If you are introduced to someone via the arranged marriage route and its a yes, how far ahead in the future would you see yourself as married?

[htmndg183]

6 month? A year? 2 years? Please don't answer if this doesn't apply to you. Thank you.

[Elony]

5 years, honestly its impssible for me to accept arranged m. Because i must be not falling in love with the person even when our marriage has just been going on or he is not my type , not compatible emotionally, experience, psychologically, mainly sexually , n physically. I will surely run away from my parents even they are too good loyal to me, the best parents ever been, i will take my own partner to get married somewhere else secretly in front of God so i will not be cursed or given any consequences in front of God, well arranged m. Is unacceptable for me. Because not my parents who will have sex with that person every day, every year but me, and who will not deal with that person forever. It will be my suffering not theirs..🙂🙂

[htmndg183]

Arranged marriage isn't forced. What if you are introduced to someone by your parents and they think you'd be a good match? You spend time with him and feel there's a connection and its reciprocated from his end and then mutually decide that you both want to get married.

[Sarahr123]

There is someone I have in mind as you know but I don’t realistically see myself getting married until probably summer of 2025 at the earliest. So ideally August or November 2025.

[DaisyM23]

well I would want to get to know him properly for at least a year or so then get engaged so I would want at least 3ish years before marriage - obviously not now, maybe in like 10+ years - but even then, I don't care too much about marriage

[LovingLoverReturned]

4 years ahead , currently... because that's when I want kids. I have to imagine what type of dad they will be before I marry them. But if I meet who I'm about to marry from age 25 then I would only image 1-2 years ahead. :)

[Hafia_xo]

As soon as tbh. I don’t wanna sin

[htmndg183]

There must be some time frame in mind in order to get to know him and be sure you want to marry him.

[Hafia_xo]

You said “if it’s a yes”
If it’s a yes from us then get nikkah done asap. If it wasn’t a yes then obvs next guy thanks

[htmndg183]

True. Just realised now lol.