"in the years after marriage, love ends and only respect remains?"
Since when does love end, just because you say, "I do"? Where did you hear, or read, that?
The longer I'm with my wife, the stronger our love is! We may not be in the honeymoon stage any more (after 23yrs), but that doesn't mean she and I just "respect" each other. You take that whole idea that love ends and only respect remains and toss that as far away as possible and never take it up again! EVER!
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I work as a counselor and you have no idea at how many people are lonely in their marriage, no sex at all, nothing much to talk about over the dinner table and yet they don't want to divorce because they still love each other.
Many people actually end up settling in life. I know society idealizes marriage as something that is supposed to make them feel wonderful and happy. But you need to realize that marriage is not always happy. You can still get lonely. You can end up being married to someone you're physically not attracted to at all. Someone that you haven't had sex with in 20 years.
Depends on the couple. I think many couples get married with the excitement of wanting to get married, but not really actually caring if their partner and them have a great, interesting, and long lasting relationship.
My grandparents were married for 60 years. They loved each other deeply and did everything together. When my grandfather passed away my grandmother was never truly the same after. They were each other's first and only loves, married young. Something to be said for pair bonding and witnessing it first hand. The old timers did it better and we are trying to bring in all these new ideas into relationships that aren't working. If you allow for a natural flow to occur and keep your head and priorities straight the love only grows.
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Who in the hell suggested that possibility? Love changes with time, and it is not the youthful, ardent, passionate, lustful, I-wanna-rip-your-clothes-off-and-do wicked-things-to-your-body kind of love and, yes, it is a more respectful love. . . but it is stil love.
It depends on the lvl of maturity of the parties involved and the foundation of the relationship. Plus it's highly influenced by someone's ability to manage stressful situations and jot sacrifice one's own personal life as this is by far the most influential part that's usually overlooked.
They often seem to have no connection. If you like someone you like them, if you didn't like someone maybe marriage makes you feel restricted. Or maybe you didn't really like a person and grew to really like them.
No, choices to stop putting in effort, choosing to not respect your partner and not communicating ends love. Infatuation is a feeling, love is a choice.
I think of the person I married as a lot of things I think she is my best friend, my wife, my advisor, my lover, my baby sitter lol, my motivation, my chef, mother of my children,
To me, ''love'' is not the silly picture of poetry or soapy movies.
Passion and excitement may evolve into something less 'spectacular' - but it's love nonetheless.I hope not! I can’t see how it would if you are marrying the right person
Not as long as communication, trust and respect stay forefront.
It certainly shouldn't.
I see marriage as the beginning of your journey of love.Not if you work at it. If you just get married and don’t put any work into it, you’ll definitely get tired of each other.
No. if you do it right, you can still have love after you get married.
No. One or both party/s not continuously putting effort into the relationship does.
If love would never fail or always stay, there would be no divorce lawyer jobs.
What? No! I am married and my relationship was never better.
I reckon it can but it depends on the Relationship.
no cuz the person who fall in love from his heart will never stop loving
Do get married ots just a piece of paper just like to gather
marriage is very beautiful, there is free sex, I think that love not end
It depends. Everyone have different kind of feelings and experience. Also personality.
I don’t think it does.
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