I'm forced in an arrange marriage? will it be fine if I run away? or any other way in which I can stop this marriage?

[Anonymous]

police doesn't care so don't ask me to go to them

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I want to study I'm just 17 [18 soon] and my family wants me to leave everythin' aside and get married have 2 kids and yea technically become a slave or a maid

[OddBeMe]

Shit. If you’re in a non-mid east country go to the cops.

Running away will make you vulnerable to sick fcks out there. Like your parents.

[Asker]

pakistan :)
haha yea but the cops are literally worse

[OddBeMe]

Dear god. Just get out. Anyway you can. We should airlift every woman out of the Mid East asap.

[ChrisMaster69]

I think you will find it hard to get away.

also if arranged would there be problems for family if you run away?

[Asker]

ofcourse at least they won't appreciate me at this move

[ChrisMaster69]

Are their charities to help out there?

[Asker]

none

[Hetty4]

Can you go to a women’s shelter? I’m not sure which part of Pakistan you’ in but I’d recommend running away asap and going to a women’s shelter. I don’t imagine they’d ask too many questions and it will give you somewhere safe to live

[Guy__]

Can you get yourself into jail right before marriage? What's a crime that locks you up for a short period of time?

[Asker]

uhm my whole image will ruin if i go to jail

[Guy__]

Is there a way to stop marriage without ruining the image? Don't think so. Maybe choose another man you do want to marry?

[Asker]

uhhh that's what i'm saying they would prefer killing me in the name of honour killing instead of letting me marry someone of my choice
and i'm just 17

[Guy__]

If you do have a amn of your choice, is it really impossible for them to arrange a hiding place for you?

[Guy__]

If there is a man you like, have you asked them for help?

[Anonymous]

you should try convincing the other party to object to the marriage if you can

[Anonymous]

Run away to where? Do you have someone you can hide/stay with?

[Asker]

no one tbh
i don't even work :(

[Opinion Owner]

what country are you from

[Asker]

pakistan

[Opinion Owner]

Did you tell your family you don't want to get married?

[Asker]

thousand times