How do you present yourself as a wife?

[AnonyWoman4309]

I’ve heard people say that if you’re only being hit up for sex it’s because you’re presenting yourself as only good for sex. So how does a woman go about presenting herself as a potential wife besides dressing more modestly?

[perfectchaos]

Dress modestly. Be interesting. Have a good set of values. Try to be smart and intelligent. I'm a nerd. Nothing gets me like a girl who will talk philosophy with me. It makes her intelligent and interesting. Last thing show off like you know you look good but you respect yourself and your not going to just hand it out. Like if you want it give me the ring. Don't over do it and come off as pretentious though. It's a balancing act.

[Andres77]

Just be you.
Is this like a job interview?
Something creepy about this question.

[AnonyWoman4309]

Lol 👀 maybe it is.
I probably should’ve worded the question “How does a woman present themselves as a wife”

[Andres77]

I would hope she's just her and doesn't feel like she has to change or put on a front for anyone just to be accepted.

[Honesttguy]

What if she's fat lazy pig? Just be you babe, what a load of horse shit.

[Andres77]

@Honesttguy if she's a lazy fat pig she gets what she gets.
You gave your advice.
You don't have to be critical of others.

[AnonyWoman4309]

I have to agree with Honesttguy. I liked your opinion but it wasn't really I don't know helpful. Someone who does not present themselves as a wife will not get wifed up. But I still love the message you're trying to present.

[Andres77]

My point was, be you.
Don't change for anyone.
What I thought was off about your question was that It was written like you were looking for a position... not a relationship.

[AnonyWoman4309]

Uhh sorry for wording the question that way I guess? I don't know what to say. Plenty of woman get stuck in relationships where the guy isn’t “ready” to get married. It could be that he’s not the one but it also could be that she doesn’t present yourself as a wife.

Yes, be yourself, but improving yourself doesn’t mean you are.. not yourself. People who go to the gym to improve their body are still being themselves. People who go to school to improve their knowledge are still being themselves.

Again, good answer and thank you again but I definitely agree with Honesttguy

[AnonyWoman4309]

Even though I would’ve worded it a bit nicer

[Andres77]

Fair enough.
I wish you the best.

[rosemilk]

None of that helps. You date someone who wants to get married in the future and you make sure it is known once the relationship starts getting serious. No amount of changing yourself or the way you dress will give you better chances of getting married 🌸

[Honesttguy]

That is just wrong. Every action gives you better chances in one way or other. If i dress like homeless person I can't go and say hey this doesn't bring my chances down, i have equal chances to get in relationships as if i didn't smell like piss. Come on common fuking sense pls, this comment already brings down your chances for being my wife. Everything counts.

[rosemilk]

@Honesttguy LMFAO

[rosemilk]

@Honesttguy I don't even know you, you weirdo...

[Anonymous]

I dress modest, make it clear i'm only interested in a serious relationship/marriage, I show off my cooking and baking skills, and just remain honest. That alone has gotten me many marriage proposals that I turned down

[Honesttguy]

Many things, but one value stands out most is care taking. You can show it in many ways, its how you cook food, how you treat your men, how you treat yourself and people around you. Super important for longterm relationship. Cus it shows how u gonna treat his kids.

[SphynxUK]

I don’t know where they got that from.
Some men will try and use you for sex regardless of how you act or dress.
The thing is, it’s your decision. If you don’t want it, don’t do it.
Any man who wants you long term will wait and not put the pressure on. He also will not judge you by how you dress. He’ll judge you on what you say and how you carry yourself.

[jasco]

MM well looking less like a sex slave, basically be modest, you can show some skin but not everything. Pick your friends wisely. Learn how to cook or clean. Either or is good enough for most men. Smile and be a good listener.

[zagor]

Be intelligent and interesting rather than acting like a dumb ho. Wear something comfortable rather than provocative.