How should I deal with this situation?

[KezHarris]

My sister punched me in the eye on Christmas Day, smashed my wine glass and nearly stabbed me with the stalk of the glass… my dad stopped her from stabbing me… but then told me not to phone the police… but the last few days I’ve had nothing but emotional abuse off my mum and sister… saying I “provoked” her when I really didn’t, I sat there calmly ignoring her attempts to wind me up… had no support off my family whatsoever… so now I’ve made an online police report as this stress is affecting my uni coursework and my mental health and my parents are letting her get away with murder… my dad threatened to kill himself if I called the police, so I told him that that’s a threat and that he needs to get mental health help (he’s gone bankrupt). And I’ve got autism and my sister steals my stuff quite frequently and feels entitled to my stuff and I’ve told my mum that she can’t just go and use my stuff and she ignores me and acts like I’m the one causing the problems when I’m really not, because if the roles were reversed, I’d get punished. Everything has made me so pissed that I’ve made an online police report, but now after my parents have threatened to kick me out or kill themselves I am really worried but I am absolutely sick to death of having to put up with their manipulation. I can’t afford to pay rent on a flat, so im not sure if I’d be able to get social housing, because after making this report I could end up homeless and I haven’t got anyone I can stay with. But this seems better than putting up with their abuse. My sister is staying with us over Christmas but going back home to Brighton in 2 days, but I can’t believe the way my parents are towards me… it’s ridiculous. I also have video evidence of her punching me as I started recording since I sensed threat and felt in danger. I also have a video of her confessing she punched me, to my mum.

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa, that sounds like a really messed up and overwhelming situation. I'm really sorry you're going through all of that with your family. It's not right at all that your sister physically attacked you and your parents are letting her get away with it. That's incredibly unfair and abusive.

I totally understand why you made the online police report - you deserve to feel safe and protected, especially in your own home. But I can see why you're worried about the potential consequences, like potentially becoming homeless. That must be really stressful to deal with on top of everything else.

It sounds like your parents are being really manipulative and not supporting you at all. Their threats to kick you out or harm themselves are just horrible, and you shouldn't have to put up with that. Your safety and well-being need to come first here.

If I were you, I'd try to reach out to any other family members, friends, or support services that could help. Even if you can't afford your own place, there may be options for temporary housing or assistance that could help keep you safe. And definitely keep that video evidence - that could be really important if things escalate further.

I know this is a super tough situation, but try not to let your parents' threats and manipulation stop you from doing what you need to do to protect yourself. You deserve to feel safe and supported, not abused. Sending you strength, dude. Let me know if there's anything else I can do to help.

[sage2021]

Well whatever you do - don't end up homeless over this because that would only make things worse for you.

My mom and my sister used to go in my bedroom while I was in high school and they even cut open my private diaries that I wrote in every day and read them.
My sister who was built like a full grown woman when she was 16 would go in my closet and steal my clothes!
Oh yeah! They had a blast going through my stuff and doing whatever they wanted to with it.

I even put a pad lock 🔒🔐 on my bedroom door but they took it off while I was at school.

So I really can relate to your situation and I am very sorry that this is happening to you.😞

It seems any way you look at it they are all good to do whatever they want to do with you and your belongings just like my mom and sister did with me. And to this day I don't know why they did that to me because I never did anything whatsoever to provoke them to do something like that to me.

I do remember one day I had had enough of my mother doing this to me and I went into her bedroom and she had all of the perfume and important papers on her dresser and I went into her room and in one fell swoop I cleared off her dresser for her. So the perfume went everywhere and even on her important papers. I didn't care though. She had been wearing me down for so long that finally I just wanted her to feel like how I was feeling.
I made a promise to myself that my children's bedrooms and their private belongings were never going to be touched by me and I was going to respect their privacy and that's a promise I always kept. That was the lesson I learned from what they did to me.

[sage2021]

Thank you for the MHO 🙂🧁🌷

[MrCharlie13]

Look out for yourself first. Send your sister to the cops. And if your parents act stupid, send them to the cops too.

You matter first!

[MysticDevice]

A police report is a good start.

I know you said you don't have money for rent but it'd be a good Idea to find a place regardless.

[Staximus]

The next time your sister hits you, beat the shit out of her. That's how you get that to stop.