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Why does my guy friend want to set me up with his friend?

My taken guy friend and I get along pretty well, I have made it clear that I don’t flirt and it’s just a friendship, which I value. Now his LD...

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What is your stronger side: Mind or Looks?

Mine has always been my mind, and everyone praised me on that, to the point that I was too annoyed of being thought to be smart and in my teens, I...

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How did you realize you were in love for the first time?

I grew up very independent since childhood and promised myself I would never fall in love as it sounded very scary. And I always successfully...

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Why are dismissive Attachers attracted to Anxious Attachers?

I just took a test and it says I have a dismissive-avoidant attachment style, my ex, was Anxious Attacher and he loved me intensely while I was...

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What is something that amazes you about humans?

Every day when I get to work, I see hundreds of dancing elderly people from the window of my office. Little Chinese grandmothers dancing every...

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Do you think there is a difference between dating women with brothers vs women with sisters?

Have been thinking about siblings influence on each other these couple days and thought it would be interesting to hear what’s your experience of...

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Am I introvert?

I just logged in on Wechat for the first time during my holidays, I had some messages all these days and I didn’t even log in, cause I was not in...

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What’s something that made you feel happy today?

I talked with my brother today, he has been doing great lately and getting quite successful at what he’s doing. I am just so happy and proud of...

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Is that true that mentally unstable women/men are better in bed and why?

My brother once dated a bit of a crazy girl who was very pretty and when I asked him, “Aren’t you scared, she’s obviously a bit psycho.” He said...

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Have you noticed that men who have sisters are much more popular among girls?

I have a brother, who is very popular with women. He goes out and gets asked out by pretty girls all the time. We used to live together and he...

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What’s the memory that has made you feel nostalgic recently?

My phone just popped a screenshot of a video call with my ex. We decided that since we couldn’t take photos together, we would take screenshots of...

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What has been the biggest disappointment you’ve had in life?

I don’t want to sound sad, I am not sad, but mine has been love. I always imagined love could overcome anything, time, distance, any obstacles....

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Are you an annoying person?

I feel like I can be quite annoying. I used to annoy my family in the past, they now probably think I’ve changed to the better, not knowing I am...

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What’s the music that reminds you of your first love?

Yanni’s Nightingale reminds me of my first love story and the the person I loved. He was inspiring, dreamy, happy, youthful, lively, gentle,...

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Can you get PTSD from Separation?

Every time I remember the last day I saw my ex, (that is the day I flew from China to Georgia temporarily for 2 weeks but then never managed to go...

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Why do some boyfriends criticize the looks of their girlfriends?

That stems from the similar post I’ve made today. I just remembered that while first 2.5 years of my past relationship were perfect. He was...

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Why do stranger men feel the need to criticize your appearance?

I know, I shouldn’t pay attention and I am guilty of not ignoring, I promise I’ll ignore next time, but this time, I’ll share my thoughts I have...

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How important is vulnerability in relationships?

From my experience, It makes a woman feel much deeper bond to a man, if the man is capable of being vulnerable to her. It’s a sign of immense...

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Do you love singing in your language?

I usually listen to foreign songs more often. But when I feel like singing, I sing in my language. Sometimes I go out by the river and if I am...

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