There's two ways to love someone, but only one way provides a stable companion.
The illogical method tends to be out of pure desire, you can't find good logic and reason for staying together, but you do because you think "love can overcome all obstacles" or your passion and desire for each other overrules your logical reasoning.
The logical method strips the human and the relationship down to patterns, interests, things that work and dont work, the priorities and level of influence for the good and the bad and can pinpoint all the difficulties and ease of the relationship. Only then can you safely say "I love you" because you have seen the human and the situation at all angles so you aren't blinded by passion/desire. When things go wrong, you have the communication and the effort to make things work (blood, sweat and tears) and don't back down, but not because you think that "love conquers all" but because you know that you truly love the person and you don't want life/problems to separate you two. You work as partners, with logic and reason to ensure your love flourishes and doesn't falter or leave it to chance. But you also realize that there shouldn't be a mismatch/problems in the relationship from the start, and the obstacles that your love conquers is usually the external factors.
A relationship that has a lot of problems internally is often not a good idea, love really should be easy... and if two people make it easy, then that's fine. But if their surroundings constantly make trouble for them, one or the other will start to resent their partner for all the drama/arguments and it won't last long. That's why I think partners can't be all that different, if they really want to make it work.
Anyway, so that's my observation.
I believe true love is logical.
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I think love is logical when it comes down to your children, parents and friends. But when it comes down to loving a partner, I think that’s where you get the mixture of logical and illogical. You know and understand why you love your partner but it’s illogical why you’d love him/her so unconditionally.
Can be a mix of both. But if I had to choose, I’d say logical. Because, first, people get love and lust mixed up. Lust is first attraction. There is no such thing as “Love at first sight,” it’s “lust at first sight.” Love is 95% a choice, 5% feeling after you have gotten to know the person you have decided to dedicate your time and life too. There for, it’s logical that you would make things work in Love. The illogical part comes in if a person is abusive, unworthy, and a snake, but you still choose to love them. That’s illogical.
it's a heart thing (which is not just an organ but a zone), and I don't think the heart is logical. therefore, it is illogical based on your question... Mrs Spock!
Is not love more of a "being" thing, dwelling, a feeling. It's also a choice. still don't thik it is logical.
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It depends based off of where you're looking at it from. From a biological standpoint, it's logical. You attract two members of the opposite sex so they can procreate and create children, and you make them fall in love to stick together to create more of that. The more the better. From an emotional standpoint, love is often illogical, and we often fall for people for the weirdest reasons whether it be looks or quirky traits. So there's a little bit of both.
Illogical if you fall in love with someone who isn't just like themselves.
But if there with someone who is pretty much the same as them then logical.
Mine will denfinatly be logical cause i am strong on my quailtes and only want a person like me, i don't talk to anyone who ain't like me.
So it wouldn't be possible for ilogical to happen.There is no logic behind love as that is based from your heart. To be logical ina relationship means that you love them because they fit your lifestyle and logically it should work! True love will have to overcome illogical boundaries and any logical person would sit there and question why they love that person but there is no rhyme nor reason! If you love someone without logic then it’s real love.
Why do you love me?
Why do you give so much?
How do you heal the pain within me?
Is it the power of your touch?
Now that you've opened up the heavens
For this heart of mine to see
I've become the richest man that I could ever be
Baby, why?
Baby, why me?It's evolutionary logical. The reasons you fall for a person are logical too. The person who is in love is usually not aware of most of these reasons though.
You'd feel it when you will, it's a feeling of attraction, trust, intimacy, relation, need, belief and a feeling you could look into that person's eyes all day and feel incredible...
Love can be illogical if you want to look at it that way, but in the end, everything has a logic... wether we accept it or not is another matter...It's logical but it seems illogical. Let me briefly explain. Love (like lovers love) is a serie of biochemical reactions and brain functions that makes us feel that we will be able to achieve reproduction (our sole purpose). Anyways it makes humans do things they otherwise would not and have different behaviors. Now it is logical because I can explain it and illogical because people behave differently when they found a mate.
Love is a wonderful illusion.
Till you realize it's just mutual fulfilling of sexual and emotional needs.No one can say for the love, but the things we do from love not always are logical 🤗 that's the charm
Love is video games
It’s logical to want someone to stay with. It’s illogical to want to be with someone for the sake of being with someone.
It’s more illogical than logical most of the time. It makes people think with their hearts instead of their brains.
It can be both. So many people let their feelings lead to the point of it being illogical. Even though the feelings themselves may seem illogical, you can approach it logically, taking certain precautions or evaluating the consequences.
Its illogical if you dont feel love from the heart. Or if you dont feel compassion and intimacy towards your so.
Love is a disgusting disease that should be eradicated from the world
Some say love is a form of madness. If it is then let me be mad, and madly in love. LOL!
Love itself makes a lot on sense and purspose, yet a person in love is a whole other story...
I don't know and I don't care. We aren't robots that we have to care about logic all the time.
It's totally illogical, but the beauty of love is that it is the only emotion that is so powerful that it is a logical reason unto itself.
Love is logical. It's people who aren't and use love as an excuse to do illogical things.
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