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I Asked People to Rate My Looks and This is What Happened (Page 2)
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Girls need to understand that looks dont determine your worth. Of course, its nice. But its not everything. Its not all that makes you beautiful.
This site has a whole rate me section.
Idont think i ever voted less than 7.
If i feel like im not being true to myself, i simply dont rate the pic.
I know that it means a lot to a lot of girls.
With the whole social media world, things have only gotten exponentially worse..
I hope that one day, all of you understand.
We dont want you to be petfect. You Dont have to be a 9 or 10. Thats not all there is to you.
You asked people to rate you but are upset about it? Yes, women rate men a lot better I think its because we dont want to hurt their feelings. Personally, I dont give guys or anyone a number because it wouldn't be a number that would benefit their self esteem. If you dont want a opinion dont ask.
As you can see from the results, you can be a 10 to someone and a 3 to someone else. Beauty is subjective. And not being someone's cup of tea, doesn't make you unattractive just like being someone else's cup of tea doesn't make you a supermodel.
Like you said, it's more than that. What you bring to the table, who you are, what you do is paramount to looks.
Also, YOU have to love your looks. It's your face, your body. If you have confidence in it, others will follow by your lead.
You mean reducing yourself to a number and relying on other people to validate you didn't make you happy? How WEIRD.
Seriously though I am going to link repeat HDIL posters to this take so maybe it can help them work on their issues too.
You shouldn't have posted and asked for a rate because obviously not everyone is going to call you gorgeous/beautiful. That's how world works.. and guys try to be white knights... I've seen girls in here being more honest when it comes to how do I look questions.. not to girls.. but guys as well.
I am actually sickened by this myTake. Get off your ego, already. People have different perspectives of others. Some will say a person is beautiful, while others will look at that exact same person and call them ugly. What people say on the internet means NOTHING. What people say about you means NOTHING.
You asked for opinions and got offended. Case closed.
I've looked at many faces before in my life. Most people look tolerably fine. The only people who tend to look ugly are people who have a genetic disease that manifests itself in physical deformities, as well as people who become deformed sometime in their lives. They may not have the looks or outer beauty, so they work on their inner beauty instead.
Good for you. I look in the mirror and I tend to get depressed for a week (my profile pic is low enough res to not show my flaws much). Why I quit having reflective surfaces in my apartment. As far as bible quotes I'm an atheist. I suppose that's better than thinking god is real because if I did he'd get the blame for making me like this in the first place instead of just shit happens and losing the genetic lotto.
What is the point of all this? wall of text. And not even post a pic, if you are going to spend that much time talking about what u look like then at least post the dam pic girl. What a waste of my time, do you like writing about yourself a lot or what?
People rated me only slightly above average too. Most of the votes were average, some were below, a bit more were above. I didn't use numbers but I think the highest rank got about 9% of the votes and then the "above average" one got like 20%, but a lot of people said average. I think that's fine, that means about 1 in 3 think I'm at least sort of attractive... I'm fine with that ratio.
When you post online that you want someone to rate you, then you can't force them to go easy on you. You'll get what you asked for, honesty, and we shouldn't have to give anything less.
There is such a thing as honesty with tact.
@Prof_Don I don't know what that is but I can guess. And people aren't obligated to smoothen it up for you, it's the internet, where you shouldn't have to be sugar-soft on everybody.
One can have a differing or negative opinion without having to be an asshole. That's what tact is all about.
Why waste your time typing a response being an asshole and typing on the internet, when the person you're addressing will simply ignore what you say? Using tact will further enforce the reader will interpret what you say, instead of writing you off as a bigot.
This is something you will understand when you're older.
@Prof_Don Whoever said anything about being an asshole?
All I do is state my opinion without any apologies, sugarcoating or what have you.
My bad if I misunderstood you. There is a difference between saying:
"I give you a 3 out of 10. Not my type of look in the face that I go for, and I prefer my women more slim."
vs
"I give you a 3 out of 10. You face is hideous, and I hate fat chicks."
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That was the point I was trying to make. Be the first example, not the second. ✌️
@Prof_Don I just say something like 3/10
Then that's perfectly fine, tactful honesty without being an asshole. Nice! 👌
I don't mean to be arrogant or anything but like you I like what I see sometimes and sometimes I hate it. I get a lot of attention. But I got a lot of "ugly" comments from girls (and the occasional guy) and it hurt. So I was glad someone else spoke so eloquently and honestly about because although I knew I wasn't ugly I still felt terrible. Best take I've read on here period. Appreciate it. 🙂
Your results reflect the same experiences I got when I asked for others' opinion about my looks. That's why I take everything as a game when I make a poll or ask a question about a picture of mine. I just amuse myself when people tell me all kind of things about my physical appearance.
I understand its a shitty feeling. One day you will feel beautiful because you won't be living under other people jurisdiction.
Also, people are judging you based on a picture... some pictures are bad, some are good.
This site is also very blunt/direct and way too the point. Also, when that person said below average, she could be jealous
If you want a 100% honest opinion, send me picture and ill send you mine :)
One thing that might be relevant.
Every person I have met in my life. I start of with one opinion on their looks.
It's just some idea that pops up. Probably my brain trying to look for mates.
Anyway, as I get to know the person, How they look like Always changes. Always.
The way they literally look like, changes.
Personality really goes a long way. At least in my case
Oh boo hoo. I posted myself on here and got mostly 1's and 2's yet you don't hear me crying.
Ikr? This pouty little brat actually has the NERVE to claim that the MAJORITY of men rated her a freaking 8-9, and then mope about feeling ugly? Truly pathetic.. She sounds like an over privileged little brat just because she didn't get her dream 11.
So what if she scored under average among women? Unless she's a lesbian/bisexual, it shouldn't MATTER.
@Alaela she would have complained about getting a 10 or 11 too.
pfft at this rate, probably.
"but it wasn't a 12"
I hate seeing people wattling around because there to fat , It's not a glandular problem as they say it's an excuse of their own negligence. I'm 5' 6" 160 lbs 48" chest , 34 waist little belly their. BUT The girl that i see behind the mask , And the other girl that has not pretty enough across her chest. if i had the chance to jump them i wouldn't waste a moment. from what i see they both look fantastic , beautiful , gorgeous. !!!
"People were very quick to take a single look at me, assign a number, and move on, but to me, that number was everything."
Exactly why I refuse to "rate" people.
Thats so true about girls judging more harshly. I've noticed that on most rate me questions the girls ratings are usually lower than what the guys give.
In the '20s there was a push to get female judges and female jurors because male judges and male jurors were letting them get away with murder, literally. Women don't play that shit -- or at least know that game.
Pffftt dont be shocked for real, women pick each other apart and notice flaws that men do not. Only if the woman is hands down gorgeous do we then back off of her looks, but wait we don't stop there. We will then proceed to rip her personality apart.
These flaws you are talking about. Are not flaws.
Most of it is so banal that it is equal to criticizing a building for being blue.