Ladies, in your opinion, what can men do to be better husbands?

[Subarugirl]

[England4eva]

Listen. And interpret her fairly. Never been married but my last relationship was constant arguments because he kept interpreting me as being horrible, when all along I just wanted a little respect and to deal with issues by putting them on the table so to speak.

I think men maybe have more reason to feel more insecure in a relationship, and in the end we just couldn’t discuss anything because he had all four walls up. I desperately tried to explain that I meant no harm, and even explaining that talking will help us progress.
Men must listen, as must women because we are not always trying to nag, we just want to express ourselves. If issues aren’t addressed they build until the relationship meets the point of no return.

[Subarugirl]

You have a good point, emotional maturity and communication skills are so important.

[England4eva]

The more I think of it pretty much every relationship I’ve ever had fail was due to the same issue. I was made to feel difficult, and expected to read his mind. Communication is key. Men and women if you want success in a relationship take the time to approach the other person calmly and solve his/her concerns. What is small or irrelevant to you could be huge and vital to the other. Talk.

[TheBigGuy9]

Certain men*

[England4eva]

@TheBigGuy9 I included women also.

[TheBigGuy9]

@England4eva that’s not even close to what I was saying

[dustybiker]

When you stop and listen you start to see and be able to read the unspoken tells. Then as you get better at listening you can guess what the answers will be before they are spoken. That is real bond. When two people really get each other. You can avoid fights reading these tells, as you already know what is bothering the other person by subtle reactions. You know when to step back and give space, or hold a person as they need it. Listening has power.

[Mangospacho]

The first few years we were married, I would just let problems build and build expecting my wife to just tell me what the problems were and by the time she had to tell me, the problems were much much bigger than they needed to be. Now we discuss them together regularly, even when it doesn’t seem like there’s any problem. I’ll ask what she needs help with whenever I know she’s gonna be busy instead of her asking me for help when she’s already annoyed that I’m not helping.

[HighValue]

Treat her fairly by not paying her way for anything, letting her pay for her own way on dates, she pays her own utilities, her own food, car, etc. She can defend herself if someone attacks her (just like he defends himself). If she wants him to vacuum then she should mow the lawn, she can wash her own car, etc. too.
Also to be fair she should provide the house since she gets to have it during divorce.

[Subarugirl]

Aww I didn’t know you were a lady. I appreciate your opinion as a woman.

[HighValue]

You left it open for guys to leave opinions, but I am not surprised at your response since you have been sexist in your past opinions as well.

[Agape93]

Get off your asses and do some housework, cook dinners too and respect your partners boundaries.

[TheBigGuy9]

I’ll mow the lawn, snowblow, fix things around the house, bathroom, drains, pipes, etc. Women can worry about vacuuming and cleaning the toilet.

[Agape93]

See now that's a lot more than a lot of guys do

[Subarugirl]

@TheBigGuy9 I am just as capable as mowing the lawn, fixing a leaky pipe, and cleaning the gutters. I'd want a man who also knows how to and appreciates just how much work and skill is involved in cooking, cleaning and keeping house.

[Agape93]

Exactly my original point

[AviatorTom]

I try to help around the house but my SO is so picky about the way things get done, she doesn't like it when I do things, even if I do them the exact way she does them. I also do things like vacuuming, dusting, etc. when she's not around but because she doesn't see me do it, she thinks it's not done.

[Subarugirl]

@AviatorTom being a productive participant in maintaining the house hold is admirable. Even if it’s not perfect it’s better than nothing. Paying attention to detail is important and a learns skill. You got thi!.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

Learn to genuinely respect her and respect himself too. This avoids spiteful quarrels.

[TheBigGuy9]

Respect for her comes from respecting yourself first. It’s amazing how many people don’t know this.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

@TheBigGuy9 Were you implying that I "did not know this"?

[TheBigGuy9]

If I was, I would be direct.

[ItsMeElliana]

probably help us with cleaning, dishes, cooking, laundry, etc. and listen to what we have to say too, let us be dominating sometimes too. keep it all balanced.

[FinalFantasyBro]

I isn't a woman or a husband yet but I personally noticed that some guys purposely just annoy their women advice or just opinions in general. I am guessing a way to be a good husband is to listen to your wife whenever she said anything.

[Lifelive96]

Not to be misogynist. Loyal. Kind and understanding. Having similar interests, being comfortable with each other, laughing same things.

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

To listen, to not try to control our women and to put in effort.

[OceanGirl21]

100% this

[Neosporin]

So you kept this question but you didn't keep the question about women being better to men. As I expected from an ugly beta female.

[ImRetarded]

If I were a woman I'd say men would need to make me wash more dishes.

[Smartman5]

If both men and women work at a job, the man can help with the housework. must be relevant.

[Nazgol]

Provide, support, satisy in bed, show love and affection

[Nazgol]

*satisfy

[Jouth]

Have a bigger dick? I don't know I have no experience being a husband.

And probably never will, I'd make a trash tier husband lol

[SpaceGalaxy]

Cut their penis off and install it ONLY when you wanna fuck

[Subarugirl]

I didn’t know you were a lady?

[SpaceGalaxy]

No, i am not. 100% male here BUT i saw other guys answering you therefore i expressed my opinion as well.

[Kelly6]

help your partner in any way

[Kelly6]

Satisfy their wife as much as she needs or let someone else do it

[Andres77]

@Subarugirl
Does your husband look like that?

[Subarugirl]

No, he's better looking.

[Andres77]

You guys are like a power couple...

[Neosporin]

Lol yeah right she got nothing

[t-8900]

@Neosporin you need to get your eyes checked

[Subarugirl]

@Neosporin you trying to imply that you know more about my personal life than I do? Lol 😂 okay..

[Texaskid1]

Be strong and take charge of your woman.

[LegendaryIcon]

is your husband not a good guy?

[Subarugirl]

Oh he’s fantastic!

[motazsami]

we should know to be better for you ladies