Guys, in your opinion, what can a woman do to be a better wife?

[Anonymous]

[Datboi65]

Alright, let's see:

1. Listen more. A woman that can listen to her spouse without the need to argue is good at communicating. God gave us 2 ears and 1 mouth for a reason.

2. Realize that marriage is about duty, and less so about the "Disney love" narrative. Take your vows very seriously. If your interests happen to grow apart, that shouldn't mean the end of the household just because you like different activities. The kids are the first priority, and they want to have both parents available.

3. If your man is traditional, then you need to be as well. If you are a non-traditional woman that works a 9 to 5 and your husband is a family-oriented, hard-working man then it's not gonna work. If the two parties focus on different elements, then can work better together. For example, him bringing home the check and paying the mortgage, while you stay home and take care of the children as opposed to the two of you working, while a nanny takes care of your kids. There's less chaos and more structure.

4. Understand that sometimes men need their own space to think. Maybe half an hour, or an hour or however long. We like to cool off and watch a game, hang out with friends or sit down and do nothing. That doesn't mean he doesn't want to be around you, it just means he wants to chill for a minute so he can go back to you feeling better overall.

5. Try to resolve issues without anger. That means no yelling or nagging. If you are upset about something he did, tell him about it directly and as soon as it happens. If you let things build up and explode, it's definitely not a good idea. Men can't read your mind, so it's best you let someone know if they did something wrong immediately and while controlling your emotions, so they can correct it. Nobody is perfect, even you will mess up sometimes, and you will notice the difference in your willingness to improve if you're confornted with rage vs patience.

6. You can keep things exciting. Suggest some activities the two of you can do together without the kids to help your bond grow further. Maybe surfing? The possibilities are endless.

7. Loyalty. This one is obvious, but let's just get it out of the way. You don't pay attention to people who flirt with you when your husband isn't around, and you don't dress provocatively in public if you are a married woman, because men are territorial, and they don't like other men trying to get with their woman.

8. You take good care of your physical and mental health. Stay in shape so you can look good for your man.

That's all I could think off. I hope it helps 👍🏾

[Shezadi]

To be honest, number one applies on all human relationships because I always complained about my mother not listening to me and always interrupting to me. Whenever I tried communicating, expressing myself or addressed something, she always thought I was arguing. And as a result, I felt like I can't talk to her anymore or I have to walk on eggshells around her. Sometimes, I even had a mental breakdown because of how she kept interrupting me every five seconds. Listening is so important. Intelligence speaks but wisdom listens.

[Datboi65]

@Shezadi Absolutely. Both parties need to listen. The question is of course assuming that the asker has an ideal husband that listens, and she's trying to do her best to be a better wife. However, it takes both parties to communicate, and that is very well-known. Also, I'm sorry about your mother. I would suggest family therapy if that's possible, since it's never too late for that. Best of luck.

[Exterminatore]

This is a good start:



“Older women likewise are to be reverent in behavior, not slanderers or slaves to much wine. They are to teach what is good, and so train the young women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled, pure, working at home, kind, and submissive to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be reviled.”
‭‭Titus‬ ‭2:3-5‬ ‭ESV‬‬

“Likewise, wives, be subject to your own husbands, so that even if some do not obey the word, they may be won without a word by the conduct of their wives, when they see your respectful and pure conduct. Do not let your adorning be external—the braiding of hair and the putting on of gold jewelry, or the clothing you wear— but let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God’s sight is very precious.”
‭‭1 Peter‬ ‭3:1-4‬ ‭ESV‬‬
In the entire chapter of Proverbs 31 we find an description of an excellent wife.


In my opinion and God’s these are some of the things that make for an excellent wife.

[Asker]

I wanted your opinion, not the opinion of someone who loved 2000 years ago…

[wingattebaby16]

for me as the wife, i have to focus on the fact my man often does not communicate with me to the level i need.

men have 100 words a day to say.

women have 100,000 words a day.

My adopted mom is younger than my adopted dad, and she told me the secret to their marriage is SHE knows men need sex, yet they are not very romantic or focused on a woman's needs.

So, even when she is NOT in the Mood, she gives 110% to my dad when it comes to sex.

This means if she has worked all day, is changing her clothes for bed at 11pm, and he sees her undressing, comes up behind her and cups her boobs, she Responds and they have sex. She says she is usually not in the Mood then, but if she pushes him away, soon their marriage will be filled with resentment.

And she also reminds him she DOES need romance and he tries hard.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

I’m not a guy nor a wife yet, but I learned that over the years - A lot of men want to be supported, be a team (through everything), be taken care of (obviously not like a child), want understanding, given space if needed, be a best friend and lover, oh and of course, good sex 😂

[ObscuredBeyond]

Even if the sex is mediocre, I'd like a woman with those other properties. Then again, I'm a bit old for having kids. Though, not too old for a homestead. Alas, marriage often means better connections, which could land me better jobs, meaning better financial security. Trying to strike it alone in the world is dangerous, and often disheartening. One tiny mistake, no matter how honest or fair, can get you fired, written up, arrested, or killed. A supportive spouse can mean the difference between life and death for some. About the only place where it truly doesn't pay to have a spouse and kids is North Dakota. Where CPS, the courts, and the sheriffs are often so ludicrously corrupt, that having family in and of itself only serves to paint a target on your back. Just ask Bob Miner. His war against these entities - and lying local newspapers in bed with the courts - continues to this day. He's been at war since 2018, and they never stop making up lies to harass him - or to justify their continued actual abuse of the children they abducted from him. To say nothing of the hell they put his wife through for no reason. The two are still forbidden to contact each other, and every excuse to keep them apart that has been provided has been demonstrated to be patently false. Yet, the lies persist. And the judge gets kickbacks for playing along, so there's no huge incentive to charge federal agents with perjury.

[Datboi65]

You hit the nail on the head.

[OlderAndWiser]

Keep having sex frequently. Listen to us when we talk. Say "I love you" when you feel it.

[OlderAndWiser]

Three people disagree. You don't want to have sex with your partner? What's the deal?

[Asker]

I think that people don’t want to feel pressured into sex when they don’t want have it.

[OlderAndWiser]

I never suggested that someone should be forced to have sex. The question was "what can a woman do to be a better wife?" and I have an answer. Nothing about do it even if you don't want to do it.

[Asker]

Maybe not but that’s the way it comes across

[OlderAndWiser]

If someone interprets what I said, they are implying more than what I said and that reflects on their mindset, not mine. I choose my words carefully, and I say what I mean, no more and no less.

[LinaDaGoddess]

Great advice

[Shezadi]

Long time no see

[pass_the_celery98]

This is tough to say because if I am blunt about this, modern day girls will get offended who have strong feminist views. As a guy, I cook and clean so I never understood this notion that it’s a woman’s job, no it’s everyone’s job (husband and wife) you help each other out. But nowadays girls are influenced by girls in their lives who are a bad influence. I remember dating girls in the past and they said “ohh my girl friend isn’t married to a guy why should I look for marriage with a guy, I prefer being with my girls and partying”. Just yesterday I posted a question how would a girl feel if a guy had posters of bikini models in his bedroom? Most girls answered and said they would not like that and find it immature. So if a girl drinks and parties and does drugs, I can say her life is spiralling out of control. I can support a girl to do well in her academic studies (ie: if she chooses to go to grad school), if I cook, being supportive but it goes both ways this is not a one way street. I feel like feminists today with a hardcore mindset are toxic because they will complain men of the past oppressed us women so let’s return the favour and have men cater to us. That’s not a marriage, that’s not a relationship, that’s not right. That’s just living life vicariously in an ignorant manner. What I want a girl to have us know how to cook some decent meals. I’ve learned to cook many dishes by myself or through my mom. She should have a clear direction what she wants in life. She shouldn’t be influenced by bad people who make bad decisions themselves. I want a healthy, robust, hard working, communicative relationship.

[scentoflavender]

Be strong when you need to be, for him and yourself. And learn when to be the refuge he needs. Learn the difference between when he needs help and needs to do something himself. Encourage him, dont scold him. you're not his mother. you're his partner. Nourish him, mind body and soul, but not at your own detriment. You can't help yourself or him if you're not in a good place.
Have fun with him. In an activity, in goals, and in bed.

These worked for me, for years. I still have love for my ex hsuabnd, and always will. Unfortunately, we grew apart as we got older. No marriage is perfect. And sometimes, you can have all the love in the world, never have a huge fight, and still drift. Enjoy and be grateful for what you have, because you'll never know when it will fall apart.

[dc_rogers]

What has happened in the past is Communication breaks down and/or the new belief is if you don't like the relationship then throw it away instead of trying work it out. It seems we live in a disposable society and that even includes relationships.

Looking at what disposable material items does to the world and how destructive it is... just imagine the destruction the human you have tossed away.

Are there times you need to leave? Yes. But try to work it out. No one has to endure any hardship, but things do need to be discussed and worked out. And if they can't be worked out then it is time to leave.

Its not that any one person is going to be or do something better, but to communicate is key.

[ZackBan]

I'm not sure there is a how to manual to be a "better" wife without faking it.

Basically what makes a wife or a husband exceptional comes down to one simple thing:
She needs to be on her husband's team. She needs to truly believe that it's them agaisnt the world and that no matter the situation she will always chose him. (Goes both ways)

Because people generally are trying to win at life regardless of what that win looks like for them. But a spouse is also called a "partner" which is very fitting because the best partner is the one who has your back no matter what

[Miristheiss]

Just be feminine.

Respect her guy... don't nag, belittle him and question everything he does.

Love him with all her heart and respect boundaries.

Little pet peeves of mine. Don't hit me with all of the problems we have to solve... hit me with all stuff as to how your day with and hit me with everything you want to talk about... the moment I get home from work. I just want to chill and relax and decompress when I get home. Talk to me about that stuff later. Just be happy to see me and give me a hug and kiss when I get home. A lot of women don't give their guy 30 minutes to chill when he gets home but they are waiting there at the door ready to cover 20 different topics.

[Asker]

Those are valid points. In your opinion, what can a man do to be a better husband?

[TheorionMage]

What is YOUR definition of 'Wife'? Spouse? PARTNER?
I personally find/found my marriage to be a 'partnership'
in which we cover one another's weaknesses and pool one another's strengths.
The expression: "I've got your back" is paramount.
The moment your thinking turns to "I, Me, My" instead of "We, Our and Us"
your relationship is beginning to fail...

I personally, have NO secrets from her
and would not hesitate to ask her any questions, and would feel offended
were she to refuse to reply candidly. NO ONE can ever come up to her
and quip: "Did you KNOW that your husband said.. did?"
I'm NO 'saint' but I'm also NO hypocrite.
When we first began as both 'divorcees', we invoked a mutual blanket 'amnesty' and began afresh.
That, to MY knowledge, is how it has remained these 22 years~
Could things be better? Always! ...
Looking forward to HER retirement in two years.
Could they be worse? Oh HELL Yes!

[Finchie40]

Be loving and caring , make her husband a number 1 priority, remove selfishness , show more affection and make him feel that he is the only man you have eyes for , when a guy feels that from his girl he will more than likely do better for her and give her back the same in return, when a guy feels used or neglected and being constantly nagged at it makes him feel that she doesn’t value him and will slowly distance himself for her and will start resenting her , We can only give love to someone that gives back in return , it won’t always be perfect but as long as you both communicate and make each other feel that you are there for each other no matter what then love will grow

[Diodoro]

Show your appreciation for him with your words and your body, just for being a man and being your man.

Accept him as a man/person and how he differs from you. For example, understanding he's a man and won't necessarily think like you or act like you many times and that there's nothing wrong with that.

Show your approval of when he does something good. More than thank you. Give him praise when he does good and let him really feel it.

Respect his leadership for the relationship. Not to say you can't give input. But Respect his role as the leader just like you would show respect to your boss at a job.

You're showing reverence to the position of authority. And while you might share your thoughts with your boss you understand he has the final say so for the company.

This may be a poor example since you work at the same place lol not sure how that played out tho

[Asker]

I don’t work for my husband, not yet at least

[Lucifer_01]

Honestly, We all have different choice, different flavor, different point of view...
Some mens want wife who would took care of him like a other coz they know what the things are they been through..
Some mens want wife who would better in bed.
Some mens want wife who would working or having a job coz they have to focus of financial condition or for the future of their children.
Some mens want wife who would do whatever they'll say to her
Some mens want wife who would cook good for them
blah blah blah and blah... there are so many possibilities that how wife could do to be a better wife.
If you are asking to me... I would suggest you to Listen what are they saying... try to understand what they want to connive you. Try to study their mood, act according to mood. Do your best at all work.
ALL THE BEST

[Belgie]

Don't judge your man for not being a woman. If he needs solo time or time with the boys, let him go and don't judge him for it.
Just because he doesn't show emotions the way you do, doesn't mean he hasn't got them.

His sexual needs are like your need for communication. You don't like the silent treatment, he doesn't like you cutting off physical intimacy. You would go talk to your friends, but you think he won't? If pushed? Eventually?

Respect each others needs, and boundaries. Communication is key. Trust is key. No one has a flawless marriage, so if you don't know how to have disagreements, and forgive each other, prepare for your eventual divorce.

[TrueConfection]

I'm not a guy, but what I have learned is that men need 4 basic things from their wife.

1. To feel respected.
2. To feel needed.
3. To feel appreciated.
4. To feel fulfilled.

[backdoorman]

This sums it up very well.

[TrueConfection]

@backdoorman Thank you.

[Neosporin]

#4 sounds like a lot to ask from a partner but #2 and 3 I agree yup.

[backdoorman]

@Neosporin I read it as "satisfied", which is something a wife can certainly contribute to, but I won't put words in her mouth.

[TrueConfection]

@backdoorman Technically, a wife can only contribute to all 4 of those items.

[TrueConfection]

Ok, I didn't watt to HAVE to say it, but here go the disclaimers;

Not every man needs or wants these things.
No one is responsible for the other person's feelings.
These are not "duties" or obligations.
These 4 things have different meanings to different people.
I'm just a girl and I could be way off base with the entire population of men.

[AmandaYVR]

Respected and appreciated for sure. They definitely want more of that. All men do.
Fulfilmment is really down to the individual, not for others to achieve for them.
Needed can go both ways. They can feel like they have a purpose; or they can feel put-upon and be bitter they are needed too much.

[TrueConfection]

@AmandaYVR As I already mentioned, all four of those items I listed will mean different things to different people. Non of those are technically achieved "for them".

To me:
1. Respected (respecting what he has to say and not talking down to him like he's a child).
2. Needed (Letting him know how much he means and how important he is).
3. Appreciated (Not poking fun. Saying nice things to him and about him).
4. Fulfilled (This could be sex yes, but not JUST s-e-x. I'm talking about HIS love language. Is it letting him fulfill your needs in the bedroom? Does he love to just have some quality time with you? Maybe it's getting compliments on his performance. It could mean a hug and a loving caress. Maybe he appreciates a thoughtful gift like a new pair of gloves you saw or perhaps his language is acts of service like a massage or warm cookies on a cold day).

[backdoorman]

@TrueConfection Once again, I think you described what most men want/need in a relationship/marriage better than most. Certainly better than I could. Are you married?

[TrueConfection]

@backdoorman Thank you, and yes we have been married for 20 years. I'm not claiming it's perfect, but we both put in work.

[backdoorman]

Twenty years, that's pretty great. I don't think there is such a thing as the perfect marriage, but the fact that you've been married for 20 years and you have the attitude and wisdom you've shared here tells me you have what it takes. I hope I find that.

[TrueConfection]

@backdoorman That's really kind. Thank you! I'm certain you will!

[humanearth]

Just be matches to each other.
Don't change yourself for him and he shouldn't change for you. You two will change together when you two become one

Say he wants a stay at home wife and you want a career. What would you do
Say he is a bad boy and want to fix him. What would you do

Both of you trying to change for each other will just had stress and fights. Best to be with someone closer to your match. Now that's the hardest part in the world for people to do is finding the perfect match. Which you will never get, but you will know who is once it happens

[ChrisMaster69]

Really it’s both.

said it before, if people just followed the Respect, Trust, Honesty and Communication, then most relationships would be great.

for me it’s really someone that stands up to me,

but really following those four things is all I want.

[MJtheCoach]

Be married to Tiktok
Play with her phone 24/7
Nag the guy to death
When the guy is sleeping? keeping making sure to wake up and move a lot during the bed the guy is a piece of dead meat and him sleeping is bull shit
Be extremely jealous
Keep trying to change the guy while ignore your own 1 billion issues
Try to control him
Get mad when he talks or looks other girls
Be extremely lazy
Gain a lot of weight
Don’t wash or cook or clean
Lie down 25 hours a day 9 days a week

[Just_call_me_Levi]

My last girlfriend came from Colombia, to her I would've said don't be overly dramatic, why couldn't we just take it slow?, stop arguing about everything, and don't be an attention whore wherever we are.

To the Dutch girl I had a relationship with I would've said be more spontaneous, more romantic, your feelings are valid but so are mine.

The answer to your question heavily depends on the girl...

Also for the record, I was far from perfect in either relationship and can make a list of all the things I could've done better.

[GreenLanternI0I]

Most men, I should say huge majority of men are driven by two simple biological factors. Sex and leaving legacy behind (having kids) If you can fulfil ALL of his sexual needs. If you can help him to raise successful children. That type of men will carve a Golden statue dedicated to you, that type of men will build an entire city and call it your name.

[malwins]

this

[FinalFantasyBro]

Be as interested in cooking and baking as much like me, I honestly never understand why women are starting to lose interest in making food. I am a guy and love creating my own food and desserts so it would be a dream come true to find a woman who is equally excited in cooking and baking.

[t-8900]

She needs to be willing to be the main emotional support in her man's life. People just need to be willing to listen. Let your man explain himself if something bothers you before assuming and blowing up in his face about it. Being a good adult means knowing when to use your indoor voice. You're allowed to be angry but there's no reason to be hurtful and use your man as your personal, verbal, punching bag. I've sadly seen this happen too many times to couples.

[MonmonTheGreat]

I know this question was for guys but in my experience on of the most basic things you could do is to learn how to cook. You don't even have to be amazing in it, just having a warm meal waiting for them when they get home seems to make them feel appreciated.

Doing house chores without having to be asked is also a good step.

Oh and asking about their day is also a great move.

Or at least from my experience these seem to be simple/effective at making your partner happy. Being a good partner isn't that complicated in my opinion.

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

The only thing I can think of is being understanding that I’m different and she’s different and that’s a beautiful thing.
When we come together, syncing our different perspectives? We can create something phenomenal

[jiffyjeff1029]

Well don't cheat on him.
Don't make him jealous.
Don't let your parents influence you to much.
Don't make fun of him for his faults or Im-perfections.
Don't make him guess what to do when your upset with him.
Don't use sex as a weapon.
Don't with hold affection from him.

Best I can do Ma'am.

[RoccRaider24]

That's tough question. But it's a two way street, I think in a relationship especially in a marriage with kids the couple should try the best to be on the same page. Society has always been split between both genders I don't think we have much difference as men have both feminen qualities and masculine qualities. The same goes with women. If a couple could create a space where they have the freedom express both qualities to each other, you don't have to worry about being a good wife.

[Wiredone]

These go for both people.
1. The first thing is to communicate with each other.
Talk things through instead of arguing.
2. Trust each other.
3. Be honest with each other. Do say what you think the other person wants to hear.
4. Be faithful to each other.
5. Respect each other.
6. Love each other like every day is your last day on earth.
A marriage is not give and take. A marriage is both spouses giving 100% to each other.

[sensible27]

I think communication is maybe one of the things people don't feel is important enough. In a way, it's maybe the most important thing long term. Communication maybe is less about saying as much as possible and more about distilling the things you wanna say


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[Daniela1982]

Good rules to follow

[Asker]

That’s all great of you can say those things honestly

[TonyMetal___86]

A wonderful list if the wife truly means it

[Daniela1982]

And how many can?

[TonyMetal___86]

In this generation, VERY rare

[user1516]

Just be yourself. The right man will love you for how you are and who you are and within the relationship you will both grow together and change together. Within time you’ll start to notice if there is a balance within the relationship, if it’s there then he’s the one and if it’s not then kindly let go of each other and don’t waste each other’s time any more.

[Datboi65]

That's not really good advice. "Being yourself" basically means you should give him the good, the bad and the ugly. Nobody is perfect, and there's always room for improvement. From a male pov, I try to workout and stay fit, read books and learn how to communicate. It does help when you meet someone. Self-improvement is necessary.

[user1516]

I don’t know what kind of point you tried to make or why you just randomly told me a part of your personal life but what you just said is basically what I typed. I don’t know how you missed the point. Anyways..

[user1516]

How You could *

[TonyMetal___86]

Just be a good wife, respect your husband cause he is the head of the house, be fully committed to him, always keep him as your 1st priority, make him laugh, give him so much romance and sex, cook for him delicious meals and keep the house tidy and clean and do all the house chores if your a housewife and that's it...

A faithfull man will always love his wife and will only love his wife forever, she will be his everything just like he is everything to her!

[Daniela1982]

Unfortunately, there aren't too many who are willing to do those things in today's world. They are too worldly, following the created instead of the Creator.

[TonyMetal___86]

@Daniela1982 true and that's why the majority of marriages are failing...

[mobiusforniner]

Women complain that guys dont listen but in reality women are bad listeners too. I also wish my wife would defend me or back me up more. It annoys me when things are tough and she criticizes me or takes the opposing side. she's younger than me so i kind of get it. But i constantly need to help her understand this. Stand by your spouse. Dont leave him hanging even if the road is bumpy.

[TheBootyChest]

Understand him and how he thinks. Then use that when you are fighting with him. Not in a way that you use it against him, but to see it from his side. But it's VERY important that he does the same thing for you too.

[Friendlybro79]

Be a good person and always be yourself
Truly accept your spouse for who they are
Make time for each other
Don't let money become an issue to the relationship.
Always have each other's back.
Compliment each other
Let the little stuff slide
Have friends together and friends separately

Sex is obviously really important. Make sure you can trust each other and be able to really communicate wants, needs, fantasies, desires and then go and do them!

[Jay3344]

Have fun, enjoy your time together, put in the effort to communicate and improve the relationship, if you want something ask for it unless you both share some kind of psychic bond, accept faults and realize your own as well, compromise but don’t be a push over, show affection and be tender, don’t be wasteful…I mean that’s just a start…. also I’m not married, so this is ideological to me.

[Redstang88]

I’d say most of us are pretty easy to please.
Communicate when there’s something to work on before it becomes a fight (and be direct about it)
Trust
Make dinner once in a while (I’m happy to return the favour)
And don’t hold out on sex unreasonably

[notwoke]

be physically available to the man a reasonable amount, say 2x/week
maintain your body/figure reasonably, you don't have to be a supermodel but no man is thrilled when his wife is 50 lbs more than when they got married. Don't break the bank. If you do these thinks and you man is not happy, you should punch him. realize that these things are more important to a man than they are to a woman just like you have needs that he may not fully grasp the importance of

[Asker]

Great points! What do you think that men could do to be better husbands?

[notwoke]

try to understand the woman's "top 3" and do his best to deliver. Unfortunately it seems very hard to find this info. Do you have it?

[bamesjond0069]

Be sweet and caring.
Stay fit ie eat healthy exercise
Take pride in your appearance and dress nice going out but sexy AF in the house.
Be submissive and obedient to your husband.
Do the house chores and keep the house clean.
Cook new and exciting meals regularly.
Never say no to any sexual requests.

Thats about it really.

[AydenHazor]

You're opening yourself up for a world of crazy, but I'm a turn believer that both sides should set expectations and boundaries they expect to be respected and respect the other's. Communicating (again from both sides) about things before they escalate into fights is beneficial as well.

[BeenThereLovedIt]

Oh gosh that's a bit of a loaded question dependent on a person's experiences.

For instance, my wife could do a LOT, literally anything to be a better wife. In fact, there's not much worse she could do.

[Asker]

It's not at all a loaded question, the answer just depends on what the person wants.

[LatinEnergy]

Understand he needs you to be strong and patient. I fuck up all the time , my girl has patience like a kindergarten teacher lol The times that i drop the ball , she is always there ready to take the lead , doesn't happen much , but im grateful for her

[Wester1967]

Give up the exes. That stupid ass obsession with exes, "just friends" BS etc destroyed my marriage. But if you entitled modern 304s wanna still play Russian Roulette with your relationships, have at it.

[Skyliner33s]

Been there I had nightmare relationship with 304 women guess what 6.2 athletic wasn't enough 😂😂😂 at 39 and wanted to keep her options opened yeah... After 5 months she wanted back SMH

[Wester1967]

@Skyliner33s I'm also laughing my ass off that Will Smith with 300 million dollars is gettin run ragged by a 304. Jeff Bezos, richest MF in the country is reduced to dating a whore. PJ Washington 6'7" getting railed by a senorita thot. I'm like brrroooooo. I'm doing better a full foot shorter with 0.001% of their stash. It's all about the brain.

[Skyliner33s]

The lack of Walking away is bad. Will Smith ruined his life not leaving that chameleon the girl was on the CC with top bad chads I honestly feel bad for will. The power of walking away is always the ultimate move and great power. Staying single is better these days

[Ascarymanasks]

He straightforward about things, not blunt or mean but just straightforward with us. Being honest:)

[Shezadi]

Some answers are so funny!!! I love their honesty even if I don't agree with them. People really do express their subconscious mind on the internet and in writing.

[Wgatap999]

Be open-minded be able to compromise know that they're not always right. Give amazing head and be willing to accept having your partner go down on you often definitely dress sexy

[Agape93]

Have enough self respect to enforce boundaries. Strong boundaries are the bedrock of respect. Otherwise you're not a good wife, you're just a doormat, and only scum bags like doormats. Why? Because they can walk all over them until they're used up.

[SriPanty]

Respect is the first thing I see personally, be respectful, so don't look men as sexual monsters, it is accepted only if u give it heartfully else shit keep it with u, we can live still without it not a big deal and don't have a mind set that if u r beautiful every thing u can control, there are people like me as well I have never ever said any girl as beautiful because I know it will make her attitude grow..

[Kevy1738]

Going to kitchen lol, just a joke

Be there for the man she's in love, care for him, ask him little bit out, cause some man (incl. Me) aren't taking there Problems out they just keep it in, and a good woman should ask for these Problems and should go tru it with him.

[Tyric331988]

If I were to re-marry, 🤔 be honest about how you feel deep inside instead of holding onto the hurt and reflecting your anger back at the person you said you loved.😅

Be faithful, honest, kind, respectful, caring, sincere, loyal, committed, loving, understanding, communicate, be yourself,
Be real with me, try to smile more😁(tickle)😂.

[Hairylegs222]

Don't be in a bad mood too often. Respect your man. Don't be so lazy. Don't get fat, take care of your body.

[Asker]

That’s are interesting points. What do you think a man could do to be a better husband?

[Hairylegs222]

For guys I'd say: Don't control your woman but take lead gracefully. Always treat her gently emotionally. Put your huge ego away and accept that she's right sometimes and she has her own point of views. Don't have her do all the house work by herself, help her cook, dishes, laundry, etc. Respect her always and give her attention everyday.

[Asker]

Also good point but it’s interesting that there was nothing in that part about respect, being lazy, not getting fat, or taking care of his body.

[Hairylegs222]

Last sentence I said respect her. The other things I automatically do. I'm not fat, I take care of my body, and am not lazy at all. My suggestions towards wives are what women did to me or themselves in relationships I've been in.

[the_man57]

Being 20, I've obviously not been married before. That being said, I hope my wife and I have good communication and she just tells me when things aren't good so that we can work on it together

[AviatorTom]

I'm a horrible cook. Sure, I can make food that's edible, but not much more. If a wife could be a good cook, and cook meals for the two of us on a regular basis, that would be fantastic.

[TrueConfection]

Wow, you're easy! lol

[boxxie2002]

Balance the load and talk to your husband as well as your friends about what you are thinking.

If a wife tells her friend she's unhappy with something, othing is going to change... men are not mind readers

[SparklyMop7]

Get back in the kitchen. Just kidding of course.

All jokes aside, one problem my eyes had was communication. Communicate when and how you're upset. Communicate if something that we do bothers you. Communicate Communicate Communicate

[Jackblue]

Some nagging is inevitable, but try to keep it to a minimum. You don't need to yell every time you are angry, restraining negative emotions is part of what separates humans from animals.

[Iron_Man]

Be a loyal faithful loving Christian woman always. Stand behind your man be supportive and don’t always nitpick him left and right and argue all the time and don’t be a shot caller compromise

[Aakash_Hangargi]

For me it's quite simple cook food I like and kiss me take head in your lap an run your hands in my hair untill I fall sleep in your arms

[Aakash_Hangargi]

How did you changed Gears? How it came to self reflection 🪞?

[Asker]

I don’t know what you mean

[Texaskid1]

Make him tasty sandwhiches.

Stay in shape.

Provide some good booty.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

#1: Love Jesus Christ above all.
#2: Submit to her husband assuming he's a good man.
#3: Don't start drama/fights.
#4: Provide good sex.
#5: A good cook meal will be appropriated if she can cook.

[oreojap]

Stay away from feminism. Understand that marriage is a partnership with compromise not a competition.

[Markm3212]

keep making the bedroom fun by exploring new things and evolving and growing with each other

[BobbyC65]

Always be there for him no matter what he doe's whether it's bad or good. 💞

[RealMarek]

Be kind, don’t go too long without sex, be yourself.