My wife dominated me in front of our daughter. How I can look my daughter in the eye again?

[Anonymous]

My wife is quite dominating but she respects me in front of the family. Last night she forced me to get us all some coke even though I didn't want to get my ass off the couch.

She literally pushed me and our daughter could see that I was scared of her. What should I do now?

[Anonymous]

Dude she has seen that side of her Mom before chances are that is just the first time you noticed she did. Have an honest talk with your daughter. Most manly men do give into a dominant wife. You just chose your battle and got up instead of fighting. Talk to your wife and make something happen where she is submissive to you. Maybe just talk to your daughter and point out times she is that way with you.

[Asker]

Very true, most manly men are dominated by their wives... I could do that or talk to my daughter but I doubt my daughter'll ask me about it so I should plan this with my wife lol

Thanks!

[Guardian45]

I hear you, because I WAS YOU.

I didn't get my self-confidence and respect back until I left my wife.

There is such a thing as PTSD for children under 6. Without a doubt, your daughter has been affected by this event. I encourage you to consult a child psychologist.

[spiderweirdo]

This is not something you wanna let become your relationship. You need to speak to a trusted family/friend and get support on putting a stop to this. There is no shame in asking advice from a close-knit family member. This is destructive stuff to your inner confidence and the person you define yourself as.

[Asker]

I'm used to her bullying me around in the bedroom and private... I'm just worried about what our daughter will think of me now and what our relationship will be

[spiderweirdo]

How old is your daughter?

[Asker]

she's 7 :(

[spiderweirdo]

I reckon you will be okay, 7 year old's just wanna be cuddled and loved.

she's not gonna think anything... however, in the same way you WOULDN'T want her learning that its okay to 'push around mummy,' you don't want her learning its okay 'to push around Daddy.'

Once day that little girl will be a woman, in a relationship of her own. This is the learning faze...

[Asker]

phew that's a relief!! I've spoken to my wife about this and she said she'd "be careful" from now onwards... so I can only hope she sticks to her word

As far as my daughter dominating her future husband is concerned, I'd actually rather my daughter dominate than be abused

[spiderweirdo]

Remind your wife when it happens if it happens again. It just isn't right. Think if it were the other way around and a man was doing this to a woman...

I know what your trying to say, but you don't wanna teach your daughter to be a controlling personality or an abused one. Neither one will create a healthy relationship for her in the future.
A well-grounded individual is one who grows up to respect others and to be respected.
Best of luck with everything mate. If it begins to chip at your confidence speak honestly to a good friend, cause a happy parent is a good one :)

[Asker]

Yeah I will. I'll probably be scared in the moment but I'll tell her later... thanks a lot for your advice! But I doubt I'll ever talk against my wife to someone.

Happy holidays

[spiderweirdo]

Well for your sake i hope she listens. Its really sad to hear your scared of her reaction. Shouldn't be that way. But i wish you all the best :) Happy Holidays mate.

[Ms725]

Uhm call cps for your daughter and then leave her... then after all that get some help for your obvious drug problem. Hopefully she does too! How sad for your baby girl.

[MrJohn87]

Funny ha ha

[Ms725]

@MrJohn87 oh I wasn’t kidding.

[MrJohn87]

Ha ha I think he was talking about coke that you drink.

[Ms725]

@MrJohn87 oh bahaha well if that’s the case then I apologize 😂

[MrJohn87]

Where are you from?

[kaskas19]

Your wife should not be doing that infront of your daughter at all

[OlderAndWiser]

You should grow some testicles and act like a man. Then you would know what to do.

[Asker]

old man

[OlderAndWiser]

Old, experienced man. I would never have found myself in this predicament. I would have told her to get up and get it herself or ask why she can't do it for herself.

[Asker]

My wife would whoop your ass... hard

[OlderAndWiser]

She wouldn't be my wife!

[JillianMaureen]

Ell your daughter there are times when you just have to pick and choose your battles.

[Asker]

Yeah, that sounds like the sensible thing to do... I doubt she'll ask though :/

[r0_0t]

Just play along and playfully diffuse the situation , fighting in front of the daughter is not an option. And honestly it's not that big of a deal.

[Asker]

I just got a bit scared so I couldn't be playful... but yeah it's no big deal atm

[r0_0t]

You can tell her later where she was wrong

[VegetaSSB]

Well, i am very sorry but you lost a great deal of respect of your daughter, well i don´t know if this can be repaired, i hope so.

[UltimateGohan]

Just like bulma dominates you

[VegetaSSB]

@UltimateGohan more or less so, but she is a strong woman and Sayans like women with strong personality because Sayan females have strong personalities.

[J4Zzi3]

explain it to her.
that loving someone has it ups and down. like what you did lowering yourself coz you care for your wife.

it's not that you scared of her for real right? i don't really get it.

[BeHappy1985]

You should grow a pair... " our daughter could see that I was scared of her" ... dafuq I just read xD

[MichaelCarver451]

Ask your wife to dress you in her panties and a dress at home from now on.

[AynonOMouse]

LOL!

[Namkrow]

Grow up. Just pause the movie and get the god dame Coke. It's not gonna kill you.

[Asker]

True lol

[Kurodo]

You guys relationship seems kinda fucked up. Being under her thumb like that seems very... Crushing.

[stuntbrain]

Your wife requesting that you go score coke for her and your daughter is a much bigger problem than her simply being disrespectful towards you.

[Anonymus2017]

Find a new woman, because if you are scared of her, that is emotional abuse.

[Anonymous]

Stop snorting so much coke. And that's just despicable - Asking you to go get in front of your daughter. What kind of woman is this!

[amel23]

R u the one who barks?

[Asker]

you mean the singer?

[amel23]

Nevermind other anon

[UltimateGohan]

Smack a pie on her face

[Volvagia]

this is the best bait u could come up with?

[johnboymuscles]

Op is trolling whilst wanking over his fantasy

[MidnightCowboy]

There is nothing wrong with a dominant woman

[jimyee]

Grow a pair?

[Intraluminal]

Get the lube boy!

[Ripper_E]

Man up

[Danielleo]

don't let her.

[Anonymous]

Next time spank her