Well I can only speak from experience but.. my partner and I had been with eachother for 9 years when we got married and already had 2 kids together, been married for 1 year. I don't notice much of a difference in our relationship now we're married, apart from my last name having changed. Our relationship wasn't increased in value or anything by a peice of paper or 1 fancy special day, or a ring.. having life experiences together made it special!
I would say if you planning on having children, it is. That is the best possible scenario for them if the parents get along good as partners and don't hate each other.
Marriage the law of 50. Married you become 50% of 100 in a relationship. 50% of all marriages fail. Divorced you lose 50% of your shit. That leaves you starting as 50% of the relationship losing 50% of that so ending balance %25 of me remains. Bad investment grossly overrated.
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Probably but I don't plan on having a government marriage. I want the main thing about my marriage to be love. I don't believe we should need some piece of paper to feel committed. Plus all that government stuff scares me.
Not unless you are already both wealthy, or you are getting the better deal. But if you are both lower middle class, marriage fucks up your credit and whatnot. Making a personal vow, instead of a legal vow is better financially
It does absolutely nothing for you as a man. I have two cousins that both had children with their girlfriends in the past two years without getting married, and they’re doing just fine.
I don't think true love is a real thing. It's a mixed of lust and emotional discharge once someone stimulate you for a period of time and distracts you for your past trouble and mental struggle. Once that "stimulus" is no longer as exiting "love" proves to be a meaningless word.
@wowboi not for me, but im taken for granted and sadly have a ungrateful partner. So no one wins, sadly two people in love is a fairy tale cause one always pushes off.
I can understand why the two of you feel this way… When love doesn’t exist… it’s sadness… I hope you two heal up and find love. It starts from Self love…
Assuming it's a good man or woman then yes. Marriage is creating a family unit and family is always a good investment to have.
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Most women want to sleep around in their 20's and marry a guy of their dreams after the '30s. But eventually wanna divorce them to get free money so that they can continue fucking the guys they used to sleep around. If women give you a compliment like you are marriage material, run. She's already planning to screw you over.
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I don’t know. A lot of guys have a negative feeling towards marriage because of divorce and the aftermath of the divorce (wife takes half his money and the kids) Marriage isn’t for everyone. That’s all I gotta say…
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Well I can only speak from experience but.. my partner and I had been with eachother for 9 years when we got married and already had 2 kids together, been married for 1 year. I don't notice much of a difference in our relationship now we're married, apart from my last name having changed. Our relationship wasn't increased in value or anything by a peice of paper or 1 fancy special day, or a ring.. having life experiences together made it special!
Sadly it is not for men, or no longer is for men. When something rewards less and pays off less, you get less of it.
I would say if you planning on having children, it is. That is the best possible scenario for them if the parents get along good as partners and don't hate each other.
Marriage the law of 50. Married you become 50% of 100 in a relationship. 50% of all marriages fail. Divorced you lose 50% of your shit. That leaves you starting as 50% of the relationship losing 50% of that so ending balance %25 of me remains. Bad investment grossly overrated.
Probably but I don't plan on having a government marriage. I want the main thing about my marriage to be love. I don't believe we should need some piece of paper to feel committed. Plus all that government stuff scares me.
Not unless you are already both wealthy, or you are getting the better deal. But if you are both lower middle class, marriage fucks up your credit and whatnot. Making a personal vow, instead of a legal vow is better financially
I think so but you better pick the right person otherwise yeah you can get divorced and then you got to start all over again
It does absolutely nothing for you as a man. I have two cousins that both had children with their girlfriends in the past two years without getting married, and they’re doing just fine.
If it’s true love between 2 people to form a happy healthy family and willing to put the work in - YES!!!
I don't think true love is a real thing. It's a mixed of lust and emotional discharge once someone stimulate you for a period of time and distracts you for your past trouble and mental struggle. Once that "stimulus" is no longer as exiting "love" proves to be a meaningless word.
@wowboi not for me, but im taken for granted and sadly have a ungrateful partner. So no one wins, sadly two people in love is a fairy tale cause one always pushes off.
Aw bless you 😘
I can understand why the two of you feel this way…
When love doesn’t exist… it’s sadness…
I hope you two heal up and find love.
It starts from
Self love…
if you want to brag and make everyone feel bad about themselves, then sure. it'll build up your confidence, right?
Marriage is just a ritual. Raising a family, is tje biggest investment people make to their kids.
Good in terms of less tax here. Nothing more, especially for men.
Assuming it's a good man or woman then yes. Marriage is creating a family unit and family is always a good investment to have.
Most women want to sleep around in their 20's and marry a guy of their dreams after the '30s. But eventually wanna divorce them to get free money so that they can continue fucking the guys they used to sleep around. If women give you a compliment like you are marriage material, run. She's already planning to screw you over.
I don’t know. A lot of guys have a negative feeling towards marriage because of divorce and the aftermath of the divorce (wife takes half his money and the kids)
Marriage isn’t for everyone. That’s all I gotta say…
It depends on the person, but generally speaking it has no financial benefits. But no one really marries for financial reason, its more emotional.
worst investment ever for a man. Marriage is Ruse carried out by society so we can avoid the majority of women ending up homeless and destitute
It’s a commitment not an investment? Lol
Youth, money, effort, time, energy are forms of investments.
Its an institution of emotional loving fortitude. Investing in this type institution of agreement between two people ends in divorce.
Not to the family court.
With the right person, yes. My wife handles the personal finance, and I handle and grow our assets. Her income has helped us buy more assets.
Or just get a prenup lol and have her get a job too