Hmm, I don't particularly care, but it would be odd to switch last name. It's also frenchish, so I wouldn't mind something cooler. If my wife has a last name like "Dragonslayer" or something, I'll take it, lol. "Bush" on the other hand, no thanks.
My mother refused to change her last name. I was born with a middle name and by the time I turned 18 I officaly removed it in the name registry. My brother did the same around this time.
Now I am scared to tell her and her parents about it, because they will get offended. It makes me frustrated because thet have no right to be mad about that non of them have a middle name so its unfair to impose that on me. Ladies please don't give your children a middle name
@doopayo it makes my name long and complicated so If I say my name or have someone say it they will have a difficult time rembember and pronounce it. If I have children they will not inherit the name so its kind of pointless. In a militarry or profetioal setting I will want to represnt my family by using my last name. The middle name just gets in the way. Its also a vilation of my cultre and our tradition. When I say my middle name people will assume I was born a out of wedlock which is embarrasing. I also think people should jsut simply have one indevidual name and one family name thats it.
If it ever happens id take his name no desire to hold on to mine. Dont want to combine them it would be too long.. get rid of the old (me) on to bigger and better things (us as a couple)!
I’m keeping my last name sis, especially if his last name is ugly😂😂😭😭✋🏾✋🏾
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whether your last name and your husband's last name are good or bad. If you are married, you will carry the surname of the man you married. it's that clear. There's no point in getting married if you don't carry the man's last name. Then sit at home and carry your father's surname.
I would keep my last name and my woman is free to have my name if she wishes. I would prefer yes. And luckily, she wants it aswel. Well, when the time comes that is lol.
I wasn't given my father surname at birth. So since he passed I've been contemplated changing my name by deed pole... It would be a nice way to honour him
I'd take his last name and use it. But in my culture it's not uncommon to keep your maiden name as well as take on your husband's. But the husband's name does come first.
I could care less if a woman changes her name or not. In China, women don’t change their name. Kids usually pick up the father’s name. Do whatever makes you happy.
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Hmm, I don't particularly care, but it would be odd to switch last name.
It's also frenchish, so I wouldn't mind something cooler.
If my wife has a last name like "Dragonslayer" or something, I'll take it, lol.
"Bush" on the other hand, no thanks.
My mother refused to change her last name. I was born with a middle name and by the time I turned 18 I officaly removed it in the name registry. My brother did the same around this time.
Now I am scared to tell her and her parents about it, because they will get offended. It makes me frustrated because thet have no right to be mad about that non of them have a middle name so its unfair to impose that on me. Ladies please don't give your children a middle name
What’s wrong with having a middle name? I like my middle name
@doopayo it makes my name long and complicated so If I say my name or have someone say it they will have a difficult time rembember and pronounce it. If I have children they will not inherit the name so its kind of pointless. In a militarry or profetioal setting I will want to represnt my family by using my last name. The middle name just gets in the way. Its also a vilation of my cultre and our tradition. When I say my middle name people will assume I was born a out of wedlock which is embarrasing. I also think people should jsut simply have one indevidual name and one family name thats it.
Oh ok
If it ever happens id take his name no desire to hold on to mine. Dont want to combine them it would be too long.. get rid of the old (me) on to bigger and better things (us as a couple)!
I’m keeping my last name sis, especially if his last name is ugly😂😂😭😭✋🏾✋🏾
whether your last name and your husband's last name are good or bad. If you are married, you will carry the surname of the man you married. it's that clear. There's no point in getting married if you don't carry the man's last name. Then sit at home and carry your father's surname.
Jesh that’s cold
And you’re like too young to understand marriage so I don’t think you’d have a good hold on it
I am over 18, be comofortable
I almost took my wife's last name..
Thomas Magnum is just a totally cool name...
The funny part is i met the real Thomas Magnum PI. He's a really nice person.
I would keep my last name and my woman is free to have my name if she wishes. I would prefer yes. And luckily, she wants it aswel. Well, when the time comes that is lol.
Depends on his last name... I love mine so he would need to have a really good one
I wasn't given my father surname at birth. So since he passed I've been contemplated changing my name by deed pole...
It would be a nice way to honour him
I'd take his last name and use it. But in my culture it's not uncommon to keep your maiden name as well as take on your husband's. But the husband's name does come first.
I'll be keeping my last name and preferably my wife will taking my last name.
We went with keeping our own family names, and giving boys mine and girls hers.
I hate my last name but I would keep it. And I'm 100% sure that my husband (if I got married) wouldn't want to use my last name.
Its a hassle to change legally. I’d prefer it remain the same on documents but i’d go by his last name in person
I could care less if a woman changes her name or not. In China, women don’t change their name. Kids usually pick up the father’s name. Do whatever makes you happy.
Answers one and two are pretty much same same..
Its the mans surname that is used , cannot stand this hyphenated name bullshit !
I've been married twice. #1 changed her last name to mine. #2 kept her own name. It really doesn't matter to me, I called both wives "sweetheart".
I would take my husbands name just cause i want our entire family to share name.
I'm dumping my name asap. I have my father's last name and I hate that prick
If I liked my husbands name more I might take it but if not then keep mine lol