AviatorTom

Occasionally, usually for something I've done. Always nice to get a compliment. Flirting

My father gave me this advice... If you can't say something nice about someone don't say anything. Relationships

You can do it if you want, it's not illegal. But it's risky. What if the first date goes really well and you end up in bed together? It would be better to move one of the dates to another day. Dating

It depends on the situation. My divorce was amicable, after 20+ years of marriage. It took me about a year before I started dating. Break Up & Divorce

I'm a bit of both, though most of the time I'm a Spectator. Relationships

In my mind, this question is not possible. Love is a binary thing, it's either on or off, there are not degrees of love. Best definition of love I've ever experienced: Love is an invitation to be... Relationships

It's generally okay. My wife sometimes points out an attractive woman I might have missed, and I sometimes do the same for her. Just don't overdo it. Avoid saying things like, "Wow, wouldn't... Relationships

I've had a few heartbreaks, ending relationships, including getting divorced after 20+ years. I've learned the best thing to do involves two steps: 1 - take a short while to grieve 2 - find... Break Up & Divorce

It's early Friday morning, and a black cat just walked past our front door. I was watching a show on Netflix last night and one scene had a black moon, lunar eclipse, in it. The Unlucky Weekend is... Dating

Paranoid is not the word. It's perfectly okay for co-workers and colleagues to ask each other innocent questions... like the weather. Relationships

He most likely remembers the good times you had together and wonders how you are doing I've looked up girls I dated when I was younger, even though I'm married. I just wonder how they are doing.... Relationships

I've done that many times. Loyalty is an easy choice Relationships

If you're only looking for sex, go ahead with the friends with benefits. Be careful, though, make sure you use protection... as many condoms as needed. And keep reminding yourself that it's only... Relationships

My wife and I agree on some things, disagree on others. Let's just say we are , ore compatible than incompatible, which makes life interesting. Relationships

I'm married , for the second time. My then-wife and I divorced, amicably, after 20+ years and 3 kids. After a few years of dating, I met my current wife; we've been married for9 years and counting. Relationships