Well I guess according to you, all guys are perfect angels who don't cheat on their spouses as well. Yeah, okay.
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Nope, not at all, however, males tend to have a stronger sense of loyalty, they're like dogs, honestly, hell, studies show that cheating and break-ups have a far worse effect on men than it does women. That's not even an anecdotes, that's a statistic, so, yeah...
So you're saying that it was justified for my ex to verbally abuse me and cheat on me just because I'm a girl? No, it definitely wasn't. I self harmed and was depressed for like nearly two years. I wrote an article on it.
Look, I'm not saying that all men are dirty filthy cheaters because there are a lot of women out there who are the exact same, but don't group us all in a box because you're bitter. Nobody is forcing you to marry and if you think that we're all like this then so be it. Don't get married it's that simple.
I know your all butt hurt from some woman cheating on you but that goes both ways you might make an absolute shit husband and that's why you shouldn't get married. If your looking for an actual good reason to not get married trying men getting ass raped in family court. Average contested divorce is between 50k and 100k, and that doesn't include kids. As an institution it has no purpose other to give some one half your shit and then you get to live in a hell hole of an apartment while they keep the house.
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www.google.co.uk/search No reason men need to get married thanks to modern contraception and feminism making it easier to have sex in a consequence free environment. Be like me im a strong single independent man about town and I dont need no woman. Forget all the haters.
I find the it's usually the guys who cheat. Hell, most users on that damned AshleyMadison site were married men looking for shit outside of their marriages. Stop trying to view yourself as someone who's the worlds gift from god.
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Well, studies prove you wrong, in fact, studies show that more than 50% of women cheat at one point during their marriage. And that cheating and break ups effect men worse
I want to see this because what I've seen say that men and women cheat at the same rate, but for different reasons. For men it's more of a physical thing, and for women it's more of an emotional thing. Either which way no one gender is better than the other in terms of cheating, and all cheaters fuck ass at the end be them man or woman.
And I'm pretty convinced nearly all guys cheat at least once in their lives, and then men in general try to justify it cause "its, like, in our dna and stuff"
So for now I'm avoiding relationships instead of bitching about it. Don't wanna get married? Don't.
Let people do what they want, no one is forcing you to get married or date or have anything to do with females... and from the sounds of it no one will ever want you to haha
@Calex He won't get married with an attitude like that. He needs to change himself if he ever hopes of having a decent relationship. I don't know what happened to him or who he's been talking to but his views on women and marriage or messed up.
@SilenRose People and especially kids change very easily. 5 years can do a lot to a person. Perhaps one of his parents cheated on the other and his family got broken up? We don't know the lives of these people.
@Calex He's probably 17 and based on his responses to people who don't agree with him it seems like it's more then a broken family problem. We don't know him but it doesn't give him a right to make sweeping generalizations about women and marriage as well.
@SilenRose yeah I don't have to go easy on him just because he's a young asshole, an asshole is still an asshole and he needs to learn sooner than later that his behaviour is only going to hold him back in life.
you are too young to be this bitter child, but go ahead and throw your life away before you even start just remember this behaviour will lose you male friends too not just the girls you hate.
Not always. Some women are genuinely good and honest and worthy of being a good man's wife. Sadly they are the exception today. In general, marriage is a good deal for women and a very bad deal for men in this day and age. That's why a Pew Research Center study recently found that the number of women 18-34 saying that having a successful marriage is one of the most important things rose from 28 percent to 37 percent since 1997. The number of young adult men saying the same thing dropped from 35 percent to 29 percent in the same time.
Until the inequities between husbands and wives, and between fathers and mothers are addressed, and some of the incentives that make marriage worthwhile for men are restored, men will continue to refuse to marry in record numbers, and for good reason. Marriage is simply not worth the sacrifice and risk for men anymore.
@NonCreativeUsername Maybe he truly feels this might be true... People figure all sorts of stuff way later on in life. If he's lucky, he'll be one of those people too. =)
The generalization that you put ALL women under shows your age. With that being said not all women are sneaky, and not all men are dogs. It just so happens that all the girls YOUVE encountered happen to be that way. Maybe you should look inside yourself and ask why you keep gravitating towards this specific type of female. Like I said, I can definitely tell you're underage, but you can't make general assumptions like that. I mean unless you've been with every woman on the planet, then that's a different story.
You sound incredibly immature and insecure. You shouldn't get married as your energy would actually be the influence that makes your worst nightmare a reality. I would never cheat on a girl and that tells me that there are girls out there that wouldn't either.
Wow, someone obviously has seen this or experienced this in his lifetime. Not every woman is like that and it's really not hard to see the signs of a woman who would turn out like this while dating her. Plus there are trashy women out there who probably would do this. Just saying men get married because they find a woman they love and want to spend the rest of their life with due to quality not quantity. I'm sorry if you don't see it that way.
BUDDY, let go out get some beer, we can dissolve our sorrow , which are inside us into the beer we drink, and then go and take a piss on the front door of her house, Knock and run away... Then go knock up some girls where a condom. Until you feel like being with other girl. 👈 is what I will say to someone like you...
Bill Burr said it best. Three out of four marriages go right down the shitter, if you heard three out of four parachutes wouldn't open you'd say fuck that I'm not going
Why would any woman ever get married? Some people are just shitty human beings and are incapable of maintaining a monogamous relationship regardless of their gender. Whining about that simple fact won't get you anywhere.
-first you'll marry left overs (girls who looked good when young, but aged and got fat badly and mostly girls who fucked a nice number of guys) - then you'll get cheated, divorced, taken 50% of material possession including your kids
I can almost guarantee you that every women will cheat in drop of hat, especially if her hubby is typical average joe. The hunger over young, athletic, hot and masculine stuff is insane.
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Well I guess according to you, all guys are perfect angels who don't cheat on their spouses as well. Yeah, okay.
Nope, not at all, however, males tend to have a stronger sense of loyalty, they're like dogs, honestly, hell, studies show that cheating and break-ups have a far worse effect on men than it does women. That's not even an anecdotes, that's a statistic, so, yeah...
So you're saying that it was justified for my ex to verbally abuse me and cheat on me just because I'm a girl? No, it definitely wasn't. I self harmed and was depressed for like nearly two years. I wrote an article on it.
Look, I'm not saying that all men are dirty filthy cheaters because there are a lot of women out there who are the exact same, but don't group us all in a box because you're bitter. Nobody is forcing you to marry and if you think that we're all like this then so be it. Don't get married it's that simple.
Did I ever once actually say that? Hmm... nope, don't think I did
Well okay, but it seems like you implied it. Please do not make sweeping generalizations on all females because we are not all the same. 👍
And just because I was fucked over by one guy, doesn't give me the odacity to date all men.
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I know your all butt hurt from some woman cheating on you but that goes both ways you might make an absolute shit husband and that's why you shouldn't get married.
If your looking for an actual good reason to not get married trying men getting ass raped in family court. Average contested divorce is between 50k and 100k, and that doesn't include kids. As an institution it has no purpose other to give some one half your shit and then you get to live in a hell hole of an apartment while they keep the house.
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No reason men need to get married thanks to modern contraception and feminism making it easier to have sex in a consequence free environment. Be like me im a strong single independent man about town and I dont need no woman. Forget all the haters.
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Can never get these right.
Still can't but fuck it.
Thats "but fuck it" not "butt fuck it" in case any grammar nazis swoop.
I find the it's usually the guys who cheat. Hell, most users on that damned AshleyMadison site were married men looking for shit outside of their marriages. Stop trying to view yourself as someone who's the worlds gift from god.
Well, studies prove you wrong, in fact, studies show that more than 50% of women cheat at one point during their marriage. And that cheating and break ups effect men worse
I want to see this because what I've seen say that men and women cheat at the same rate, but for different reasons. For men it's more of a physical thing, and for women it's more of an emotional thing. Either which way no one gender is better than the other in terms of cheating, and all cheaters fuck ass at the end be them man or woman.
And I'm pretty convinced nearly all guys cheat at least once in their lives, and then men in general try to justify it cause "its, like, in our dna and stuff"
So for now I'm avoiding relationships instead of bitching about it. Don't wanna get married? Don't.
I so agree!😊
Let people do what they want, no one is forcing you to get married or date or have anything to do with females... and from the sounds of it no one will ever want you to haha
You say "ever" as if 10, 20 or even 30 years later he'll never get married. He's just a kid! You shouldn't say harsh things like that to kids.
@Calex He won't get married with an attitude like that. He needs to change himself if he ever hopes of having a decent relationship. I don't know what happened to him or who he's been talking to but his views on women and marriage or messed up.
@SilenRose People and especially kids change very easily. 5 years can do a lot to a person. Perhaps one of his parents cheated on the other and his family got broken up? We don't know the lives of these people.
@Calex He's probably 17 and based on his responses to people who don't agree with him it seems like it's more then a broken family problem. We don't know him but it doesn't give him a right to make sweeping generalizations about women and marriage as well.
@SilenRose yeah I don't have to go easy on him just because he's a young asshole, an asshole is still an asshole and he needs to learn sooner than later that his behaviour is only going to hold him back in life.
You see, I'm an asshole, I just no longer care, you're an asshole and an idiot, you just don't realize it
you are too young to be this bitter child, but go ahead and throw your life away before you even start just remember this behaviour will lose you male friends too not just the girls you hate.
Well, hey, they're all traitors anyway, every human will betray you eventually, which is why you have to betray them first
yeah okay junior
Not always. Some women are genuinely good and honest and worthy of being a good man's wife. Sadly they are the exception today. In general, marriage is a good deal for women and a very bad deal for men in this day and age. That's why a Pew Research Center study recently found that the number of women 18-34 saying that having a successful marriage is one of the most important things rose from 28 percent to 37 percent since 1997. The number of young adult men saying the same thing dropped from 35 percent to 29 percent in the same time.
Until the inequities between husbands and wives, and between fathers and mothers are addressed, and some of the incentives that make marriage worthwhile for men are restored, men will continue to refuse to marry in record numbers, and for good reason. Marriage is simply not worth the sacrifice and risk for men anymore.
It all depends on the person.
You're so little... you'll figure it out later in life, little buddy. =)
I'm surprised he hasn't replied with an insult
@NonCreativeUsername Maybe he truly feels this might be true... People figure all sorts of stuff way later on in life. If he's lucky, he'll be one of those people too. =)
@NonCreativeUsername He doesn't appear to use ad hominem attacks from what I've seen so why would he?
@Calex Common human reflex that I've seen on this site
Got rejected? A few girls that cheat don't make it all girls.
You seem to be bitter from some experience you went through.
The generalization that you put ALL women under shows your age. With that being said not all women are sneaky, and not all men are dogs. It just so happens that all the girls YOUVE encountered happen to be that way. Maybe you should look inside yourself and ask why you keep gravitating towards this specific type of female. Like I said, I can definitely tell you're underage, but you can't make general assumptions like that. I mean unless you've been with every woman on the planet, then that's a different story.
You sound incredibly immature and insecure.
You shouldn't get married as your energy would actually be the influence that makes your worst nightmare a reality.
I would never cheat on a girl and that tells me that there are girls out there that wouldn't either.
Wow, someone obviously has seen this or experienced this in his lifetime. Not every woman is like that and it's really not hard to see the signs of a woman who would turn out like this while dating her. Plus there are trashy women out there who probably would do this. Just saying men get married because they find a woman they love and want to spend the rest of their life with due to quality not quantity.
I'm sorry if you don't see it that way.
There are no benefits for a man to get married other than creating a stable environment for the child.
I don't know about that.
I like having regular sex with someone I love.
Stability isn't just for children. In fact it isn't even principally for children.
My wife and I have been married for 9 years. The youngest child in the house is 16. He'll be out in about 3 years.
My wife and I are looking forward to our next 4 decades together, just the 2 of us.
How is that for stability?
@gray_sailor : Wisdom all of us can bank on.
I'm glad you're part of the exception, but you know the number of marriages that have failed.
This is true. But imma still get married cuz I want someone to hold and love and get shmexy with
you can still do those things without getting married
Yeah but it wouldn't be as good
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BUDDY, let go out get some beer, we can dissolve our sorrow , which are inside us into the beer we drink, and then go and take a piss on the front door of her house, Knock and run away... Then go knock up some girls where a condom. Until you feel like being with other girl. 👈 is what I will say to someone like you...
Bill Burr said it best. Three out of four marriages go right down the shitter, if you heard three out of four parachutes wouldn't open you'd say fuck that I'm not going
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9ZxOdLRihlAWhy would any woman ever get married?
Some people are just shitty human beings and are incapable of maintaining a monogamous relationship regardless of their gender. Whining about that simple fact won't get you anywhere.
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-first you'll marry left overs (girls who looked good when young, but aged and got fat badly and mostly girls who fucked a nice number of guys)
- then you'll get cheated, divorced, taken 50% of material possession including your kids
I can almost guarantee you that every women will cheat in drop of hat, especially if her hubby is typical average joe. The hunger over young, athletic, hot and masculine stuff is insane.
Disgusting attitude to have... just do everyone a favor and get a cat
@Lioness just ask yourself how much of the stuff i have describe was already realized in your case
Please clarify what you mean by that@backingame