jennifer_bloom

I know people that are very easy to love and I love them as an idea and not as a social connection because ideas last forever but connections are temporary and can die. When I say I love them as... Relationships

Some women expect too little, like the women who put up with abusers, when they are beautiful and smart and could date a guy who adores them. I've heard of women who put up with guys that will not... Dating

I want food from the Chinese grocery store - marinated peanuts, sushi, fried broad beans, shrimp chips, watermelon seeds, dried cuttle fish, marinated medicinal orange peels, white rabbit candy... Holidays

It depends whether he is vindictive or rude about his self doubt. Dating

No. I view two relationships the same way I view trying to do two chores at the same time - it ruins the quality of your personal time and makes you unhappy. If I love a guy I will give all my... Relationships

I'm growing older and I assume most of the attractive guys I like are either players or taken. I let them come to me for that reason, you initiate - a rejection or "I'm taken," is almost guaranteed. Dating

My friend was on dating sites for 13 years before he found a wife. He dated over 50 girls a year for 10 years. Finding a date through friends or work is far better. Dating

I have friends I would offer a chance at dating or want to date but no boyfriend or lover that I miss and want to be with again. I wish him well but I think I can do better. Relationships

I don't care about a guy's athletic personality or work out life, and I would avoid a guy that fixates too much on his body and his work out style. But if he is fit, that is better than being not fit. Dating

I don't flirt with strangers but if a random guy that looks safe and polite chats with me when I'm at a bus stop or movie theatre, and he isn't sexual or romantic, I don't mind. Like I've had guys... Flirting

If they block somebody its usually because they view the person as morally flawed or because they do not want to see updates about their life. Break Up & Divorce

I don’t value good looks that much but I will not date a high status guy unless I know he likes me enough to be loyal and not view me as a game. Dating

I respond to guys that are joyful and non violent, meaning he isn’t critical or sarcastic or insensitive or selfishly exploitive. This might seem like a low standard but most don’t measure up. I... Dating