Should I just go for an arranged marriage?

[Anonymous]

I'm 28 years old, I'll be 29 on 2024 I've been dating since I was 17 and all my relationships end badly and I've had my heart broken more times than I could count. My last relationship ended a week ago. I thought we'd get married made plans for the future bla bla bla. A part of me is about to give up all together. Maybe I'm just not meant for love. My family has offered to introduce me to a man for marriage, should I just go for it? I really am so tired of dating and failing.

[mobiusforniner]

as terrible as it sounds, no. Don’t do that. Give yourself the opportunity to heal and grow stronger. Let yourself feel what you’re feeling and know that’s ok. Let each heartbreak make you more resilient. I know there’s a ton of shit out there telling you to move on, forget or whatever as if it’s easy. Reality is, it isn’t easy and it hurts like hell. And honestly, I’ve never really “moved on” in a forgetful sense. Each relationship left an imprint on my life and I’ve carried it forward in a way that defines a more complete “me”.

don’t cry because it’s over. Smile because it happened.

[Nik1hil]

Yes, go for it!..

Arranged isn't a forced marriage, you still get consent.

No harm at looking the option, if he has potential. make an amazing life with him..

don't look for how he is as a man. look for the potential to a life you can have with him.

[Billlewis]

I don't know, without hearing more about your situation. You're welcome to message me if you'd like to discuss this.

[boggboss]

Lol what makes u think a arranged marriage will be any better sorry?

[Staximus]

Don't marry a guy you don't know, that's beyond stupid. You obviously don't know how to pick a good guy. That's what you need to learn.

[Ironic_Method]

What makes you think an arranged marriage would be better?

[driven159]

You need to let things happen on their own do rush it

[renodnol32]

Go for it if you vibe with your potential spouse. Where are you from?

[ThrillSeeker01]

Don't give up hope. I would keep looking 🙂