does he have to go out of his way to email me this crap like what’s he want me to be like oh yeah thanks so much your so kind after all the crap he’s done to me?
Please tell me I’m not insane here?
