How to make being a house wife sound romantic and not wrongly like you want to take advantage of her?

[Anonymous]

Imagine you know a babe who speaks, writes and thinks in Chinese. Her English is not good enough to be able to communicate with people in English. You meet her every summer, you have relatives in her country who lives not far from her. And you write to her online. You would like her to move your country and marry her. She wrongly thinks you just want to take advantage of her.

[HelpfulWoman]

sounds like you basically do. no advice but "stop" needs to be given

[Asker]

I don’t. Ask yourself, if someone you knew asked to give you improve your life by marrying you, would you? You would get a loving and caring husband, who earns a lot more than you currently do where you live. Yo know he sends money to his relatives, and he coud send some to your family too. Because he is gentlman who cares about you. Would you accept, or would you twist every argument he makes into "he wants to take advantage of me" she does the latter, which is why I ask how to make it sound more romantic and less like I want to take advantage of her.

[Plugs]

How much do u make? Why u want housewife?

[Asker]

@Plugs How much I make is my busines, but its more than normal people in ger country do.
I want her to be my housewife so I can improve her life because I love her.

[HelpfulWoman]

XD XD he wants to make me a housewife and therefore reliant on him. so yes, he'd be taking advantage. There's literally no reason you've given that isn't just you wanting to "fluff" up your ego by having this person dependant on you

[HelpfulWoman]

you wave your red flag if you want to dude, but not being able to respect her no is a big flag you'll need to wave

[Asker]

I do respect her. Her depending on me is not the same as me taking advantage of her. I think that if the roles were reversed I would gladly have accepted to marry.
Maybe I will stop asking her to marry me if I can’t find better ways to ask her.

[Plugs]

She doesn’t have to be a housewife for u to do that

[Plugs]

She can improve her life by being successful and u can pay her college fees if u wanna help her improve her life.

[HelpfulWoman]

XD anon is trying so hard. if the roles were reversed you'd also not do it. again just trying to push YOUR viewpoint.
Her being dependant on you IS taking advantage of her as it is essentially cutting her legs off in a metaphorical way.
You don't respect her because you don't even respect her opinion and still want to force yours onto her.
I hope she blocks your ass and lives a good life without someone so moronic like you in her life <3

[LazerBean]

Either she wants to be a housewife or she doesn't. If she doesn't like the sound of it, find somerone else

[AI Opinion]

Oh, love is in the air, and sometimes, it gets lost in translation, doesn't it? Here's the trick to making the idea of being a housewife sound like a dream wrapped in clouds rather than a transaction: focus on the partnership and the shared life you envision together. Share how you see both of you supporting each other's dreams and aspirations, whether they're inside or outside the home. Express that her happiness, comfort, and fulfillment are your top priorities. Let her know you're excited about blending your lives, cultures, and languages together. It's all about painting a picture of a life where both of you contribute in different but equally valued ways. Maybe even learn a bit of Chinese to show your commitment and charm her with your effort! Remember, mutual respect and understanding are key. 😊 Now, who else has some love-filled advice to share?

[IslaTheWitch]

being a housewife doesn't and can't sound romantic... it's a modern slavery :D